How and why a man tries to cause jealousy

Each of us managed to experience jealousy at least once in our lives. And everyone has their own: to parents, to brothers, sisters, to friends or to a loved one. This is such an uncontrollable feeling that it arises suddenly and it is sometimes impossible to control it, it literally gnaws from the inside. And often the culprit of your jealousy is a person who involuntarily, or even deliberately provokes it.

How a man provokes jealousy

“The less we love a woman, the easier she likes us” is a phrase that was said many years ago and has not lost its relevance to this day. Moreover, the overwhelming majority of men are sure that this is true.

Light flirting in front of your eyes, mysterious phone calls, compliments to unfamiliar girls - these actions have only one motive - to attract your attention. After all, he, so irresistible and popular in female society, will not be left alone in any case. You may not want to, there are more accommodating options. But, as a rule, these options remain far beyond the horizon.

You broke up a long time ago, perhaps even you, and he already has a new relationship, everyone is quite happy, but the feeling of ownership does not give him rest. Especially if you were the initiator of the breakup. This is revenge on you for a blow to your pride. Yes, he quickly found a replacement for you, but in general he does not mind returning you, even if not for long.

Gusts of revenge in general very often provoke base feelings, it is important to remember that revenge is a bad counselor for both women and men.

Why does a man need a woman's jealousy

So, he achieved his goal, an indomitable feeling of jealousy leaped into you, you cannot fight him and only one question arises: what next?

Every second man himself will not be able to answer you this question. If this was an attempt to prove to you that he is irresistible, then according to his logic, now you certainly should be together, but do you need it?

Insecure men can deliberately make a woman jealous in order to test how much you love him and are afraid of losing him. Not the best way, of course, but you were jealous of him, right?

A man leads to jealousy - what to do

As practice shows, all of the above actions that can wake up the beast-owner in you, occur if age plays in a man, a huge number of complexes and "a stigma in the gun." First, figure out which of the following applies to your situation.

Jealousy can ruin any relationship, even the strongest one. Do not give in to this feeling, so as not to be led not only by your man, but also by your emotions. Learn to control yourself, analyze the situation. After all, you clearly see that he evokes all these feelings in you on purpose.

Talk to a man. Explain the situation to him, tell him what does not suit you in his actions and, perhaps, he himself admits that he did it on purpose. In a relationship built on strong love and trust, there is no place for such low feelings. And if you have not been together for a long time, but he managed to arouse jealousy in you, think - maybe it is worth returning everything? After all, the best sign of indifference to a person is when there are absolutely no feelings, even jealousy.