How men deal with breakups

Often parting from dear and loved human given not so easy as women, So and men. But why process rehabilitation at us can drag on on the of the year, but at strong half of humanity sad blues passes, not you will have time and by the eye to blink?

Is the man going through the breakup

Is the man going through the breakup? Of course yes! Big and small, strong and fragile, but we are all subject to emotions, and when the beloved woman leaves the handsome handsome man, in no time he becomes a small and defenseless boy. Not is worth think what men withoutemotional, simply they are skillfully hide his pain per mask strength and masculinity.

Psychology of a man after parting

Psychologists have come to the conclusion that for men, separation is a serious stress. Primarily because of the secrecy of the male nature. From childhood, boys are taught not to cry or whine, and so they keep most of their emotions in themselves. Here we, girls, can cry to our friends, consult with them, and men are more likely to drink hard to fill their wounds, or go to the gym to smash their fists on a punching bag. In all of these examples there is an adrenaline rush, but not in all of them emotional release.

How men behave after parting

Much depends on the conditions under which you broke up, in what state your relationship was at that moment, but there are several typical manners of a man's behavior in the event of a breakup with his beloved woman.

• Let's stay friends

If your man invites you to remain friends, this means that during your relationship you have become a very close and dear person to him and he is not ready to let you go right away. Often in such a friendship, you remain for him a "spare airfield" to which you can return in case of failure with a new girlfriend.

• Burning all the bridges

He deletes all your contacts, perhaps asks you to do the same. He will never speak at a casual meeting and will not look in your direction. This happens if you have caused a man serious pain and he still cannot recover from it. You shouldn't impose your communication on him.

• Into revelry

There are men who think that short-term relationships and small intrigues will help them forget about parting with their beloved woman. Sex brings them physical pleasure, but cannot fill the spiritual void.

Why do men come back after breaking up

• Rash act

The most common option when the decision to part ways was made impulsively - they quarreled and slammed the door. Usually such hot macho macho come back very quickly.

• Thirst for new

Some, fed up with the life of a married man, mired in work, repairs, children and household routine, try to escape and find fresh and thrill. They want a light flirtation, but after walking up to their fullest they always want to return to the "safe haven".

• Comparison with another

It so happens that you have been together for many years and everything has become mundane and gray. And here another appears on the way. New emotions, a different structure of life, but at one point the man realizes that you were better: you cooked better, knew the size of his shirts and did not control his private messages and calls. And here he comes to you with a white flag.

• "Dog in the manger"

As soon as you have moved away from a difficult breakup and started a different relationship, then your ex sees you with a new boyfriend and a feeling of jealousy boils in him. For him, by all means, it is important to return you, but not because he loves you, but out of self-esteem.

Not is worth think what men withoutemotional, simply they are skillfully hide his pain per mask strength and masculinity.