Types of marriages

For the majority of citizens, marriage is nothing more than a union of two loving hearts. What if we look deeper? Have you ever wondered why some people achieve family happiness with the slightest effort, while others seem to be trying their best, but even after years, tension remains in the relationship and in the end everything still collapses? Today we will examine a very interesting topic regarding types of marriage. First, let's touch on the types of unions in the generally accepted sense, and then move on to the most interesting part!

To begin with, as already said, let’s look at the nationwide variations of marriages.

Church marriage

A church marriage is one that was registered, as the name implies, in a church. In our country it can be called a regular wedding. However, in some countries it is this kind of marriage that is considered the main, the only legal form and has full legal force. The main essence of this sacrament is that the newlyweds receive God's blessing for their future life together. By the way, in Christianity it is forbidden to neglect a wedding, and divorce after this process is considered a sin. An exception may be cases when the blessing of the priest was received for the divorce.

Fictitious marriage

This type of marriage differs significantly from the others in that the newly-made couple has no feelings for each other, and the registration of the union is based on selfish goals. Such a marriage is properly registered with local authorities, but, as a rule, only those getting married themselves know about the purpose of such a union.

The main impetus for the creation of this type of marriage is: obtaining citizenship for one or a couple, obtaining material benefits of a different nature. But there are other reasons for such a marriage that an ordinary person would not imagine. So, for example, in history there are known such occasions that took place:

• The young people deliberately got married only in order to get more freedom from their parents and do what they wanted more, as well as to improve their lives without the supervision of their elders. However, such cases often turned out unexpectedly for the “newlyweds” themselves, since they subsequently began to experience feelings for each other in reality and continued to live as a real family.
• Most often, fictitious marriages are registered for the purpose of obtaining citizenship or a residence permit. As a rule, in most cases, the entire procedure is significantly simplified.
• In countries where same-sex love is viewed negatively, a fictitious marriage is registered in order to cover up one’s own orientation. Often this significantly helps in building a career and allows you to avoid “sideways” glances when “you are already over 40 and don’t have a family yet.”
• Often, fictitious marriages were registered in order to obtain material benefits from the state.

Actual marriage

Despite the fact that in society ordinary cohabitation is called “civil marriage”, in fact this is fundamentally wrong. So, a “civil marriage” is an official marriage that is registered according to all the rules and meets the norms of the law. But “actual marriage” is cohabitation. In this way, a couple can live at least their entire life, but at the same time not have any documentary evidence of their involvement in each other.

The complexity of such a marriage occurs at the moment of divorce, when over the many years of living together the “family” acquires joint property, but no one wants to share it with the partner. Then long legal battles ripen, in which everyone must prove their right to this or that item, as well as the fact that the marriage really took place. This procedure is long and not easy. The situation is also complicated by the fact that, according to the Family Code of the Russian Federation, unregistered relationships do not impose marital obligations. However, if children are born in such a union, then the latter have absolutely identical rights as children in a full-fledged marriage.

We have looked at the main types of marriages that are mentioned in society, but there is another division of marriages that not everyone knows about, but this is where the most interesting thing lies. Next, we list 5 types of marriage, which are considered from the perspective of a structural horoscope. Before you continue reading further, determine what type of marriage your relationship belongs to by comparing the signs of the year of birth of both, using the following table:

Now that you have found out which structure your union belongs to, you can move on to studying it.

Patriarchal marriage

The main commandment of a patriarchal marriage: love children and be like a child, love physical work, there is no need to fight for power and take care of inner freedom, clearly divide areas of responsibility, do not try to argue and avoid quarrels, do not become immersed in feelings and do not give in to passions, do not strive to change anything and do not try to improve relationships. And now a little more detail.

The ideal reason for entering into a patriarchal marriage is the desire of both partners to prolong the family line, but this is not the case when they sign, as they say, “on the fly.” Even if the reason for the marriage was a different goal, delaying the birth of children in a patriarchal marriage is extremely dangerous. If the newlyweds are 30 years old, then they should start conceiving immediately; if they are 25 or younger, then it is permissible to wait a year or two. You can’t get too carried away with romance, career and business. Moreover, you cannot limit yourself to the birth of one child - the more, the better. Children are the main epicenter in a patriarchal marriage. If there are no children, then the union will quickly fall apart, and even if it stays afloat, then there will be no happiness in it. While there are no children, both need to become “children” themselves in a positive sense.

In a patriarchal marriage, it is impossible to conduct intellectual communication; all conversations should be about the household. Forbidden topics for spouses: politics, the meaning of life, aliens and everything that concerns seriousness and requires philosophical reasoning. Talk only about family and housekeeping. In a patriarchal marriage, your tongue is your enemy!

In a family there should be a clear division of territories and concepts of man and woman. This will create an unbreakable tandem. In this case, both the husband and the wife can act as the head of the family, but there must be a head; there is no place for equality here. In a patriarchal union there should be no passions and ardent love - to support the flame - yes, to glow with feelings - no. You can't innovate in sex either. Patriarchal marriage can rather be compared to friendship, in which there are simple, down-to-earth warm feelings. Someone will ask: why is it so boring? The answer is very simple, the purpose of creating a patriarchal marriage is otherwise - as mentioned earlier - to procreate and raise offspring. And also, don’t try to make a patriarchal marriage better, it will only make it worse. Enjoy only the first year of living together, and then be as it will.

Nothing can be changed in the family unless absolutely necessary. Even a simple rearrangement of furniture can result in a scandal. However, it is necessary to maintain order and do it carefully. A patriarchal marriage will seem boring to some, but ideal for others, it all depends on what goal each person is pursuing. In general, such a union is reminiscent of a family from a movie, where the couple is exclusively concerned about home comfort and the development of their children. When breaking rules, even the most insignificant ones at first glance, it is important to understand that this inevitably causes cracks in the relationship, and such a marriage is more difficult to “repair” than if everything is done correctly from the very beginning.

Romantic marriage

Romantic marriage, unlike others, is the most sensitive to even the tiniest mistakes. Therefore, if possible, in order to preserve the relationship, it is important to follow absolutely all the rules in it.

So, the main commandment of a romantic marriage is this: live as beautifully as possible, fall in love quickly, do not hide your feelings from others, love separation for the sake of agonizing expectations and passionate meetings, be stupidly enthusiastic, sentimental, do not show off your intellect, never be rude, show more love, romanticism and care, be constantly different and forever young, travel more and never leave the role of the bride and groom.

And now, in fact, some rules that will make a romantic marriage happy and long.

• The ideal reason for this type of marriage is love at first sight. This is the right case when the mind is completely turned off and only emotions work. But even if the meeting took place at some kind of drunken party, you need to try to do everything as elegantly as possible. You need to admire your partner, but without unnecessary lust and restraint.
• Beauty is the basis of a romantic marriage! A man is the personification of strength, with an eagle look and a firm hand, and a woman is like a weightless and gentle creature. It's like a knight and a princess, and everything in a relationship should be beautiful too.
• A romantic marriage definitely needs an audience, without them it is empty. Such lovers are like actors who cannot play in an empty theater. If there are no observers, love simply dies. A chic wedding, a rich home interior, thick albums of joint photos - all this is a must. Moreover, partners can share their bed exploits with friends and girlfriends, even making it public. If the couple stops being interesting, the marriage is over. Therefore, you need to sit at home as little as possible and go to different places and travel more.
• Love should be played as brightly as possible! Under no circumstances should you lose that sparkle in your eyes, that tenderness, love and those feelings that you had at the beginning of your acquaintance. Only by being alone with each other can you rest a little, because when there is no audience, the actors rest.
• In a romantic marriage, separation is only beneficial, so try to travel to different places from time to time, this will preserve the subtle matter of feelings. You can even practice guest marriage.
• Your conversations with your loved one should be beautiful and not stressful; periodically be distracted by something sweetly stupid and sentimental. You can even include sysufixes in your speech. No serious themes - everything is just light, airy and wonderful.
• Take your time to start a family, register your marriage and have children. The resulting way of life will devour old feelings. Enjoy illusions, make plans and castles in the air, live your dreams, easily and naturally. The longer the candy-bouquet period lasts, the greater the chances for a happy family life.
• Avoid monotony by all means, be constantly different. If there is something radically different between the partners, then this will only be beneficial: for example, a strong difference in height or age, different hair color, etc. In marriage there should always be inequality in the fact that the man is strong and the woman is weak - if these scales shake, it’s all over.
• Always be young, even if physically you are not, be young in your soul and in your outlook. Enjoy the beauty of actions, words and your loved ones. Don't think about anything serious. By the way, there are many attacks on romantic marriage from envious people who are trying to throw mud at everything - just don’t pay attention.

Vector marriage

The most unpredictable of all types of marriage. This is something mystical and incomprehensible, but it takes place in life. By the way, despite all its absurdity, this type of marriage is indicated for some people, but this is a separate topic in the personal structural horoscope. A vector union can hardly be called a marriage, because marriage implies at least some kind of stability, regularity and balance. The vector type is more of a Pandora's box, falling into the fourth dimension, which does not make it possible to give commandments on how to behave in such a situation.

In this pair, one is necessarily the master and the other is the servant. You can find out who is related to whom from this table:

The owner in most cases acts as a tyrant and suppresses the servant, who cannot realize herself in any of the spheres. But it is also worth saying that the situation can take on a different structure when the owner becomes a kind of “father”/“mother”, and the servant takes on the role of “daughter”/“son”, who needs to be constantly looked after and looked after.

You can get into a vector marriage by accident or because of “great” love. In any case, such a union turns people inside out, and if you manage to get out of a vector marriage alive, then it is impossible to do this unharmed and without scars in your soul. Expect that there will be a poltergeist in the house, that the devil’s machinations will be felt in life situations, and that various kinds of anomalies will begin to occur. You can learn to perceive vector marriage as a kind of test, but there are no rules that will help you survive. The scalpel of the vector will cut out a part of your soul and throw it into tartarar. You can even dream about peace, forget that it exists at all. No morality, regularity or predictability.

The number of scenarios according to which vector alliances can develop is billions. Many in this marriage go on a deep binge or become addicted to drugs, although they could not even think about it before, even when in the most critical situations.

If you managed to escape from vector hell, rejoice, it’s God’s kiss. Now you simply have to make a mind-blowing career and achieve dizzying heights, this is especially true for those who have the role of a servant. If any other marriage collapsed, then this is an admission of weakness and wrongness of the partners, but if this happened with a vector marriage, everything is exactly the opposite - this speaks of strength of spirit and wisdom. Getting into a vector marriage is very easy, but breaking out of it is hellish work, and sometimes not everyone succeeds.

Don’t try to find a middle ground in a vector marriage - there never has been and there never will be. Everything about it is either very bad, or everything is too wonderful. Having decided on such an alliance, forget about who you were, you will never be who you are again. If you find yourself in a vector union, know that you were destined for a great purpose, but the evil forces were interfered with and thus they decided to eliminate you.

If you still dare to break out of this circle of hell, then first of all, learn to manage time, since now it is flowing through your fingers. Strengthen your spirit by devoting yourself to your favorite pastime, and when you realize that the time has come, run as fast as you can, if you can’t, then crawl until at least the tiniest bit of strength remains. As soon as you do this, break the connection completely - change your phone, delete your pages on the social network, or even better, move to another city!

Equal marriage

The commandment for an equal marriage is as follows: constantly improve your intellect, build one career, show aggression and fight, find a common enemy, kill everyday life, constantly rush, erase the line between husband and wife, show passion, change everything you can, never, under any circumstances, cheat on your partner, do not immerse yourself in caring for children and do not separate for a long time.

The ideal reason for building an alliance is a struggle, and it doesn’t matter at all what exactly it is for: power, money, status. Constant struggle is the foundation of equal marriage. Often marriage occurs between partners who fought against each other, for example, they are the owners of a business operating in an identical field. There are no restrictions in this struggle, and all means are good in achieving the goal. In this union, only those truths work that were developed by the participants themselves.

The intelligence of partners plays a huge role here. It is needed to set new goals, come up with methods of struggle and move forward on the path to success. This is something like an intellectual marathon, where truths can change from day to day.

Constantly talk with your other half, argue and defend your opinion. Only the topic of the dispute must be chosen correctly - it is better to avoid everyday issues altogether. The minimum level at which a discussion can be focused is external family problems, but the best topics remain business, politics, discussion of other people’s insidious misdeeds, etc. Conversations on sexual topics have a positive effect. Only adult conversations, in the dispute of which the truth will definitely be born!

Be sure to do one thing at a time, otherwise the arguments won’t be as productive. Moreover, a joint career or a common cause will help the spouses achieve greater benefits than they would have achieved alone. Kill everyday life, it will make you stupid, just like talking about it. Don't get attached to one place and circumstances.

In this pair, the man will become a little more feminine, and the woman will become a little more courageous. This is quite logical, because the alignment of the couple is required, the marriage is equal. Neither one nor the other has advantages or privileges; everything is equal here. To some extent, gender is erased, which helps not to get hung up on everyday life, because then the concept of male and female responsibilities is lost. At the same time, oddly enough, such asexual love does not affect the sexual sphere in any way.

An equal marriage does not tolerate indifference, so ignite passion in it - at every opportunity, grab each other, drag each other to the horizontal plane and dare - be jealous and do not even try to keep emotions inside. Moreover, you are both intellectuals, and sometimes you need to give your head a rest.

Work constantly on yourself and on your partner, since this type of marriage requires tireless work, long and painstakingly. By the way, as for the birth of offspring, it is better not to get carried away with it. It is advisable to have no more than one child, as this will significantly complicate the relationship, bringing stability.

To summarize, creativity plays a major role in an equal marriage. It is with the help of the latter that you can solve those problems that will arise from time to time. Also, try not to turn off your brain and constantly think, this will become a solid foundation for a long-term relationship.

Spiritual marriage

Spiritual marriage is characterized by the following commandment: be eager to find a good friend who will be there throughout your life, intrigue your partner, show interest in complexities, stop loving empty talk, build two different careers, become more liberated, throw public opinion out of your head, build your life in a spiral.

The ideal reason for entering into a spiritual union is fatigue from the loneliness that comes with time. Therefore, couples often form at a more mature age than at a young age. Confessors must turn away from society. No, you can have friendly conversations and joke, but don’t get rid of the fact that society is just scenery, and the main characters in the play of life are themselves.

Become wiser, deeper and do not try to look for truth on the surface. Make everything simple more complicated, get smarter and try to look where no one has seen anything before. You were born for difficult situations, so don't spread yourself thin. There are no taboo topics for you, talk about whatever your heart desires, the main thing is to have a deep conversation and try to find a philosophical context in everything. It is important that in a spiritual union the partners are interesting to each other, very interesting: like UFOs or wild animals, for example. Each feels a piece of his soul in the other and loves unselfishly.

In a spiritual marriage, people can go through an internal transformation and feel how they have become better, moved to a new stage of evolution.

It is imperative that careers are pursued in different areas; this will not give a chance to criticize each other; on the contrary, conversations will be noble and calm. These people can live together for a long time, sometimes their entire lives, nevertheless, from the outside the usual love will not be noticeable to everyone, but, as we have already said, the opinion of society should be completely ignored by a spiritual couple!

Unlike other types of marriage, confessors can allow themselves to break the commandment from time to time and play a little romantic or live in a kind of equal/patriarchal marriage, and as soon as the fun is fed up, everything will simply return to normal. But on the other hand, this type of union is one of the most difficult to implement. After all, to achieve harmony, something more is needed besides external and rank distribution - here the unity of souls must occur.

Unfortunately, it is impossible to fully consider the topic of types of marriage according to a structural horoscope in one article. There is too much information on each of them. But it was still possible to outline in general terms the main part of the commandments and styles of manifestation. Now that you know what structure your relationship belongs to, you can build an action plan for improvement or do nothing at all, as is the case with the patriarchal one, for example.