How to understand that a man is married

Even if marriage is not included in your immediate plans, few will agree to share a loved one with another woman. Realizing this, unfaithful husbands hide their marital status when they make new acquaintances. They are charming and attentive, they shower you with flowers, but they will not invite you to visit them. Rather, they will offer a date on neutral territory. In order not to get into such a situation and not fall in love with someone else's husband, you need to evaluate his behavior and listen to common sense.

Behavior of a married man

From the first days of dating, almost all unfree men behave the same way:

1. When meeting, he will take your number, but he will not give his, especially home. He will call during working hours, and on weekends or in the evenings his number will be turned off. And if he nevertheless answers the call after hours, he will speak with restraint and formality, without calling you by name.
2. He will appoint a meeting in a secluded place in the park, in a small cafe. Thus, he minimizes the risk of meeting acquaintances. Sometimes he may take you out on an extreme date in order to get new emotions that are not already in marriage.
3. With the continuation of the relationship, she will gladly visit the lady, but she will not invite her. The story about a sick mother, the need for cleaning, and unfinished repairs will serve as an explanation.
4. He will refuse to come to the company of your friends, meet his parents, take pictures. The less people know about your romance, the better for it.
5. He compensates for the absence of noisy companies with attention and care. Will take on some of the male responsibilities around the house, cook dinners.
6. He will say a lot of compliments, loud words in the hope of accelerated development of relations.

If the gentleman still invited you to his home, look around carefully. In the bathroom or bedroom of a married man, there will definitely be women's things or clothes. In addition, the ideal order in the house is most likely the merit of the wife.

Signs of a married man

An indirect sign of a married man will be his perfectly ironed suit and shirts. Some representatives of the stronger half are able to keep their things in order, but only the wife will carefully iron the collars and arrows. But the absence of a wedding ring is not a guarantee of freedom. Many men do not wear it at all, or only wear it for the holidays. But if the gentleman took off the ring before the date, then there will be a mark on the finger, the skin will be of a lighter shade.

Also characteristic signs of lack of freedom are:

• High employment of the partner. He is always in a hurry somewhere, canceling scheduled meetings under various pretexts. Dating will be spontaneous and of short duration.
• When moving into a close relationship, he will not regularly spend the night with you. Either he will definitely leave for a smoke or breathe outside, so that call home and justify your absence.
• If in a conversation he asks more about you, is interested in achievements and details, and is silent about himself, then you should doubt his freedom. A man always strives to put himself in a good light, to tell the lady about his victories. And if he does not, it means that he is not considering you for a serious relationship.
• A married person will not use your gift in the form of a car keychain, purse, tie. He will not be able to explain to his wife where these things come from, and will not provoke unnecessary questions from her.
• It is better not to count on valuable gifts or a joint vacation. Men prefer to spend money on wives and children.
• All major holidays he will be busy for you, as he celebrates them with his family. This also applies to his birthday.

If you notice some signs in your chosen one, and you are tormented by doubts, then a frank conversation will be the best way out. At the same time, do not immediately declare the unacceptability of relations with married people. Let him think that the promise to divorce will convince you. Depending on the outcome of the conversation, decide whether to continue the relationship.

Married man fell in love

Sometimes a chance meeting with a married man can turn into real love. In this case, he chooses one of two scenarios:

1. Fear of change, new relationships and responsibilities makes him live in a family, playing a double game. He is unhappy in his marriage with an unloved woman, but they continue to live with her. The man promises a lover a divorce in the near future, excuses are small children, loans, a difficult financial situation. It is better to stop such a romance, otherwise you will be jealous and suffer, hope for the impossible. And if you raise a question about a choice, then he will evade, try to postpone the decision. But in the end it will still remain in the family.
2. More determined and honest men are ready to leave their families if they meet true love. He will honestly explain everything to his wife, he will be ready to support her financially, to participate in raising children. If you find yourself an abandoned wife, then you need to accept and forgive the offense. Do not interfere with the communication of children and the father. No matter how hard it is, learn to live anew. And if a man left the family for you, then do not be jealous of his past and try to make friends with his children.

There are other options for the development of events, but nevertheless, the bitter truth is better than a life in deception.

What to do if a man is married

If you have a relationship with a married man, then use the recommendations of psychologists:

• Accept the real state of affairs: your chosen one is not free and will have to be shared with his wife.

• Don't stop chatting with other fans.
• Set a realistic time frame within which you are willing to wait for a divorce. If the man does not take any action, it means that he does not plan to leave the family.
• Don't forget your interests, don't make your romance the center of your life.
• Do not give up the support of loved ones. You will need moral support after the breakup, it is possible to consult a psychologist.
• Assess the situation through your spouse's eyes.

Novels with married people rarely end in a happy life; more often they cause psychological trauma and disappointment.

"I love a married man" - what to do

To end a relationship with a married person is the best course of events. Over time, emotions will subside, new fans will appear. By staying with him, you risk spending your best years waiting and crying, being on the sidelines.

Talk to your partner, explain your expectations and feelings. If you are really dear to him, he will not hold you back, but will give you the opportunity to be happy. If his marriage has long ceased to interest both spouses, then the likelihood of divorce is high. This will take a lot of time and effort, but you will receive the man of your dreams as a reward.