How to respond to insults

Rude and boorish persons can meet us everywhere - in transport, shop, on the street. And sometimes in the interview, but mostly it's part of the interview. Thus, the boss wants to find out if you know how to smooth out conflicts and how to get out of such situations. Therefore, in the article we will give valuable advice on how to respond to the offender and not harm yourself.

How beautiful to respond to an insult

You are not obliged to be ready for any situation, but it is necessary to respond beautifully and wittily to boorish behavior towards you. The old method "Ignoring" does not work. The behavior of the "primate" may be unjustified, and he just needs to throw out and feed on someone else's energy. Therefore, they will definitely try to piss you off. This is where the calm technique comes in. This will infuriate the boor. He just won't understand why you are so calm. After all, he wanted to achieve a different result. Thus, he will lose interest in you and try to find another victim.

There is another way to defend your honor - respond with humor or sarcasm. But it is worth doing this only when you are sure that the interlocutor will be defeated. Therefore, memorize a couple of phrases that are suitable for all occasions, for example:

• Thank you! You opened my eyes to my flaws. In the evening I'll think about it.
• Apparently the rubber band on the baby cap was tightly tightened and prevented your brain from developing.
• From rudeness you create a nasty amber.
• The deeper into the forest, the angrier the deer.
• Look - this is a skirting board. Just your level.

You can come up with your own phrases, but without obvious insults. It takes a subtle hint to make boor ponder. Then he will lose the thread of thought and become confused.

Another amazing technique is the glance response. But training is needed here. Contemplation of the interlocutor should take place under a heavy, deep gaze. Look directly into the eyes and in no case take them away. Think of the savannah beasts like the lion. He can look at his opponent for so long that he can win without a fight. This is exactly how you need to act. Believe me, you yourself will be completely delighted with what happened and even get a charge of positive emotions.

Is it worth responding to the insult or is it better to ignore

You need to act depending on the situation. Sometimes it is worth keeping silent or pretending that you do not even understand who the rudeness is addressed to. For example, middle-aged women like to scandalize on the bus or subway. You are seeing this person for the first and, we hope, the last time in your life. Waste your energy on such people is not worth it. Keep calm.

And you can and should answer those people who are constantly trying to hurt you. Quite often there are quarrelsome employees or neighbors. This is where your soul can roam and fight back. Then the person will understand that you should not be contacted. Since he will knowingly know that he will fail and be humiliated. Agree, no one wants to be exposed to ridicule.

Therefore, analyze the situation, assess the actions of your opponent, and only then make a decision.