"Wahah!": How to impress

We all sometimes want to seem better than we really are. After all, it is easier for the smarter, slender, educated to find a job or meet the man of their dreams. In some situations, you just need to make a good impression in order not to miss your chance. In the article, we will look at how to behave, and which outfit to prefer in order to position the environment towards you.

How to make a good impression

We all live in a society of people, so in order to have a good opinion of you, you need to follow the rules of communication:

• Initiate a dialogue. Do not wait for others to show interest in you, start the conversation yourself. Say hello and ask a general question. When the conversation starts, take an interest in the other person's affairs, hobbies and interests.
• Despite the embarrassment, behave naturally. Sometimes people are pinched, and to others it seems a manifestation of arrogance.
• But you should not behave too relaxed. In communication, avoid personal, intimate areas.
• Even if you're in a bad mood, don't talk about your troubles or problems. It is better to take an interest in the affairs of the interlocutor, show sensitivity and attention. Soulful people always make a good impression.
• A little flattery doesn't hurt. If you praise a lady's outfit or a man's strong arms, then you will definitely evoke positive emotions in him. You can note the achievements of children, success at work, or a broad outlook.

If you are open in communication, smiling and benevolent, then finding a common language with any interlocutor will not be difficult. People who are pleasant to talk to, always have to themselves.

How to make a first impression

They say that they are greeted by their clothes, but at the first meeting, it is not only the image that matters. Don't be late for the appointed time. If the event is official, then come 10-15 minutes before the start to find the right room and put yourself in order. When you meet, you need to look the other person in the eye. Shake your hand and smile as you make the first contact.

Particular attention should still be paid to clothing and makeup. Don't dress too bright, open, transparent outfits, even for the first date with a man. You may be misconceived. If the meeting is official, then choose business suit, on a date, a feminine dress will be appropriate. Make-up is recommended to be done in a natural style, to accentuate the eyes. In addition to the outfit, you should wear no more than 1-2 pieces of jewelry at a time.

Watch your speech, speak calmly. Do not use swear words, slang, abbreviations. All this speaks about your upbringing and educational level. Listen carefully to the interlocutor, ask questions on the topic. A person always likes to communicate with an understanding partner. If your opinion does not coincide with someone else's, you can express your point of view, but without pressure or aggression. Be confident in yourself, the interlocutor will feel it and will appreciate it positively.

Remember that gestures and posture indicate an attitude towards your partner. Do not cross your arms over your chest, cover part of your face with them, or make sudden movements. All these gestures show that you are not interested in the interlocutor. Your closeness will alienate people from you, and the impression will remain negative. Finishing the conversation, thank for the communication, help, useful information. Give some compliments if possible.

You need to prepare for the first meeting and try not to make mistakes. After all, there may not be a second chance.

How to impress others

Psychologists say that we are more willing to communicate with those people who are interested in us. therefore at the first meeting be sure to remember the name of the interlocutor and in the conversation refer to him by name. In this case, it will be much easier to achieve location. Also, demonstrate that your partner is the key person in the conversation. You acknowledge his authority, you are interested in his opinion and statements. It will be good if you use the expressions "tell me more", "I am very interested to learn about ...", "what will you do in such a situation."

If you are at a social event, then position yourself closer to the center of the room or to the location of the stage. Do not be afraid that you may find yourself in the center of what is happening, because that is why you came here. No need to stumble or fuss. Communicate affably with people around you, and people will think of you as a sociable, confident person.

How to impress work

Job change always stress, in a new company you will feel constrained. To feel freer, you need to establish relationships with the team. Prepare seriously for the working day, in the first minutes the impression of you will be completely formed. Then it is already difficult to change it. Hairstyle, facial features and makeup, shoes and costume are assessed. A slight shrug of your shoulders, demonstration of open palms will indicate your friendliness and openness.

The first impression was formed, and then adhere to the adaptation rules:

• When communicating with colleagues, look them in the eyes, it disposes. Use the communication style of the team, appeal to "you" or "you".
• Participate in collective events, maintain established traditions.
• Determine who is the informal leader in the company and what groups the employees are divided into. In the first time, it is better to remain neutral and refrain from gossip.
• Tell about yourself in a positive way, general information about hobbies, family, children.
• Ask questions about work, company traditions, the habits of the leader. Such interest will show your interest in the work and your desire to join the team.
• Take your time with conclusions and assessments regarding the company's employees. An overly talkative colleague can come to the rescue in difficult times.

It is difficult for a silent, detached person to make a good impression on the team, which means that it will be more difficult for him to work. Better to be open and friendly.

How to impress a man

If you want to make a good impression on a man, then in addition to general recommendations for first acquaintances, you need to use natural charm. If you have a long braid or velvet skin, accentuate them. Among the painted beauties natural beauty is highly appreciated. Watch your posture and wear stable heels to keep your gait light and graceful.

To draw attention to yourself, you need to look a man in the eyes and smile. It is even possible to initiate an acquaintance, only without obsession. Contact him with a small request or question. The old traditions that a man should start dating are no longer relevant.

A bold and self-confident lady is always impressive. If you know what you need for happiness, then it will be easy for a man to give it. It is interesting to be paired with a self-sufficient partner, it will not be boring with her, therefore such ladies are attracted to men. If you managed to make the first impression, then prepare a little for the next meeting. Find out more about his favorite band, movie or football team. The fact that you are ready to accept and share his hobbies will certainly impress a man.

When talking to a handsome man, laugh at his jokes and joke yourself. Don't be afraid to sound frivolous. At the beginning of the acquaintance, it is important to establish ease of communication, which is accompanied by humor and self-irony. Flirt and flirt, charm, show off your charm and no man will remain indifferent.

Making a good impression is very important. At home, you need to think over the image, and when you meet, behave naturally and communicate politely. If some recommendations cause you difficulties, then practice and train more often.