What and how to give to men
Even the closest people often find it difficult to pick up gifts. This is especially true for men. Avoiding platitudes, women often spend hours leafing through catalogs of online stores, wandering around shopping centers, looking through articles on a relevant topic.
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How to choose a gift for a man
If you know the tastes and interests of a man well, then do not risk choosing something new, but choose a practical gift that the birthday boy will definitely like. If at the same time the gift is also cool, then the man will definitely appreciate it.
You can arrange a rally with the presentation of comic gifts, which affects the interests and hobbies of the birthday person. A man will appreciate the special attention to his employment, and your congratulations will be bright, memorable and unexpected. When presented correctly, the gift can be completely ordinary and practical things. More on this later.
For general information, we have given the basic rules of good manners when congratulating and presenting gifts.
If the birthday person is a colleague, then no doubt you can give high-quality sorts of coffee and tea, sweets, and tea utensils. In any case, the gift should be versatile and non-binding.
You cannot give very expensive gifts to colleagues or friends. If a reciprocal gesture is necessary, the birthday person will have to choose: to give the same too valuable gift or not to break the rules of good manners. Remember to always remove price tags from gifts, but keep receipts from purchases in case of sudden breakdown or undetected marriage.
By the way, the gift shouldn't be anonymous. Anonymous courtesies are only allowed on Valentine's Day. Gifts for February 14 can be more personal and romantic. But remember that this will become a pleasant memory if you are at least half sure of the reciprocity of a potential partner.
Clothes can only be given to very close people. And only if you are sure that the chosen thing will not be right next to its future owner.
Household appliances can also be gifted only to those closest to you. In other cases, it is given only at the request of the birthday person.
It is not customary to give sweets and flowers to men. If the birthday person is a colleague, then a female colleague should not give a man a tie. This gesture usually indicates the expectation of some kind of relationship, this can put a man and all witnesses in an awkward position.
The rules of good manners require even superstitions and omens to be taken into account.
- You can not give a clock (including wall clocks), knives and handkerchiefs. One leads to parting, the second leads to a quarrel, the third leads to tears.
- Based on superstition, you need to put a coin in wallets and purses.
- Also, icons, pearls and mirrors are not given, no matter how close friends you are, the birthday person may be alerted by such gifts.
Gift ideas for men
As already said, if served correctly, almost any practical thing can be a good gift, be it a money clip, a bottle of good wine or a humidifier.
An interesting gift is a Turk. Fortunately, many of the men drink coffee. And the Turks rarely give them gifts. In order to present such a gift to a birthday man, most likely you will have to order a Turk in an online store. You can complement this gift with good varietal coffee.
A set of branded knives is a wonderful gift, but you need to be careful with it. Knives, like watches, are considered a bad omen as a gift to a beloved man. Therefore, such a gift is suitable for a friend or relative who does not believe in omens, at least in bad ones. Be sure to ask about this in advance. Below we have provided a list of gifts. Many of them can be presented to both a loved one and a colleague.
Gift book for a man
In this case, you need to consider the choice of a gift thoughtfully and, most importantly, start searching for a suitable book in advance, because, perhaps, you will need to order it in the online store. An uninteresting book, which was bought for the sake of a beautiful cover or is of an edifying nature, will become a replenishment of the collection of “the most disastrous gifts”. Choose something that intersects with the birthday person's interests. It is worth asking in advance what he usually reads, what films he watches. Perhaps biographical or documentary prose will suit him.
Accessories for men as a gift
Fancy porcelain / glass / silver ashtray, money clip, lighter. In this case, the main thing is that the gift looks expensive and is appropriately packed.
Particular attention should be paid to leather goods. It can be either a purse or a bag. Genuine leather is always a good practical gift. A gift made of genuine leather will emphasize your exquisite taste and special attitude towards the birthday person.
A flask for alcoholic beverages can be considered a truly masculine gift. In addition, on the Internet you can find flasks with really interesting designs.
Gift-impression for a man
Interesting gift options.
Tickets for concerts / performances / exhibitions
It is worth emphasizing that there must be two tickets. In another case, you may put the birthday person in an awkward position, since he will have to buy a second ticket for a friend / wife or look for someone who wants to keep a company among friends. Be sure to ask the birthday boy about his musical tastes. It is best to do this through friends, otherwise the man can easily guess your intentions.
Useful gift certificates
If the birthday person is your relative or close friend who has a wedding planned in the near future, then certificates for photo or video filming of the upcoming celebration will do. In other cases, you can choose a certificate from almost any store or salon: a hunting and fishing store, a grocery store, a sports club, a men's store, etc. One has only to choose the most suitable option.
You can opt for a ticket for a joint massage as a gift, in which case make sure that the birthday person has a second half, if the birthday person is not your sweetheart.
Entertainment tickets are a gift that will bring new impressions to the birthday boy. But at the same time, try to still choose something close to the interests of a man.
Even if you live in a small town, you can present a certificate or a ticket for such entertainment as: flying in a wind tunnel, karting, playing paintball, lecture-tasting of port wines. These types of entertainment are present even in small towns, and you are sure to find something suitable. Even if the nearest wind tunnel is in a neighboring city, it will be a great occasion for the birthday person to spend the weekend with fun and benefit.
The lottery ticket is a symbolic neutral gift. You can also choose from a whole collection of lottery tickets. Despite the fact that this is an inexpensive and suitable gift, a man will erase the codes with a coin with interest, in anticipation of winning. This is an emotional rather than a semantic gift. It can be an addition to the main present.
A flash drive with a perfectly matched playlist is an unusual idea that practically does not require material investments.
A man can use this gift both in the car and at home. This is truly an original and memorable gift, but worth the effort. If you are sure that you know the tastes of the birthday person well, then feel free to start selecting songs. Moreover, both new compositions and completely forgotten ones are suitable.
Gadgets as a gift for a man
Every man is passionate about technology. Of course, this interest is expressed to varying degrees, but there are always many reasons for gifts-gadgets. You can ask friends of the birthday boy about his preferences. Probably, he would like to get some specific gadget, and, perhaps, he will be happy with simple stereo or wireless headphones. "Sensory" gloves will be a great addition to a gift, but do not forget about the high cost of the gift, which we talked about at the beginning of the article!
Alcohol as a gift for a man
A bottle of good wine with long-term aging, bourbon, gin - whatever you like, the main thing is that it should be included in the sphere of "alcoholic" interests of the birthday man. It is imperative to buy such a gift in company stores that can provide certificates and licenses. Ideal if the gift bottle has a branded original packaging. If it is wine, then you can supplement the gift with a special wooden gift container for storing wine drinks. If this is any other alcohol, then you can also donate a set of appropriate dishes (rock, glasses, etc.).
Gift for a man to a motorist
If you still do not know what to give a man, then most likely he has everything. And the man, who has everything, also has a car. In the modern world, there are many gadgets and accessories for the car that you may not even know about. An air ionizer, a mini-vacuum cleaner for cleaning a car interior, a seat cover - all this can be a useful full-fledged gift.
Giving a gift to a man
It doesn't matter if you have prepared an expensive or symbolic gift, you can pick up an original, but cheaper item for any.
A dish you have prepared or something you have made with your own hands is the perfect complement to your gift for a loved one. Thanks to this, the birthday person will receive not only the necessary thing, which, perhaps, has long wanted, but also bright emotions and a feeling of a special attitude towards him.
You can also add a letter to the gift: express in prose your feelings that you have for it.
Remember, any gift should be well-wrapped and dignified. It is best if it is thick paper and plain tape. In this case, it will be much more pleasant for the birthday person to open a gift than just taking out a thing from a gift bag bought in a nearby supermarket.
And also do not forget about the high cost of things: even if you can afford to give very valuable gifts, make sure that the birthday person is not embarrassed. It's better to opt for cheaper alternatives than seeing the awkward expression on your man or coworker's face on his birthday.
Pick the right addition, write a letter, attach a homemade postcard or a book of your moments, congratulate the man with the kindest words - that's all you need to do to make your congratulations remember as kind, elegant and appropriate.