How to get your ex-boyfriend back

If you broke up with a young man, but still feel affection for him and want to keep the relationship, do not despair, perhaps the chance to return everything has not been lost. However, before returning your ex, consider why the breakup occurred. Working on mistakes will help you avoid mistakes in the future that have influenced the cooling of a man's feelings.

How to seduce an ex

If your loved one has left, but feelings for him do not go away, do not waste time and start taking active steps to return him until he finds a new passion.

Not every woman possesses the art of seduction, but true love can work miracles. Think about your latent or overt abilities. Are you the lucky owner of an attractive plastic body? Find a reason to invite your ex to visit and dance an erotic dance. Embody your literary talent in a love message in poetic form or in prose.

What other ways of seduction can you use to get your ex-boyfriend or husband back?

• Stay natural and genuine. Do not pretend to be a fatal seducer and a depraved lady, your beloved will quickly see through the insincerity in your appearance and behavior. Do not overdo it, be guided by feelings to rekindle his former passion.
• Don't force yourself on your ex, give him a little break from relations... Always remain calm and calm when meeting in person and in a telephone conversation. Perhaps it is this coldness that will touch your man's heart and he will change his decision to end the relationship.
• Be a confident and self-sufficient woman, these traits are quite attractive to the opposite sex, no matter what they say. But self-confidence should not be false and feigned, it should come from within, and for this you need to try to find harmony in your soul. Appearance also plays an important role in this matter, work on your figure, change your hairstyle and wardrobe so that the ex can see what treasure he has lost.
• Don't show your jealousy openly. Yes, it will not be easy, but you need to look at the situation with a sober look. If the man has gone to another, try to analyze your strengths and weaknesses in comparison with her. What attracted him to a rival that you do not have?
• Stay intriguing until the very end and don't show your ex that you still have feelings and a desire to be with him. Stay independent and avoid violent emotions. Live a vibrant and eventful life, go to restaurants and clubs, meet your friends. Let the guy see you surrounded by successful and handsome men who are trying in every possible way to attract attention. If he has at least something left for you, a sense of possessiveness will certainly manifest.
• When the goal is achieved, you do not need to rush into the pool with your head and accept the ex with open arms. Letting go a little, cool his ardor, let him understand that now he will have to seek you - beautiful and successful.
• At every meeting, be the perfect lover, use women's tricks and tricks — sexy lingerie, stockings, erotic massage and scented candles. Surprise your loved one every time to consolidate the result.

How to return an ex if he has another

Often a guy and a girl run away, believing that an end has been put in their romance and there will be no return to past feelings. Whoever is to blame, sometimes it is a woman who is waiting for the first steps towards reconciliation, and what her disappointment is, because men treat such situations easier and quickly find a replacement for their former lover. Experience and a good knowledge of his habits, interests and mutual friends remain on your side, on her side is the novelty of emotions and the romantic veil of first dates. Unable to see how happy the ex-boyfriend is with a cute rival? There is always a chance, you just have to strongly desire and correctly carry out the "return operation".

• First, analyze your past relationship, if it was your fault in the breakup, you will have to work hard on yourself. Is the man tired of endless nagging, tantrums and suspicions? Then it is not surprising that he found a calmer and more confident girl who would not harass him with suspiciousness and reproaches. Build your self-esteem in every way you can and become more loyal to shortcomings.
• Find out as much as possible about your new passion men- where does she study or work, what does she do in her free time, what is her social circle. This information will allow you to always be one step ahead. If your opponent initially loses to you on several points, the ability to fulfill the desire increases markedly.
• After you put your appearance, nerves and feelings in order, think about how you can organize a supposedly random meeting with your ex-boyfriend. There is no need to cut off the phone and beg for a date, everything should happen naturally and in a place that would bring back memories of past relationships. It could be a park where you walked for hours together or a memorable cafe where he invited you to your first meeting. But most importantly, be fully armed - a confident gait, perfect makeup, a smile on your face and forward, with your head held high. A slight challenge to jealousy will not hurt either, agree in advance about escorting with a pleasant young man, the reaction will not keep you waiting long.
• When meeting, you need to behave with restraint and not throw yourself on the ex's neck, so as not to expose yourself in a stupid light. A standard greeting or nod is enough, as a rule, guys are puzzled, because they think that girls at such a moment should suffer and shed tears into the pillow.
• After the preparation stage has passed successfully, take up the second part of the plan. This time, the "accidental" meeting should take place in the company of mutual friends or acquaintances, here it is important to behave naturally and friendly, not avoiding the former, but also not imposing communication. A few routine phrases will be enough for the guy to relax and stop perceiving you as a kind of threat.
• And lastly, in order to resume relations, it is not always necessary to build complex strategies, sometimes it is enough just to have a heart-to-heart conversation and honestly clarify all controversial issues. Sometimes there is a need to communicate with the new girlfriend of her beloved, perhaps she will adequately accept your desire to return the boyfriend, show female solidarity and retreat.

Is it worth returning?

When pain and loneliness after breaking up with your beloved, they do not subside for a long time, you involuntarily begin to think, maybe the separation was a mistake and you can return everything back? But before dialing the coveted number, think hard about whether it is worth entering the same river twice.

If the reason for breaking up with the ex was insults, betrayal, or even assault, most certainly, you should not regret what you did. But there are other situations when people did not agree on the basis of some misunderstanding, difference in temperaments, or the decision was made in the heat of a violent quarrel. We can not always give an unambiguous answer to this question, so allow yourself to doubt and understand a simple thing - it is quite normal to experience the departure of a loved one, it is probably worth waiting a little longer until the period of adaptation to a new, free life is over.

Time can play a bad joke with a woman in love - at a distance we tend to see only the good that was in our relationship, and the negative is gradually erased from memory. But after all, if you made the decision to break up the romance, then there were good reasons for that and everything was not as wonderful as it seems now? Then does it make sense to step on the same rake?

In some cases, giving a chance to the surviving feelings may be worth it, but rarely the second attempt is more successful than the first. If people break up, it means that the needs of the man or woman were not fully met. For example, for one, family and marriage is a unity of souls, respect and understanding, while for another it is only benefit and convenience. It is difficult to change these principles, giving a second life to old relationships, get ready for another failure.