How to achieve orgasm
It's the 21st century, with free access to mountains of information about anything. It would seem that life has become much easier, answers to many questions have finally been received. But no. With all this freedom of morals, girls have not yet learned how to get a guaranteed orgasm from every sexual intercourse. This article is about ways to achieve orgasm.
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How to achieve orgasm for a woman
Classes having sex are very important for health. It increases self-esteem, relieves stress, heals the body, and helps maintain a figure. A sexually satisfied woman is happy. She succeeds in everything, she achieves everything. Having sex is really important and necessary. But what if there is sex, but no orgasm?
Scientists identify the following factors that affect women getting orgasm:
- Psychological. When in my head thoughts about dishes, children and where to get money - what kind of an orgasm is there? A woman should be relaxed and romantic.
- Physiological. Only healthy women are able to get the peak of pleasure. The same point applies to the restoration of the body after childbirth or operations.
- Technical. A man must be skillful and attentive. From a simple "poked" sense for a girl is not enough.
Only a combination of these factors will open up the wonderful world of female orgasms.
How to achieve vaginal orgasm
Scientists have proven that orgasm is a purely psychological thing. No, it certainly depends on compatibility with a partner, posture and other things. But its main source is in the head.
The main rules for achieving vaginal orgasm:
- relax and have fun, all thoughts are off;
- trained vaginal muscles, wumbling or Kegel exercise will help with this;
- knowing your body and finding the G-spot;
- strong emotional connection with a partner, strong feelings;
- a skillful, attentive partner for whom the essence of sex is to delight a woman;
- quality long foreplay;
- the correct posture is individual for everyone.
Feel free to explore your body, so you will know which touch is more pleasant. There is nothing reprehensible in this, harmony with oneself is very important.
If your partner does not want to show you signs of attention in bed, to give you pleasure - why do you need such an egoist?
And be sure to train your muscles. In addition to helping a woman's orgasm, trained muscles give men more pleasure than flaccid ones. It will also help with childbirth. The trained muscles contribute to the speedy pushing of the child.
How to achieve a jet orgasm
A jet orgasm, aka squirt, is when a jet is released from a woman's vagina during an orgasm. The liquid is colorless, or cloudy white, and has no odor. Squirt is considered a type of orgasm, but it feels many times superior to it. Remember that not every woman can experience this, due to the peculiarities of the structure and sensitivity of the pelvic organs.
Most often, girls are mistaken, mistakenly believing that the secreted fluid is urine. Of course, no one wants to pee in front of their man. And therefore, feeling the approach of a jet orgasm, almost all girls consciously restrain themselves.
Preparing to squirt:
- Complete trust in the partner, and therefore complete relaxation during intercourse.
- Long, high quality, good foreplay. Without a thorough warming up, you can not even dream of squirt.
- There should be no quarrels, alienation from the half at this moment. Complete positive emotional connection.
- Accept and love yourself for who you are. Or go to the gym!
- Open yourself up, discover your sexuality. You should enjoy the fact that the man wants you.
- Feel free to explore your body with your hands, self-satisfaction is a sure way to squirt. Discover the G-spot.
- It is impossible to experience squirt without going through the normal orgasm phase. Only by learning how to get an orgasm, you can feel its jet variation. Start with the clitoral, which is the easiest to reach.
Instructions on how to achieve a jet orgasm:
- Squirt can be achieved only by stimulating the G-spot. Finding it is not difficult - it is a rough spot on the front wall of the vagina. When stimulated, it turns into a tubercle.
- It is possible to experience a jet orgasm in the following positions - missionary, doggy-style and on the side. In principle, any comfortable position in which the man can freely caress the clitoris will do.
- The correct stimulation of the clitoris guarantees a violent orgasm.
- Do not suppress the urge in yourself "in a small way." Urination during intercourse is impossible. These are the first signs of squirt.
Even if you fail to achieve the result the first time, new, pleasant sensations in sex are definitely guaranteed to you.
How to achieve anal orgasm
Anal sex- the topic is very delicate. Not every girl can decide on such an experiment. But do not forget that this is a great way to diversify your bed life and have fun. Yes, orgasm from anal sex feels stronger than usual. And with a sensitive and attentive partner, pain is minimized.
Before having anal sex, be sure to carefully prepare for it. To avoid severe pains, cracks and "surprises" in the process.
- Many sources advise you to pre-do a cleansing enema. But if there are no problems with a chair in everyday life, you can do without it perfectly.
- Long prelude. Much longer and hotter than before normal intercourse. Then you can proceed to gently massaging the anus. Do not forget about lubrication, because the "fifth point" does not have natural lubrication.
- Only after the partner stops responding to anal massage by squeezing the sphincter, you can begin to insert a finger or anal plug. Also carefully lubricate it with lubricant.
- Feelings have ceased to be uncomfortable - feel free to proceed with the introduction of the penis and the act itself.
- It is allowed to take a glass before the act guilt... But only one. As a vehicle for courage and more relaxation.
To achieve anal orgasm, you must follow these rules:
- Don't ignore the discomfort. If you feel any discomfort, abort the act. The anus tissue must be well prepared and stretched for this. Try it next time.
- Take advantage of condom... It will reduce unpleasant sensations and friction.
- The partner's movements should be as gentle and smooth as possible. The girl should be as relaxed and aroused as possible.
- Choose a position that is comfortable to stimulate your clitoris. This will distract from the sensations in the anus.
- Correct posture will also help with orgasm. The most optimal position for this is the man behind, lying on his side and missionary. Finding a position that is comfortable for you for anal sex can only be done in a practical way.
How to achieve orgasm on your own
The main thing in orgasm is attitude. Complete relaxation and the desire to have fun guarantee you it. Whatever kind of sex you are having.
Women's melodramas and novels will help you get the right mood. It is they that excite the imagination and awaken the innermost desires. In general, you do not need to be afraid of your desires. you just need to find the right partner who understands and supports your preferences.
Be active in raising your own libido, it directly affects orgasm. Enjoy life, look for new positive emotions. This is your life and the only thing you should be happy with.
How to get an orgasm while masturbating
There is nothing wrong with masturbation. Of course, if it occurs at puberty. This is a way to relieve psychological stress, cheer up. This is the key to women's self-confidence. A girl who knows her body well and owns it will definitely be successful with men.
When masturbating, it is very important to do it right. Otherwise, you can cause rejection of normal sex in your orgasm. More precisely, the inability to get an orgasm from ordinary sexual intercourse with a man.
Stimulation of the clitoris should be soft and natural. Techniques such as pleasure with a jet of water, squeezing the thighs, or direct irritation of the clitoris will reduce the sensitivity of the clitoris. And therefore, during normal sex, the girl no longer feels anything. The process of self-satisfaction should be as close to natural as possible. Legs wide apart, gently stimulate the clitoris, and be sure to stimulate the vagina.
It's important to know your erogenous zones. Stroking or pinching them will heighten positive emotions. If you combine masturbation with watching adult videos, you are guaranteed the result, you just need to choose the right video.








