How to understand a loving man

When a woman is in love, it is very difficult to hide it from others. Her eyes shine, her gaze becomes dreamy, she often smiles. Men, on the other hand, are more restrained and usually do not show their feelings. Of course, this can be asked directly, but not the fact that the answer will be sincere. But it is possible to understand whether a man loves or not by certain actions and even movements.

How to understand what a man loves

First of all, you should pay attention to the look. Eyes can express a lot: if a man is in love, his gaze will warm. This is the difference from passion and physical attraction, when the eyes of the beloved are more likely to burn.

If a man looks to the side more often, things are bad: usually this means that the relationship has exhausted itself.

Certain actions also indicate that a man loves you:

• he does not criticize and does not seek to remake his woman;
• tries to spend more time in the company of his beloved;
• he is often jealous, even for no reason;
• a loving man is ready to make concessions, for example, quit smoking;
• he is interested in everything about his beloved - even what she eats for breakfast seems important and interesting to him;
• he loves to share his concerns, there is no need to pull anything out of him on purpose;
• he often likes to touch his beloved, stroking her skin, touching her hair - this personifies for him sexual contact, even if it has not yet happened;
• a man who loves is not capable of treason;
• he is proud of his woman and always takes her side.

A man in love is usually a positive person. He is happy, so he has no time for whining and blues. Such a person treats everything with humor and tries to make sure that his beloved is in a good mood.

The financial side of life also plays an important role. If a man gives his beloved a cheap keychain for his birthday, this is a serious reason to think. Love and stinginess are incompatible concepts, even a poor person tries to do something pleasant for his woman.

How to check a man for feelings

Often, a girl is not completely sure that her beloved has real feelings for her. In fact, it is not that difficult to verify.

One way is to try to be showy with indifference. To do this, it is enough to forget to call him at the appointed time and see if he gets in touch. A man who loves is bound to show concern.

It is worth paying attention to whether he is ready to spend time with your family and friends. The person in love does not ignore family events and will gladly introduce you to their loved ones. A guy who has feelings for a girl shows interest in her life. He is interested in how and with whom she spends her time, what she enjoys, what she dreams of.

However, to test the feelings of the chosen one, not all methods are good. There are things you shouldn't do, otherwise the relationship will end before it starts. You cannot deliberately provoke him to jealousy, too persistently impose your society, weave intrigues and quarrel with his friends.

How to understand that a man is using you

If the relationship in a couple does not go well, the woman may feel like she is just being used. The reasons for this are different. A man can be around because of sex, financial difficulties, the opportunity to solve everyday problems, and simply because this connection is not burdensome for him.

It's easy enough to understand that you are being used. The person is extremely reluctant to respond to your requests, coming only when he needs it. He is reluctant to communicate with your loved ones, but he accepts financial assistance with great pleasure.

The interests of his woman are usually also indifferent to such a person. There is another option - he envies your successes, but does not forget to blame for his failures at the same time.

Alas, the breed of people that is not able to appreciate the good attitude towards themselves is too numerous. If you meet such a man on your life path, you should not continue the relationship further. This is not the person you need, and after all, life is one and you cannot waste it. If you show a little patience, there will definitely be someone who will understand and love you.