Clear signs of falling in love

Some scientists compare falling in love with a mental disorder, arguing that such a feeling is caused by certain chemical processes occurring in the brain. Love does not obey common sense and logic, existing as if autonomously. Such strong emotions can influence a person, lifting him to heaven and giving him peace and inner harmony, or incinerate him from the inside, making him bitter, angry and unhappy.

Psychology of falling in love

Psychologists have been trying for decades to analyze the feeling of falling in love and disassemble it into its components. In the course of many studies, they came to the conclusion that this feeling is inherent in us by nature for one purpose - procreation. In other words, love is the result of the mating instinct. If you think about it, there is a rational grain in this theory, because in the most wonderful period of life a person is in euphoria, seeing only the positive qualities of his other half. We convince ourselves in every possible way that this love will be eternal, not paying attention to the experience of friends and acquaintances.

Studying the relationships of some married couples, scientists came to the conclusion that falling in love in the euphoric phase lasts no more than two years, during which time people often manage to enter into an official marriage and have children. Moreover, men completely fit into this time period, while women have a slightly longer feeling.

After the end of this period, mutual reproaches and insults begin, and the couple is plagued by everyday and material problems. It turns out that falling in love was mistaken for love. But in fact, euphoria has its deadlines, and love does not go away even after many years.

How to distinguish infatuation from love?

• Falling in love, as a rule, occurs unexpectedly and does not lend itself to any logical analysis. Often we fall in love at the wrong time and with the wrong people. Feelings cannot be caused artificially; they come and go against our will.
• Everything that a person does in a state of love is spontaneous and unusual for him. Such emotions do not promote personal growth or internal discipline. The desire to possess the object of passion prevails.
• Falling in love does not contribute to the interest in the personal growth of the other half. We only obey the selfish urge to no longer be alone.

Signs of a girl falling in love

It is not difficult to understand that a woman feels a feeling of love for the object of her adoration, because during this period she spreads her vibes to literally everything she touches, a happy smile plays on her face, and the light of a newly born feeling burns in her eyes.

By what characteristic signs and behavioral features can one recognize that a girl has fallen in love?

• The desire to give care and tenderness. Nature is the majority  women   gifted her with an invaluable talent - to love, protect and take care of her loved ones. If harmony reigns in the family, then the fair sex does this not out of obligation, but based on the internal need to show guardianship. If there is no worthy candidate for the role of a future spouse nearby, the girl may experience loneliness and disappointment, even in the case when she has fully established herself in the profession. Inner beauty. A woman in love radiates love, kindness, calmness and confidence, and her appearance does not play a big role here, the changes in her are so strong and obvious that they spread to everyone around her in the form of smiles, good mood and goodwill.
• The desire to feed your loved one as deliciously as possible. Even those women who have not previously tried themselves in the culinary arts, having fallen in love, want to surprise and pleasantly amaze their boyfriend, and begin to try to show themselves as a good housewife. Most ladies are aware of how important this aspect is for a man. Arriving home, he wants to relax in the atmosphere of home comfort and enjoy dishes lovingly prepared by his chosen one.
• Desire to get married. The overwhelming majority of the fairer sex, having reached a certain age, begins to think about marriage and family. This is quite normal, although the man may not even be aware of his girlfriend’s such far-reaching plans. Dreaming of having a chosen one, ladies demonstrate all their best qualities both in life and in everyday life.
• Continuation of the family. Having children from a loved one is inherent in a woman at the genetic level; it is an integral part of a happy and harmonious family life. Lover woman Having entered into a serious relationship with a man, she certainly thinks about the possibility of having a baby, and most often it is the ladies who initiate procreation, since men are more focused on self-realization and a career.
• Affectionate words and addresses. Even the strongest woman with a stormy temperament and difficult character, inflamed with feelings, becomes softer and more gentle. She needs warm words of encouragement and behaves more delicately and courteously. Smart girls know very well that it is the wife who inspires a man to new exploits and the desire to move forward, therefore she encourages him in every possible way and inspires him that he is the best.
• Appearance. The first thing a potential gentleman turns his attention to is, of course, his face and figure. Every time, feeling a man’s sincere interest, a woman tries to eliminate some of the flaws and become even more beautiful and attractive. Sometimes she is ready to do anything to keep the guy she likes, even to the point of radically changing her image.
• Increased sensitivity. During the period of falling in love, all women become more emotional, whiny, susceptible to criticism and external circumstances. Their body is experiencing a strong hormonal surge and she perceives every word thrown inadvertently as a tragedy.

Signs of a man falling in love

With men the situation is a little more complicated, because by nature they are more secretive and are not inclined to reveal everything in the first days of acquaintance. Perhaps, observation and the information presented below will help you clarify the situation and understand whether your gentleman is in love with you.

• Usually, even a strong and self-confident man, when he sees the object of his adoration, begins to become embarrassed like a child, blush, stutter, unable to find the right words and an appropriate topic for conversation. This is not surprising, because trying to hide his emotions, he strives to take control of the situation, but, in the end, he begins to literally melt in the company of his beloved girl.
• Love often makes you do the most rash and stupid things. Driving fast in a car, climbing out the window to your beloved on the ledge - the valor of the newly minted knights sometimes knows no bounds.
• Of course, guys in love can also make romantic gestures. If they sent you a gorgeous bouquet of roses, sang a serenade or wrote poetry, most likely it was done with the best intentions.
• The desire to constantly be close is another obvious “symptom” of love. Long conversations on the phone, sitting in a cafe, going to the cinema and going for walks - a man in love finds time for all this if he really wants to. Sometimes he refuses to meet with friends or takes time off from work just to be together or come to the rescue in a difficult situation.
• And there are completely opposite situations.  The guy suddenly begins to criticize you, make comments and tries to hurt you - take a closer look, maybe he has feelings, he’s just not sure of reciprocity.
• Men are also no strangers to showing special attention to their appearance, especially if this person is in love.
• The presence of serious intentions is evidenced by the increased responsibility of a man and his desire to achieve material well-being.
• Falling in love, taciturn in everyday life man becomes more sociable, often talks about his life, childhood and plans for the future.
• Young people sometimes still do not know how to hide their true emotions and are jealous of all persons of the stronger sex who find themselves close to the object of desire.
• Take a close look at non-verbal signs; perhaps the guy is constantly trying to correct something in his clothes and appearance, or puts his hand behind you, as if trying to hug you. All these subtle gestures also indicate increased interest.