How to check a man

At the very beginning of a relationship, women tend not to notice the peculiarities of their man’s habits; they do not go into the details of his character and see only positive qualities in their loved one. Indeed, at the stage of the bouquet and coffee period, men, and women too, tend to show only their positive qualities. But as soon as the question arises about whether it is worth connecting your life with a person, many doubts arise. To dispel them and make the right decision, you need to give your loved one a little check.

How to test a man's feelings

To understand that a man really has warm and tender feelings, and not dull lust and sexual attraction, you need to arrange certain tests, which he is not at all aware of. You also need to observe his usual behavior in certain situations, which we will talk about a little later. Men are very good actors who, for the sake of what they want, are ready to play in such a way that even Stanislavsky could not convict them of bad acting. Nevertheless, there is discipline even for the most cunning, the main thing is to remain with a cool mind in order to give a correct assessment of his actions.

Let's start with a banal, but so common... Many girls believe that real feelings can be expressed in words, so they firmly believe that the more a man talks about his love, the more he experiences it and vice versa. This is very much a misconception that works in exactly the opposite direction. The more he says “I love you”, “I can’t live without you”, the less such feelings he actually has, and beautiful, gentle phrases and words are aimed at clouding the lady’s mind, so to speak, to show off. Nature created men this way, that in their understanding, confessing love means admitting their weakness. Therefore, it is easier for them to perform a mountain of deeds and deeds for the sake of the lady of their heart than to utter three cherished words. Do you remember how often in films they show footage of a man rushing from corner to corner, mixing up his words, going crazy with excitement, repeating the same thing, imagining how he confesses his love to his woman? This is exactly how a man who truly loves behaves. Therefore, if your loved one is throwing around such phrases left and right, think about whether it makes sense to believe him?

A loving man wants to be together as often as possible and worries about his object of adoration. Therefore, you can check his sincerity in feelings by simply not calling him at the appointed time or deliberately being late for a meeting with him. If feelings exist, then he will certainly call back himself and find out the reason. What is important here is the call itself on his part, and his reaction to the situation in general. Since not only a loving man can call back, but also selfish How did they deign to ignore His Majesty?   and jealous. If he calmly asks about the reason, asks “did something happen?” - that’s great, he’s just worried, which means you’re not indifferent to him. But you cannot abuse this method, otherwise the man will consider you unnecessary and frivolous. fcdc2151a10ff7ea8eaf0f51e7bb1f92

When meeting, a loving man is always interested in the affairs of his beloved, looks for reasons to be useful to her, and, if necessary, will support and protect. If his beloved is sick, then his anxiety will manifest itself in full, he will bring medicine, call several times a day to inquire about his well-being. A loving man differs from an owner in that it is important for him that his beloved also realizes herself, so he will not limit her, prohibit her from working and developing.

Under no circumstances should you test your jealousy by flirting with other men in front of him or talking about your previous relationships.  A serious man will most likely have the idea that you are a frivolous lady of easy virtue, with whom you should not start a serious relationship. Another incorrect attempt at verification is expressed in artificial temptations. Quite often you can see a picture when a girl deliberately introduces her beloved to her friend, or asks the latter to write/call him and flirt. Firstly, a cultured man will never directly send other women while in a relationship, but this does not mean at all that he is ready to sleep with others, nevertheless, ladies regard this behavior of a man almost as a full-fledged betrayal. Secondly, men are not so stupid as not to feel the test and understand from which direction it is coming. Relationships should be built on trust, and if there is none, then there can be no talk of any future together.

You need to organize a test of a man’s feelings wisely and not go to extremes. So, for example, if a man holds a responsible position and runs his own business, then he may not call you back not because he doesn’t care, but simply because his head is full of business. Enter into his position and be understanding, because he is trying to create a decent future not only for himself, but also for his future family, which, with the right approach, he can build with you.

How to test a man's fidelity

Some are interested in a man’s feelings, while others are concerned about how faithful a loved one is to his chosen one. Here, in principle, loyalty and feelings are on the same field - i.e. if a man sincerely loves, then he will never cheat, because this is the most betrayal. Therefore, if you tested your loved one for sincerity in love and he passed all the tests with dignity, then you can miss the test drive for fidelity. Let us immediately warn you that if you are desperate for such a test, then be extremely careful, because if a man suspects and sees through your technique, then the relationship can seriously go wrong. And if the check is successful, then never tell him that you once checked him, even after 25 years of marriage.

So, let's get started, methods that will help make sure a man is faithful:

• If you have access to his computer, see what sites he visits and what he is interested in. If there are no dating sites and other thematic resources where you can meet girls, then everything is fine.
• You can do the same with his mobile phone by checking the SMS and call history. Having noticed calls to “female names”, even with postscripts like “... accountant”, pay attention to the time of the call. If he was there at night, this may indicate a connection that goes beyond financial matters.
• As we have already said, do not resort to the help of friends and acquaintances who could seduce a man. Firstly, such a service may turn out to be “bearish”; secondly, there is a high probability of disclosure of the audit. Here, either the man himself will understand, or the girlfriend will split on occasion in the future when she wants to annoy you. And if you really want to try such a technique, then it’s better to do everything yourself. Register a fake account on a social network, but make sure it doesn’t look like him by filling out the entire profile with everything necessary. Don’t write to him in PM or knock on his friends right away, this will arouse suspicion. You need to make sure that the virtual meeting is completely random. Join the group in which he is also sitting, find his recent comment on some post and, as if by chance, rate him and respond to him with a comment. It is likely that a light, non-binding conversation will begin. Just after this, you can go to his page, rate a couple of photos and knock on his friends’ door and write the first message in PM, starting with a simple “Hello :).” Don’t immediately persuade him to cheat and don’t ask him if he has a girlfriend, this is suspicious. The first questions of this nature can be answered in about 3-4 weeks. This method must be used carefully. It takes a relatively long time, so it is suitable for patient people.

You can’t even imagine how many relationships have broken down under the onslaught of jealousy and such checks. Therefore, once again think about whether such checks are necessary at all? Are they worth breaking off relations with a good person for the sake of their own suspicions? Moreover, you can verify a man’s fidelity by simple observation, without organizing special checks for this, namely:

• Intentionally forget your phone when going to meet a man. And already on the spot, “discover” that you forgot it and ask your significant other to lend you a mobile phone for a call or SMS. If he has nothing to hide, then he won't hesitate to lend you his cell phone. And also, regarding the phone, pay attention to whether it hides it from you when you are together, or is the mobile phone often in the line of sight with the screen facing up?
• Notice how he looks at the beauties passing by. Is his glance fleeting or interested? As a rule, even the most skillful womanizer and man prone to cheating, who perfectly plays to the public with his “feelings” for his chosen one, cannot resist “undressing” with his gaze the long-legged beauty who is in his field of vision.
• Make calls when he is not expecting them and check how often there are cases where he cannot talk or simply does not pick up the phone. But here take into account the fact that, for example, at work it may be prohibited to have constant conversations about personal matters.

These three methods may well serve as a harmless test that looks so natural that not a single man will suspect that he is being tested, and at the same time you can calm down about the fidelity of your loved one.

How to test a man's honesty

Alas, honesty tests as such have not yet been invented, so here you will have to rely either on your feminine intuition, or simply believe until the lie actually comes out. You can try asking a man a question to which you know the answer and see what he answers. But here you need to know when to stop and have a cool mind. For example, you saw your loved one in a lingerie store or in a jewelry store, you decided to casually call him and inadvertently ask where he was now, but he lied, saying that he was at work. It is likely that he wants to make a surprise, which is why he hid the truth, so in principle this cannot be called a lie.

Pay attention to how often his words are at odds with his deeds. If he promised something and did not do it, and there is no serious justification for this in the form of an urgent call to work, for example, this is bad. If this continues from time to time, then this man is clearly not serious and irresponsible, and it costs nothing for such a person to lie.

But be that as it may, the main flaws of a person are revealed only after all the romanticism has faded, and during this time people often manage to legitimize their relationships. Probably, this is precisely the reason for the terrible statistics, according to which 50% of all marriages, i.e. every second person ends in divorce in the first years. In order not to fall into this number, you need to evaluate a person in advance without embellishing the man’s merits and give an adequate assessment of his actions, followed by making intelligent decisions about the possibility of continuing the relationship, and not jumping out to get married just to have a husband.