Everyone should try it

Each person is born with a specific mission that he needs to fulfill during his life. As a rule, this realization comes at the age of 14-20 years. Then there is a powerful concentration on the goal, and everything else somehow fades against this background. In this article, we will look at the top 9 things that every woman must do to feel like one. So, sit comfortably, grab a pen with a notebook and write down so as not to miss or forget anything.

Experiments with appearance

When talking about experiments with your own appearance, you should never forget about the rationality of the approach itself. In general, radical pictures can be observed much more often: there is a group of girls who don’t do anything with themselves, and even if the results are not very successful, they rejoice at the experience, as well as those for whom an elementary change of the color palette of shadows is akin to a disaster. Of course, it is not for everyone to change dramatically, and to do it instantly, without weighing all the pros and cons, is somehow wrong. Analyze your appearance, define your color type, your body type, study the tips of stylists. And even better, if there is such an opportunity, go to an "appointment" to a specialist in person and ask for advice. Based on the data obtained, you can build your new image, gradually moving to it.

We're talking about changes that are in no way related to plastic surgery. And if so, then there is nothing to be afraid of! Do not be afraid to cut your hair - it can always grow back, do not be afraid change the color of your curls- it can always be changed in the other direction, in the most extreme case, at any time you can grow your own color... There are a lot of options, just show your imagination! Many will say that in constant experiments you can spoil your hair and remain with a washcloth on your head. Yes, if you use cheap cosmetics of suspicious quality in this implementation, apply paint with ammonia, then this is exactly the outcome of the experiments. If you take trusted manufacturers who have proven themselves on the positive side, and do everything wisely, then this does not threaten any negative consequences. In addition, you can always provide your hair, face and body with a decent care with masks that will help you recover.

While you are young, while you are full of energy - experiment with yourself, learn and become only more beautiful every day and year.

Boost your self-esteem

The problem of low self-esteem is the real scourge of our time. Fashion trends coupled with glossy magazines, interviews with well-known fashion experts, the Internet and in general everything, everything says how wonderful it is to have XXXL breasts and corresponding appetizing hips, that 180 is the standard, and the lips must be like Jolie's, size legs no more than 36, the legs themselves from the ears, etc. From all this, not only does the head swell, but also self-esteem is rapidly deflated. There is no girl who by nature would correspond to all the established parameters, but most of the ladies, alas, are unaware of this. So the scenarios called "I'm ugly!" Begin to play out.

The paradox of the standards being created even lies in the fact that the “ideal” indicators are taken one at a time from completely different people, which again suggests the stupidity of the reference idea. Therefore, it is much easier to throw this rubbish out of your head and start loving yourself the way nature has created. People are initially harmonious in themselves, and the attempt to “pump out there” and “stick it in here” is nothing more than disfiguring.

At first glance, the level of self-esteem does not greatly affect the quality of life, but if you dig deeper, it becomes clear how fatal such a psychological state can be. An insecure and underestimating person is missing out on many opportunities that life gives. And this, in turn, entails a whole chain of events that do not have the best effect on the life of the individual. To get the most out of life, be sure to improve your self-esteem and acquire a healthy selfishness!

Break away to the fullest

Work-home-work-home-vacation-work-home - the usual "schedule" of the average inhabitant of the earth. Boring, isn't it? But in order to do a good job, you need to have a productive rest. Everyone rests in their own way, but every lady is obliged to come off to the fullest, of course, before marriage, so as not to engage in divorce proceedings later... Set aside some time, preferably a few days, make a break-off plan and off you go! Let it be a shame for something later, but, as they say, life must be lived in such a way that it is pleasant to remember and ashamed to tell.

Buy a chic dress

Coco Chanel also talked about the need for every woman to have a little black dress in her wardrobe. But how many women around the world are looking at glossy magazines or getting acquainted with the shows of famous couturiers and drooling over chic outfits that can only be dreamed of? But stop dreaming - it's time to act! Did you like the dress? Buy it! Let not immediately, let it be later, but buy it. Make a savings plan and let it be yours. Get an outfit that makes you stunning.

Another interesting option is to sew a custom-made dress, according to your own imagination and your own taste. This way you will also be unique.

Why is it about the dress? Because it is in these clothes that a woman becomes a woman, charm and sophistication appear. Love yourself and indulge your femininity from time to time.

Make friends

Girlfriends for every woman are a versatile tool. You can hang out with them, they can cry, in difficult times they will support, in good times they will rejoice for the company, build a plan of insidious revenge, wash the bones of “that redhead from the neighboring department”. These are psychologists and generators of happy events rolled into one - so every girl must have a girlfriend, or at least a girlfriend!

Fall in love at first sight

Falling in love inspires, it allows you to see the world in different, brighter and more saturated colors. When a person falls in love, he becomes better, strives for self-improvement, begins to pay attention to that to which he has never reacted in any way. If we talk about a woman, then all this is amplified several times - a lady in love blooms, begins to take care of herself, carefully monitors her appearance. A pleasant inner transformation takes place, from which everyone feels good.

Falling in love at first sight is somewhat different. This feeling, which arises "here and now", is lightning fast, when somewhere in the stomach there is an explosion, spreading a wave of heat throughout the body. Feeling euphoric makes something inexplicable. Words cannot describe it, it can only be experienced. Do not deny yourself such happiness, stop being serious even for a moment and allow yourself a little simple childish naivety.

Break up with a guy

What are the benefits of a relationship? In the first and main case, this is an invaluable experience! Nowadays, there are rarely couples where each is the first and the last. Before true love "to the grave", the average woman builds relationships with dozens of men, and this is quite natural. With each new guy, a new experience is gained, which is put into the woman's piggy bank. Thus, she prepares herself for the one to which she will be ready to apply all the skills she has acquired.

It is unnecessary to confuse and say that a woman who has had many men will inevitably become easily accessible. Firstly, the relationship does not at all mean that everything will come to bed, secondly, the duration of the relationship can be very different, and thirdly, of course, it all depends on what time the woman got married, fourthly, and the most the main ones, it is not at all necessary to tell everyone and everyone, and even more so to your husband, about your experience. But there is no need to grieve that there were “too many” males. Live, draw on experience and apply it in practice, trying not to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Become a wife

Contrary to all the dogmas about female monogamy, it must be said that the weaker sex is just as polygamous as the strong, but only the former can curb their passionate impulses and desires, unlike the latter. But one of the main destinations of a woman is to be close to one single and beloved one, those who want to cook breakfasts and dinners, waiting for the tired one to come home, those with whom they want to fall asleep and wake up.

Here quantity does not replace quality in any way. It's just that a relationship, even if it lasts for years, will never give that feeling when a stamp in a passport warms the soul. But it is unnecessary to exaggerate and agree to the proposal of the first comer, the whole point is to become the wife of the best, the most beloved and, in general, the very, very. Therefore, take your time, but do not refuse if you feel that he is the one who is needed.

Become a mother

If you can argue with the points listed above, somewhere to correct and modify something, then you cannot argue with this in any way. A woman may not build a career - and this is normal, because we are the weaker sex, but a child is simply obliged to be. Every woman has a maternal instinct that must be realized. Otherwise, by the age of forty, there is an obsessive desire to have that very crowd of cats and take care of them - this is the most that neither is the realization of the mother's innate instinct. By the way, psychologists have proven that a midlife crisis in women is much easier and with the least consequences if a lady has a child. All this happens on a subconscious level, so many may not know this, but the state of affairs does not change from this.