Signs of true love

If you look at the statistics of divorce in our country, it becomes clear that most people perceive the candy-bouquet period, romantic dates, gifts and novelty of impressions as true love and a guarantee of family happiness until the end of their days. But walks under the moon are replaced by ordinary everyday life, everyday troubles and financial problems arise, passion dies down over time. At this moment, real feelings come, the desire to take care of a loved one, protect him and share all the difficulties. So how do you distinguish sympathy and falling in love from genuine love?

Does love exist

The question of whether true love exists excites the minds of people regardless of gender and age. Of course, most of them will give an affirmative answer, because this high feeling can not only be felt, but also seen in the eyes of lovers.

Scientists and psychologists claim that love if it is real, it happens only at first sight. To feel the kinship of souls, a person needs only half a minute. It is during these 30 seconds that we are able to assess the external data, the characteristics of the temperament and the mindset of the future lover. Someone will want to argue with this opinion, proving that he felt love only after a few months or years of dating. This can also be explained - at the time of the meeting, you simply might not be ready for further developments or were too busy with another person. Later, our brain will fully process the information and give a signal about the birth of love.

Both a man and a woman, before feeling true love, first feel sexual attraction, attraction at the hormonal level. Lovers become more emotional and want to be close to the object of passion.

Then the next stage begins - a time of stability and attachment on an emotional level, which is caused by the release of certain hormones. According to scientists, this phase lasts only 4 years, after which many families break up.

Couples who have been together for many years do not have a hormonal connection, their relationship is based on some common human values, to some extent, this can be called friendship, supported by intimacy.

Signs of true love

• If people really love each other, they are ready to overcome any difficulties, just to be together. They fight for their feelings, not paying attention to evil tongues and idle speculation. Love is born where there is understanding, support and care. Any conflict is resolved based on the interests of the couple, anger, envy, mistrust - all this bypasses her.
• True love must necessarily be mutual, everything else is passion, sexual attraction, falling in love, the desire to possess someone from one's own selfishness.
• Whatever happens, a loving person will always remain there, support and comfort in the most difficult moment of life and stand shoulder to shoulder, even if the whole world is opposed to the beloved. In any situation, there are moral strength to pull the one you love out of severe depression.
• The girl who is looking true love, respects himself and will not waste time and exchange for a hopeless relationship with a dubious partner. She will not prove anything to friends and parents, jumping out to marry the first person she meets, but will be able to wait for the one who will share both sorrow and joy.
• The basis of love is respect, without mutual feelings it is impossible to build a strong marriage. Often, in a pair, one gives, and the other only accepts. A disdainful attitude towards the chosen one, insults, a desire to humiliate in order to exalt oneself, pride - there is no place for all this if love exists.
• Men who allow insulting a woman's dignity, pointing out flaws and constantly criticizing any actions are not capable of bright feelings. Most often, the fairer sex acts only as an object of satisfying base desires, and not only the man is guilty of this, but also the woman who allowed herself to be treated in this way and did not stop the partner's unworthy behavior in time.
• It is difficult for a loving person to answer the question of why he fell in love, because most often this happens despite all the shortcomings and external circumstances.
• Next to a loved one, we want to become better, more attractive, to develop as a person. But you do not need to sacrifice anything and go against your own interests. Yes, relationships and family are serious work, but they should not become a heavy and unbearable burden.

How to check love

Does he love it or not? This question is asked by women both at the very beginning of the development of the novel, and already in marriage, when it seems that feelings have cooled slightly and gray everyday life has erased the former acuteness of sensations. If your man suddenly stopped giving flowers and gifts or stays at work a little longer than usual, this does not mean a lack of love, the reasons may be quite real - a lot of work or financial chores. In any case, you should not guess on a chamomile, but it is better to find out how the lovers of the stronger sex actually behave.

• A truly loving man will never bring physical or mental pain to his chosen one. She will not need to prove her loyalty and loyalty and earn the respect of her partner, this evidence is already stored in his heart.
• A loving person is ready for any difficulties, everyday and financial troubles. He is ready to create a strong family and have children. A man who appreciates his soul mate will do everything to make her feel happy and protected from the hardships of life.
• Proof of true love can be the desire of a man to constantly be near the lady of the heart, to spend all his free time with her and by any means to achieve reciprocity.
• A man always wants to help and support, you can always rely on him. He forgives some whims, shortcomings and shares the opinion of his beloved, even if it is not always true.
• A guy who experiences sincere feelings is ready for a lot for the sake of his beloved - to give up communication with some people and bad habits, to earn more money, to completely change his lifestyle.
• If you want to verify the authenticity of a fan's feelings, deny him sex or end the relationship altogether. A loving person will not let go of the one that is dear to him and will continue to seek meetings and seek location.
• Probably the best way to find out how a guy treats you is through illness. In a difficult situation, he will certainly take an interest in your well-being and offer help.