How to subtly but clearly hint at sex

Very often, young couples in love cannot decide on the first step and move their relationship to a new level. Here comes modesty, the fear of being rejected, or the fear of the life phrase “ shaken and thrown". Some useful and correct advice for those who cannot dare to hint at sex.

How to hint a girl about sex

Of course, the ideal option would be to simply tell your girlfriend about your desires and intentions, but this may not always work in a positive way. There are girls who are afraid to quickly move to another level of relationships, they are afraid to be abandoned after sex. There are also modest and shy girls who can be scared off by such sexual conversations.

Therefore, it is best not to track events and go smoothly with the flow. You can make small hints about sex, but at the same time paying attention to the girl's reaction, if she likes it and she succumbs, then you can continue, if she closes in herself, then you do not need to insist.

How to hint? There are many ways to do this. Girls love with their ears - do not forget about pleasant compliments, beautiful words, pay attention to her makeup, manicure, wardrobe items.

Invite the girl to visit you, most often the girl immediately understands why she is expected to visit. It is not necessary to call her in the evening with a hint of spending the night, start with afternoon gatherings over a cup of tea or coffee, after a while you can move on to the evening rendezvous in your house.

Gestures and facial expressions can all say more eloquently than any words. Keep your eyes on your girlfriend's eyes, smile, wink, or play with your eyebrows. Don't forget about touching, casual and light. Hug the girl by the shoulders or waist, put your hand on her knee, if the reaction of your half is positive, then you can continue the procession of your hands through her body. For the more relaxed, you can apply hot kisses and passionate hugs.

In conversations, bring up the topic of sex, just be careful. For example, you can discuss the relationship of your mutual acquaintances, ask the girl how best to hint at sex, ask about her favorite positions, or erogenous zones.

How to hint a guy about sex

If with guys everything is more or less clear, then with girls the question is much more complicated. It's easier for guys to hint at sex girl, because most of them are not shy, and boner while hugging he will say everything better than a man. So how can girls be and hint to their boyfriend that they want sex?

It is believed that men do not understand the hints, and they need to say everything just as it is. But not in this case. In the case of a direct text with the words "I want", a man may be afraid of a strong pressure from you, think that you are anxious and you only need sex from him, or think that you are too easily accessible and end all relations with you.

Therefore, you should be more careful in such matters. You can hint slightly at sex when the environment and aura are favorable. For example, a half-empty dark hall of a cinema in which a movie about love is shown or explicit sex scenes... You can hug or kiss the man at this moment, look him in the eyes, smile invitingly or wink. You can invite a man to your place, while creating an exciting environment - candles, twilight, sexy music, a short outfit, scented candles with a smell vanilla, cinnamon or sandalwood, welcomed erotic film.

You can get a man to start making hints himself! Dress in seductive things, high heels, stockings, say nice compliments, take erotic poses with an imperturbable look, wind a lock of hair around your finger, lick your lips or stroke your thighs. If you met in a club, then you can hint a man about sex by dancing invitingly and sexually. Slow, erotic movements can drive any man crazy.

Another option is touching a man, his arms, shoulders, chest, legs.

If your relationship is quite relaxed, then you can hint at sex for a man by sending him a sexual message, for example, with the text that you got out of the shower and are standing in front of the mirror in a towel. Or send him your half-naked photo. You can also talk frankly about sex, taking breaks for passionate kisses and hugs, which may well go to caresses, and there it is very close to sex.