The basics of foreplay or how to warm up your partner correctly

Half of people have sex because they need to, the other half because they like it, but many do not know that for great sex and powerful orgasm foreplay is necessary. Petting, warming up, there are many names, but the essence is the same. If you don't arouse your partner well, or you don't get aroused yourself, then sexual contact can be frustrating. How to avoid this, you will learn from this article.

Proper foreplay before sex

Prelude is necessary for everyone, and men, and women. Especially for the fair sex, because without the right approach it is impossible to get what you want. Moreover, most women simply physiologically cannot instantly become aroused and want sex as men can.

Therefore, it is not recommended to neglect petting. What is it, let's figure it out. It can be pleasant words that caress the ear, compliments, kisses all over the body, hugs. Caress, search for erogenous zones, Erotic massage with exciting music, aroma candles and oil.

These may be preliminary role-playing games before intercourse itself, petting with adult toys, or joint viewing porn film.

What turns men on

In spite of everything, the phrase "men love with their eyes" is 200% correct! Regardless of age, social status, the first thing a male looks at is what a woman looks like, what she is wearing, her makeup, manicure, pedicure, hairstyle, appearance, figure. It is marigolds, red lips, high heels or a tight-fitting skirt that can easily excite any man, even if he is not familiar with this woman.

Men are turned on flirting, hints, hazy, exciting looks from under the eyelashes, licking lips, gestures. Undoubtedly the bottom linen, high heels, pleasant, attractive scent of perfume - all this is also one of the first pathogens.

If a representative of the fair sex does not make contact, but the man really likes it, this also excites him. All men are hunters by nature, so hunting for prey has its positive properties.

How to excite a man

No matter how strange it may seem, to excite any man is as easy as shelling pears. A simple alluring glance, a light gesture, a smile - all this turns any man on a half turn. Well, seriously speaking, a man can be put on alert with the help of:

• Words and compliments - any man will like it if his other half is interested in his affairs, participate in his life, praise him, say what he is "the good and best man on the planet."
• The way to a man's heart lies through the stomach - and this is true, but you should not feed your loved one with fatty, heavy food. It is better to cook something light, but quite tasty and quite satisfying.
• Aphrodisiacs- this also applies to the point about cooking, because aphrodisiacs present in many products. Prepare dishes with seafood, nuts, honey, vegetables. Add spices: cinnamon, vanilla, cloves. Berries and fruits: strawberries, cherries, bananas.
• Prelude - a man can be aroused from afar. For example, while he is at work, you can send him a couple of your erotic photos, or a message with words about what desires and thoughts are in your head.
• Clothes - buy a nice, lace underwear linen, stockings, high heels, or erotic lingerie from sex shop... You can also buy perfumes with pheromones there. Of course, not a single man will remain indifferent when he sees that he is greeted in this form from work.
• Variety - Offer him new position, place for sex, kind of sex.
• Laski - find out partner wishes, his erogenous zones and give him pleasure in accordance with his desires and fantasies. It could be a massage, caress, blow job with the use of various things (feathers, ice cubes, mint candies), role-playing games and much more. Do not forget about the soundtrack, because there are many men who love to hear the groans of their partners, and this makes them even more excited.
• Arrange an unforgettable night - you can start with a light dinner, then take a shower or a bath together, dance a striptease, do an erotic massage, not only with your hands, but with your whole body, study each other. You can blindfold your man and touch and caress him, due to the fact that he will not see, his other receptors will be tense and excitable.
• Many men are turned on by the sight of a naked woman, and if she caresses herself, then this is just the height of bliss for them.
• You can also excite a sleeping man, provided that he slept, and not just fell asleep. True, only blowjob will come to the rescue, no preliminary caresses will help, but the man will surely remember this moment for his entire life.

How to get turned on by yourself

Exciting your soul mate, do not forget about yourself. Because a woman who is not driven to excitement is a disgruntled, angry and angry beast, the more a lack of excitement can ruin all the sensations from sex, for example, insufficient lubrication.

How to get aroused by yourself? There are many different options here:

• You can watch an adult film, which may well excite and tune in the desired mood.
• Stimulation with vibrators, dildos and other toys for adults... If they are not there, then a shower will do. By the way, you can study toys together.
• Tell your man how and what you like, show your erogenous zones... Share your desires and fantasies, it is likely that you will find common interests in this regard. Ask him to make you feel comfortable with his hands or tongue.
• If you really can't get aroused, then special aphrodisiac drugs for women: pills, lubricants, drops, drinks. If you are not a lover of medicinal chemistry, then this can be replaced with natural products: chocolate, dates, black caviar.