How to get rid of jealousy of a man
It is common for almost everyone to feel like jealousy... She is able to completely change a person, and turn him into a detective who, day after day, will be in search of evidence of treason. Unfortunately, this is the main reason for quarrels and partings. The article will help many women get rid of this insidious feeling.
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Female jealousy of a man
Many believe that jealousy is a part of love, they say, “jealous means loves". Only it is worth understanding that love is aimed at creation, in contrast to jealousy, which contributes to destruction. Female jealousy can arise spontaneously. This could be due to:
- frequent delays of a loved one at work;
- female hair on the clothes of a young man;
- late calls to a mobile phone;
- lack of desire to have sex.
In such cases, psychologists advise to calm down and think about the situation. Firstly, any of these cases may have a different reason, for example, friends decided to play a trick and send a love SMS. Secondly, it is worth reflecting: even if there was a betrayal, is it a reason for parting with a loved one? In any case, before breaking off relations, you need to think about the reason for the betrayal.
Is it worth showing jealousy to a man
How many men, so many opinions about jealousy. Some are flattered by the fact that the beloved girl is jealous, because in their opinion, jealousy Is an integral part of love. Others are outraged, considering this a sign of distrust. It is believed that it is better to talk to your loved one right away and talk about your feelings. This is one of the most difficult options, but the most effective. If you decide to have such a frank conversation, be psychologically prepared for the man's reaction. Without aggression or accusations, tell him about your conjectures. He will be able to explain everything to you and your fantasies will go far back, and the relationship will improve and become stronger. 
How not to show jealousy to a man
Any jealousy destroys from the inside, so it can be difficult to hide it, and sometimes almost impossible. No matter how you want, you must fight jealousy, otherwise your life will turn into a spy and exhausting game. Every day is like a mission to find evidence of treason. It is worth remembering that by such actions you create an atmosphere of distrust that your loved one will feel. To date, there are enough methods for dealing with excruciating jealousy.
Psychologist's help
The specialist will be able to assess the situation from a different, independent angle. However, the psychologist will only partially help get rid of jealousy. He will teach you to behave calmly outwardly, but this does not mean that in your soul you will be just as calm and happy. How long does this effect last? It already depends on you.
Self-realization and self-development
Take care of yourself, or rather, your intellectual capabilities. Spending more time with your hobby or the hobby of your loved one will benefit the relationship.
Jealousy for an ex-man
Jealousy is always a painful feeling that only brings suffering. And if the relationship is already far in the past, then the feeling becomes more annoying and meaningless. Jealousy for your ex may indicate that your feelings are still alive, although possessiveness also plays a large, and sometimes fundamental role.
Ways to deal with jealousy of your ex
- To relieve suffering, convince yourself that the relationship is over.
- Since you broke up, then there were reasons. Remember them.
- Pay more attention to yourself, your hobby, or your job.
- Don't suppress emotions in yourself. Write a letter to your ex, but don't send it.
- Pay attention to other men, accept their courtship.
