How to affectionately call a man
There is an opinion that men hate being called too utypuchki, but is this really so or are they just ashamed to admit that they really enjoy it? In this article, we will tell you how you can come to a compromise on the current issue so that everyone is satisfied.
How to affectionately call your beloved man
Yes, men are the stronger sex who need to regularly show masculinity, take responsibility and be the strongest. But even they, so callous and harsh at first glance, need love and affection, and no less than a woman. However, if a lady, when communicating with her beloved, uses too many sympathies and mimic words and phrases, then he does not feel that he is perceived as a protector and support, which can make him nervous. But what men hate even more is when his beloved calls him diminutive in front of strangers, especially in front of his friends. When no one is around, this is intimate communication, only he and she know about it, and in society he cannot afford weakness. This is how men are arranged, everything is simple.
But here it is also important not only where exactly you can or cannot call your loved one affectionately, it is seriously worth thinking about how you can call him. And here everything is individual. What may seem completely harmless and pleasant to one person will turn out to be disgusting and even offensive to another, especially in cases when the invented “nickname” carries a load of unpleasant memories of the past. For example, seemingly harmless "Donut" is usually teased in childhood by those who have problems with weight. You may not know about it, but every time it will hit his pride and sooner or later the relationship will go wrong only because of an unsuccessfully invented nickname. So that no one is offended, come up with nicknames for both of you so that everyone can address not by name, but differently.
You don't have to dwell on one thing at all, and come up with a universal set in which each "title" will be appropriate in certain places. Let's talk about this in a little more detail.
What can you call a man
If you and your loved one are in the company of relatives, friends or strangers, it is not at all necessary to give up affectionate words towards a man. For such cases, there are gentle "nicknames" that not only will not offend him and do not belittle his pride, but will not once again demonstrate your attitude towards him. These include: "Dear", "Beloved", "Darling", "Native", etc. On the one hand, you will call a man affectionately, on the other, and he will not lose his masculinity in the eyes of others.
Alone with each other, in SMS and correspondence, you can show more imagination. It is especially popular among couples to call each other diminutive names of animals: "Hedgehog", "Kitten", "Tiger cub", "Bear", "Lion", "Hare". But calling a loved one a diminutive interpretation of his name is not the best option, for example, "Seryozha" - "Serezhenka", "Stas" - "Stasik", "Igor" - "Igoreshka", etc. This nickname acts on a subconscious level, which makes a man feel insecure, feeling like a little boy. 
If you want to show a man at home that he is the main and most important of all men for you, then often call him accordingly: "My hero", "My treasure", "My superman", etc. It will sound especially pleasant if you say these words gently in his ear, while embracing him.
Other options for how you can call your loved one without offense: "Angel", "Diamond", "Drakoshka", "Fuzzy", "Lublyunchik". You can not be limited to something and someone already invented - come up with something of your own that will characterize your loved one. For example, for hot-tempered men, you can advise "Zlyushka", for those who like to smoke "Tabachok", etc.
Remember, no matter what nickname you come up with, the main thing is to pronounce it appropriately and with affection. Better yet, in order to avoid conflicts and omissions in the future, it is better to immediately ask the young man whether he will be pleased if you call him that. Perhaps he himself will offer you a variant of how he would like to hear an appeal addressed to him from your lips.
