Why a man doesn't want sex

Often women are confident that a man is always ready to have sex with joy. And the refusal of intimate pleasures is perceived as an incredible event, indicating the presence of serious problems in a couple. In fact, this may turn out to be true, or it may have a very simple logical explanation.

The main reasons why a man does not want sex

In reality, the picture in modern society is somewhat different. More and more men refuse intimacy, and they do it more often than their companions. Almost half of the men are engaged in having sex only once every two weeks. What could be the problem:

• Strenuous work, exposure to stress and habitual overwork do not in the best way affect the sexual activity of men. Men who own their own businesses especially suffer from this. For them, problems at work are perceived much more acutely, work takes away from such men not only physical, but also mental strength, and love joys fade into the background.
• Another common cause is health problems. In particular, the intake of antidepressants affects the decrease in sex drive. Trying to escape depression, men get problems of a sexual nature. Also, heart disease and metabolic disorders directly affect the decrease in sexual activity.

• Another reason for the decline in the quantity and quality of love pleasures is the filling of free time with computer games, telephones, social networks and other achievements of modern science. As you know, the Internet is a powerful time eater. Having been captured by social networks and playing tanks, men can no longer find either the time or the energy for sex.
• Lack of understanding, constant quarrels and scandals, clarification of relationships with her husband also do not contribute to an active sex... If you constantly "nag" your husband, do not be surprised if in bed he turns his back to you. Also, you should not show excessive care and turn from a loving wife to an equally loving mom.

• The last possible reason is sex still present in the life of a man, and he can be very active, but not with you. Maybe your man is tired of you as a woman and he found himself a new toy on the side.

What to do if a man doesn't want sex

At first, try to simply bring the man to a frank conversation and find out the reasons for the fading of your sex life. At the same time, try not to drag your husband to bed, but really find out the reasons for what is happening. Get ready for the fact that your partner will not be ready for such a conversation, will try to curtail it. In this case, you will have to take some steps based only on your own observations.

Have a romantic evening. Everything here follows the traditional scenario - send the children to their grandmother, cook a delicious dinner, light candles, etc. Just do it on a day off when your spouse is not busy with work and not thinking about business. By the way, do not start talking about business and problems at this time, it is better to remember pleasant moments from your past life.

If the reason is too much workload and constant exposure to stress, then the solution here is very simple - go on vacation. This will not only improve your personal life, but also restore the strength lost at work and undermined health. In doing so, make sure that all communications remain at home. Leave only your mobile phone, it is enough for the trip. Rest will force your man to abandon his usual work environment and he will inevitably reach for other pleasures.

The undermined health undoubtedly needs treatment. Usually, men postpone a visit to the doctor until the last, hoping that all sores will go away by themselves. But you know that without proper treatment, nothing will change. Therefore, if you suspect a deterioration in health, then try to show your spouse to a doctor.

If your husband refuses sexual entertainment in favor of a computer, then you should talk seriously. Try to agree on a certain amount of time for technical entertainment. Then you can spend your free time in bed for a more interesting lesson.

If the reason is in your behavior, then you have to work on yourself. Do not try to drag a man into bed every day, rather take care that sexual intimacy was passionate and memorable. If you are accustomed to always and in everything to control and take care of your husband, then it is very simple to fix it - stop patronizing him in everything. Let him take care of himself, even if a man makes a mistake several times in something, all the same, in the end, he will succeed.

The most intractable problem is the presence of a mistress. Here the decisions must be cardinal. You will either have to break off a relationship that has long outlived itself, or accept the rules of the game and also have a lover.