The main dating rules that will make the process more enjoyable

The first date is just an acquaintance, in a short period of time the guy and the girl should understand how pleasant they are to each other, whether there is a prospect of further relationship. A woman, armed with certain rules of behavior, on a date can use it to her advantage, win over a young man so that he continues courtship. Demonstrate your interest in the male in both verbal and non-verbal ways.

How to behave on a date

• Let the young man decide where the meeting will take place. Let him take the initiative and feel like he is “leading,” but note that a nightclub or disco is not a good place for a first date. But a conversation over a cup in a museum or a trip to an exhibition will help you get to know the man better.
• Relax, behave and look as natural as possible, you do not need to immediately run to the beauty salon, especially if this is unusual for you.
• Respect the man and do not allow yourself to be more than 5-10 minutes late, he may think that you are not a serious person.
• If you turn off the phone, the guy will definitely understand that you take your date and future relationships quite seriously.
• Often when communicating, there is a problem of finding topics for conversation? Show your intelligence or pretend to be "blonde"? Again, remain calm and neutral, do not argue with the man foaming at the mouth, but express your point of view. Be on his wave, it should be easy with you.
• Often there are pauses in the conversation, let it not be an awkward silence, but only a minute when the guy admires you. You don't have to come up with themes and entertain him, he may just want to be quiet.
• Smile mysteriously and listen carefully, let the guy think what's on your mind.
• Do not arrange interrogation, ask a few general questions, when you understand what topic is close to the interlocutor, develop it. Give your opinion about the movie or play you watched.
• Finish date First, even if you liked everything, come up with a reasonably good reason, such as getting up to work early. Be sure to say you had a great time.
• Don't settle for anything more than a light kiss on the cheek or lips. Sex on the first date shouldn't happen if you are determined to keep the conversation going.

How to please a man in one evening

Do not neglect the initial stage of dating. As soon as the man has asked you out on a date, show your interest, but at the same time, do not show your desire to meet too actively, you do not need to talk about how lonely you are and yearn to get married, and it is also not recommended to agree to visit the first person you meet. ... Guys like simple and straightforward girls, but you must keep some mystery.

Understand that for a serious relationship, beauty and showiness are not enough for a man; they dream of an understanding life partner who will share his interests and be a good mother to his children.

To please, you can subtly ask the guy for advice, but he should not be too personal. For example, if a man plays sports, it would be appropriate to ask which fitness room you should go to. He will surely appreciate your impulse and feel useful.

If we talk about non-verbal ways of attracting attention, the following methods can help:

• A raised eyebrow can mean interest in the interlocutor.
• This is also signaled as if by accidental touches with an elbow or palm. Even a welcoming handshake or hug is conducive to a more intimate conversation.
• If you are genuinely sympathetic to a person, chances are you will unknowingly touch your face. Such a gesture indicates a desire for intimacy with a man.
• A direct gaze and a straight back will show the interlocutor how confident you are, most often this trait is attractive to men.

Common mistakes on a first date

Now let's talk about the most common mistakes that ladies make on first date:

• Try to look impeccable, but natural, without frills and "vulgarity". Neat makeup, clean hair, neat clothes - the minimum program. If you are not confident in your abilities, resort to the help of a more experienced friend, mom or professional makeup artist.
• Do not try on the mask of a seducer, a man will definitely feel false in his behavior. And even if he likes the image, the fact that you are cheating will definitely become unpleasant for the guy.
• Trying to show their sincerity, many ladies start talking about their former partners, this is a big mistake. It doesn't matter in what light you present past novels, any man wants to be the first and only, and not the next copy in the "track" list.
• Don't be chatty, this turns off most young people.
• Be discreet, do not inject with questions and avoid topics about financial situation, otherwise the man will have the feeling that you are looking for a sponsor.
• Make compliments very carefully, do not over praise, otherwise you will get the impression that you are head over heels in love, and on the first date this is inappropriate.
• Excessive shyness will not be your plus either. If you constantly hide your eyes and look around, the interlocutor will think that you are simply not interested.
• At the end of the meeting, don't hint at the next date or show interest, it's just indecent.