Flirting and its rules
Starting from a very early age, we all learn the art of flirting. Even if we ourselves don’t notice it. Words, gestures, smiles, laughter - all this relates to language flirting. After all, flirting is just a manner of behavior that attracts the attention and interest of the opposite sex. Sometimes it leads to simple attention, sometimes it is an ordinary funny game, and often flirting is used as a foreplay before sex.
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How to flirt correctly 
In order to get to know a person, all women try to please him. Evokes emotions. How to flirt correctly? Here you need to follow some important rules, and then everything will go like clockwork.
- The most important thing is to be confident in yourself and how you look. In order to flirt with ease, you must never find fault with yourself. After all, if you don’t love yourself, no one will love you. Therefore, you should decide for yourself what dignity you have. For some it’s long legs, for others it’s a firm butt or luxurious hair. Men always look at appearance first (as they say, they love with their eyes).
- Yours wardrobe– it should be reconsidered. Male representatives will not really like a tightly closed dress or a skirt that goes all the way to the floor. But light feminine dresses, blouses with an intriguing neckline and stiletto heels are what will definitely produce impression on a man.
- Every woman should have a mystery - it is not necessary to lay out your entire biography at the first meeting, otherwise you will quickly bore a man. But don’t lie, just don’t say anything about yourself. In addition, a mysterious, slightly mischievous and passionate look, light, unobtrusive touches (as if by chance you could touch your interlocutor with your hand, chest, thigh) can also do their job.
- Smiles and compliments - smile at your interlocutor, because smiles are very contagious, and also give him small pleasant compliments, everyone is pleased when someone notices some detail in appearance or clothing.
- Sight and hearing - first you need to catch the eye of the person you want to meet. When communicating, it is best to talk a little less and listen a little more to a man.
- The first step is to never wait for someone to notice you and approach you. If you like a man or want to get to know him better, then approach him first, say hello, give a compliment or start some conversation.
- Flirting It goes best when you are in a great mood and you get great satisfaction from it. Laugh, joke, show yourself as interesting and mischievous.
- And finally, you can use any objects to start a conversation or attract attention. This could be a variety of unusual accessories, a dog, perfume, and even an interesting book or magazine.
You can flirt even if you are married or have a boyfriend. This will refresh your long relationship a little and add a little spice. After all, your partner gets used to you, and a little jealousy will shake him up and make him look at you from a different side. But the main thing here is not to go too far. Many people think that flirting (when there is a significant other) is a sure step towards cheating. Nonsense, it has been proven that if a person flirts, he is least attracted to someone else. Due to the fact that a person flirts, he raises his self-esteem, mood, and a kind of relaxation occurs (unless, of course, the person not a notorious womanizer).
Flirting - when it is unacceptable
Flirting is not appropriate always and not with everyone. For example, you should not start flirting with a person who is higher than you in social status, who is on duty (flirting is not at all appropriate here, the person on duty may decide that you are trying to manipulate them for their own selfish purposes). Also, if a man is not entirely smart, then he simply will not attach importance to what you do. You shouldn't waste your time on such people.
In addition, it is better not to use flirting on work. After all, if you go too far, or a person decides that you want something from him, the situation may turn completely against you. And consequences may even lead to dismissal for you, as well as many problems. You must be firmly convinced that flirting will not backfire on you. 
If you come to visit your friends alone, and everyone there is in couples or families, then you shouldn’t even think about flirting. This may offend and hurt your friends, and you may be left without hair if any passion you have chosen men for flirting, he will notice that you are showing him signs of attention.
The edges of flirting 
Relationships between people of different sexes are a rather thin line. When flirting, the most important thing is not to step over this fine line; you should understand when the very moment appears when you should stop.
- Distance – it must always be observed! If you violate it, the man may think that you are vulgar, easily accessible and very intrusive. And this is unlikely to be part of your plans.
- Lexicon – no swear words or vulgarities! You woman, and it’s unpleasant to hear swear words from representatives of the fair sex. You should be gentle and sweet.
- According to the unwritten code of flirting, a woman should approach the young man a little, and then shyly move away. If you constantly hang or huddle close to a man, it can scare him and he will quickly run away.
- Rolling your eyes, touching your hair and smoking every 5 minutes is absolutely useless. It looks very funny. A young man may also decide that you are nervous or sick with something.
Based on everything written above, we can conclude that you should be natural, unobtrusive, listen to your interlocutor without interrupting him. Such women always attract attention and arouse male interest. Treat flirting as a game, but to play this game you need to know all the subtleties and be a very virtuoso player, so as not to look ridiculous, funny and vulgar.
