"First time": deprivation of virginity

Every young girl who hasn't had sex, wonders how many years it is better to lose virginity. Some are looking for an answer on the Internet, others run to a gynecologist, and still others look at their girlfriends or classmates. So, in this article we will talk about when, how and whether it hurts the first time.

When you can lose your virginity

In fact, no one will give an exact answer to the question "when is it better to lose the hymen." Because this is a purely individual matter. If you turn to the Internet or specialists with such a question, then some will say that the ideal age is from 15 to 19 years old (however, this does not mean that you need to jump into bed before the onset of 20 years, so that   keep within this framework), other doctors will answer that the longer you endure and wait, the better for you. Therefore, you must decide this matter for yourself. Many girls try to get rid of the “virgin” stigma as soon as possible, thinking that they are getting older, smarter and better, and are deprived of it at a very early age, from 14 to 16 years. Others, on the contrary, are waiting for the very thing: the one and only, for which they cherish their virginity, such can wait up to 25 years. There are still others, of whom scares or does not attract sexual contact, such can lose their innocence at the age of 30 or even more. When thinking about when it is better to do this, you should adhere to some aspects.

• The decision should only be yours! You do not need to do this for someone, if you are not ready, and your partner insists, it is better to refuse so that you will not regret it later. This is what you should want, not someone else.
• The most important thing in this business, between you and your significant other, is trust. If you trust your young man, then this is a huge plus in your relationship.
• There is no need to dwell on this issue. This is more of a psychological aspect than a physiological one. Everything will happen much faster than you think about it.
• You should not imitate your friends, or classmates (classmates) who are no longer virgins. It was their decision, but you can wait, and you will perfectly understand when your moment will come.

How to lose virginity

If you still decide that it's time, then you should think about how to turn everything around. Indeed, for many, the first time is a rather serious step and a big event in life. To begin with, it is worth discussing everything with your soul mate, you need to inform him that he is your first sexual partner. If he knows that you are still innocent, he will be fixated on you, on your feelings, and try to do everything very carefully and slowly, so as not to hurt you, and not to leave bad memories of this day and sex generally. It is best if your first sexual contact will happen at home, on the bed. It is advisable that at this moment there is no one at home, so as not to distract attention, and so that you do not expect that someone at any moment can break into your room and ruin everything. You should relax do not get nervous, do not pinch and do not be shy - then everything will go off with a bang. Initially, it is best to start with petting, then the excitement will be great enough not to think about pain or anything else. If suddenly, something went wrong, then you should not despair and try to do everything as quickly as possible, no matter what. You can just try again later or the next day. By the way, there are girls who are afraid (embarrassed) to tell the young man that they are virgins, or who are embarrassed that the guy will see blood for the first time. Such people want to think about them that the girl already knows everything and may be that she is no longer a virgin. For such, there is an option that they can lose their innocence themselves, having fun sexy toys... But here it is imperative to use a lubricant, otherwise there will be pain. You can also remove the hymen surgically, using a special, rather painless and quick operation.

Does it hurt to lose virginity

This question is also quite relevant for innocent girls. Having read various horror stories, they think that the loss of the hymen is very painful, very bloody, and therefore they are in no hurry to part with it. All sorts of thoughts begin to think, one is more terrible than the other, they get nervous, squeezed and in the end it turns out that the first sexual contact is torture for them.

But let's look at the situation from the other side. In fact, the answer to this question is very ambiguous. In all people, the body is arranged in its own way, so some girls feel a little pain during the first sex, while others do not worry about pain. What does it depend on? Well, for example, it may depend on the genitals of your young man- if his penis is large, and yours is narrow there, then naturally it will be a little painful to lose innocence. In general, girls who go in for sports or use tampons during menstruation have already partially torn the hymen. In this case, pain is very unlikely. Also, the pain during the first time is influenced by the reaction of your body to pain during injuries, cuts, if during injuries the pain does not bother you, then most likely it will not disturb you during the first sexual contact.

In order for the deprivation of innocence to pass painlessly, it is necessary to thoroughly caress each other before direct contact, so that get excited, and that sufficient lubricant is released. After all, the more lubrication, the easier it is for a man to penetrate you, and the less (or even not at all) pain will be at this moment. If there is not enough lubricant, you can use a special lubricant from the pharmacy, or condoms with lubrication.

Is it possible to get pregnant for the first time

A fairly large number of people believe that it is impossible get pregnant during the first sexual experience. It's a delusion! A girl can become pregnant from the moment she has her period. And the first sexual intercourse is absolutely no different from the subsequent ones. Therefore, to avoid unplanned pregnancy, you must protect yourself. Condoms are the best method the first time around. But they should also be chosen wisely. If the girl is a virgin, then condoms are best taken with lubrication, for better and painless penetration.