How to tell about pregnancy

In our life, things don't always go according to plan. It is not uncommon for an unplanned pregnancy to occur. What, then, should a woman do, rejoice or cry? And how to communicate this important news to your spouse and other relatives?

I'm afraid to tell my husband about pregnancy: how to be

How wonderful it would be if everything in life happened like in a movie. You enthusiastically inform your loved one about your pregnancy. He is beside himself with joy and happiness hugs and kisses you, says that he has dreamed of this all his life. But in reality, many men are afraid of such words and behave quite the opposite way.

In any case, do not hide the fact that you are expecting a child from your husband. Wait for the right moment and tell him about your pregnancy. The first reaction to your words can be different. But even if a man showed no delight about what you heard, do not rush to accuse him of irresponsibility and dislike for you. Wait a while, giving the man the opportunity to realize the fact of the upcoming fatherhood. He must take responsibility. If this does not happen, then do not hold him back with tears and pleas.

Just sit down, think, and weigh the pros and cons of the prospect of single motherhood. Do not rush to have an abortion right away, perhaps then you will regret this step all your life. It often happens that after the birth of the baby, the man returns and the family reunites again.

How to tell your husband about pregnancy

After it becomes known about pregnancy, the first reaction of almost every woman is the desire to communicate this good news to the future dad of the child. What's the best way to do this?

Talk about your pregnancy in person by looking a man in the eye. This is the only way you can enjoy his reaction. Still, this news is too important to tell about it over the phone or via SMS. The easiest way to do this is standard: honestly and openly say that you are expecting a baby. Of course, this is trite, but it is no less effective from this. In this case, his reaction will directly depend on yours. Therefore, if you want to show that the news is joyful, show this emotion: throw yourself into his arms, kiss and happily tell about your interesting situation.

Another way is to gently hint by complaining of delay and sudden nausea. Think aloud about a possible pregnancy. Do this for several days in a row, gradually accustoming your spouse to the idea of ​​a possible pregnancy. A few days later, inform him that the pregnancy has indeed been confirmed.

How to tell your husband about pregnancy in an original way

If you are against everything boring and banal, then you can come up with an unusual way to tell your sweetheart about the upcoming fatherhood.

Here are some ideas:

• Buy a T-shirt for your husband with a cool inscription like “I’ll be a daddy” and present it, having previously wrapped it in a gift bag.
• Order a delicious cake for your husband with a corresponding inscription and figures of happy parents with a child in their arms.
• Buy little things for babies: booties, undershirts, bottles, etc. and put it all around the apartment. Wait for your spouse to return home and observe his reaction. Alternatively, put all these things in his laundry drawer or send a parcel with a greeting card and baby things to your husband's name.
• Present to your husband a composition of a head of cabbage with an enclosed two-lane dough.
• Write the message on the pavement with paint, remembering to write its name. In the morning, invite your spouse to the window to watch the sunrise. Of course, in this case, questions from neighbors are inevitable.

How to tell parents about pregnancy

If you have planned a child for a long time, then the news of the onset of pregnancy will only delight the parents. In this case, do not hesitate, but it is best to directly and openly report a joyful event. Your parents will only be happy for you.

You can do this by gathering all relatives for a family dinner and talking about the pregnancy during the conversation. Just celebrate right away. If you prefer original ways, then it's time to show your imagination.

You can present your parents with a themed cake with an original inscription or souvenir boxes with baby booties.

You can tell the news at a family dinner. Sit down the relatives along with the proposal to take a general photo. And when you wake up to shoot, say "I'm pregnant!" instead of the traditional "Cheese!" So you can also capture the emotions of your loved ones in the picture. Agree - this will be an invaluable shot.

How to tell your boyfriend about pregnancy

If you are not yet married, but just dating, then most likely you have an unplanned pregnancy. In this case, you first need to understand your feelings and decide exactly what to do next. But whatever the decision, it is definitely necessary to tell a man about pregnancy. To do this, choose the right moment when he will be in a good mood and all his attention will be directed to you.

His reaction will directly depend on the age of the young man. The younger he is, the more likely he is to get scared and abandon both you and the child. You must be prepared for this turn of events. Do not humiliate yourself in front of him in any way, do not beg marry and give your child your last name, do not insult him.

But let's hope that everything goes well, and your man will only be delighted with the upcoming fatherhood.