Types of marriages

For the majority of citizens, marriage is nothing more than a union of two loving hearts. But what if we look deeper? Have you ever wondered why some family happiness is given with the slightest effort, while others, it would seem, go out of their way, but even after years, tension remains in the relationship and in the end everything collapses anyway? Today we will analyze a very interesting topic regarding the types of marriage. First, let's touch on the types of unions in the conventional sense, and then move on to the most interesting!

To begin with, as already said, consider the nationwide variations of marriages.

Church marriage

A church marriage is the one whose registration took place, as the name implies, in the church. In our country, they can be called an ordinary wedding. However, in some countries it is such a marriage that is considered the main, the only legal form and has full legal force. The main essence of such a sacrament is that the newlyweds receive the blessing of God for their future life together. By the way, in Christianity it is forbidden to neglect the wedding, and divorce after this process is considered a sin. An exception may be cases when the father's blessing was received for divorce.

Fictitious marriage

This type of marriage differs significantly from the rest in that the newly-made couple have no feelings for each other, and selfish goals are laid in the basis of registration of the union. Such a marriage is duly registered in local government bodies, however, as a rule, only the spouses themselves know about the purpose of such a union.

The main impetus for the creation of this kind of marriage is: obtaining citizenship for one and a couple, obtaining material benefits of a different nature. But there are other reasons for such a marriage that an ordinary person would not even dream of. So, for example, in history there are such reasons that took place to be:

• Young people deliberately played a wedding just in order to get more freedom from their parents and do what they want more, as well as to improve their lives without the supervision of their elders. However, such cases often turned around unexpectedly for the "newlyweds" themselves, since they subsequently began to feel feelings for each other in reality and continued to live as a real family.
• Most often, fictitious marriages are registered for the purpose of obtaining citizenship or a residence permit. As a rule, in most cases, the whole procedure is greatly simplified.
• In countries where same-sex love is viewed from the negative side, fictitious marriage is registered in order to cover up their own orientation. Often this helps significantly in building a career and allows you to avoid "sidelong" views when "you are already over 40, and your family is not yet."
• Often, fictitious marriages were registered in order to receive material benefits from the state.

Actual marriage

Despite the fact that in society the usual cohabitation is called "civil marriage", in fact, this is fundamentally wrong. So, "civil marriage" is an official marriage, which is registered in accordance with all the rules and meets the norms of the law. But "actual marriage" is cohabitation. Thus, a couple can live at least their whole life, but at the same time not have any documentary evidence of their involvement in each other.

The complexity of such a marriage comes at the time of divorce, when over the long years lived together the "family" has joint property, and no one wants to share it with a partner. Then a long litigation is brewing, in which everyone must prove their right to a particular subject, as well as the fact that the marriage really took place. This procedure is long and not easy. Complicating the situation is the fact that, according to the Family Code of the Russian Federation, unregistered relationships do not impose marital obligations. However, if children are born in such a union, then the latter have absolutely identical rights as children in a full-fledged marriage.

We examined the main types of marriages that are mentioned in society, but there is another division of marriages, which not everyone knows about, but this is where the most interesting lies. Below we list 5 types of marriage, which are considered from the point of view of a structural horoscope. Before reading any further, determine what type of marriage your relationship belongs to by comparing the signs of the year of birth of both, using the following table:

Now that you have learned to which structure your union belongs, you can proceed to study it.

Patriarchal marriage

The main commandment of patriarchal marriage: love children and be like a child, love physical labor, it is unnecessary to fight for power and take care of inner freedom, clearly divide areas of responsibility, do not seek to argue and avoid quarrels, do not immerse yourself in feelings and do not surrender to passions, do not seek to change anything and don't try to improve the relationship. And now a little more detail.

The ideal reason for entering into a patriarchal marriage is the desire of both partners to prolong the clan, but this is not the case when they sign, as they say, on the fly. Even if the reason for the marriage was a different goal, it is extremely dangerous to delay the birth of children in a patriarchal marriage. If the newlyweds are 30 years old, then you need to start conceiving immediately, if 25 or less, then it is permissible to wait a year or two. You can not get overly carried away by romance, career and business. Moreover, one cannot be limited to the birth of one child - the more, the better. Children are the main epicenter in patriarchal marriage. If there are no children, then the union will quickly fall apart, and if it keeps afloat, then there will be no happiness in it. While there are no children, both need to become "children" themselves in a positive sense.

In a patriarchal marriage, intellectual communication cannot be conducted; all conversations should be about the economy. Forbidden topics for spouses: politics, the meaning of life, aliens and everything that concerns seriousness and requires philosophical reasoning. Talk only about family and household. In a patriarchal marriage, your tongue is your enemy!

The family should have a clear division of territories and concepts of a man and a woman. This will create an indestructible tandem. In this case, both the husband and the wife can act as the head of the family, but the head must be mandatory, there is no place for equality. In a patriarchal union, there should be no passions and ardent love - to support the light - yes, to burn with feelings - no. You can't innovate in sex either. A patriarchal marriage can rather be compared to a friendship in which there are simple, down-to-earth warm feelings. Someone will ask: why is it so boring? The answer is very simple, the purpose of creating a patriarchal marriage in a different way - as mentioned earlier - is the procreation and raising offspring. And also, do not try to make a patriarchal marriage better, it will only make it worse. Enjoy only the first year of living together, and then be as it will.

You cannot change anything in the family unless there is an urgent need for that. Even a simple rearrangement of furniture can lead to a scandal. However, it is imperative to keep order and do it carefully. A patriarchal marriage will seem boring to someone, it will become ideal for someone, it all depends on what goal everyone pursues. In general, such a union resembles a family from a movie, where a couple is concerned exclusively with home comfort and the development of children. Breaking the rules, even the most insignificant at first glance, it is important to understand that this inevitably creates a crack in the relationship, and such a marriage is more difficult to "repair" than if everything is done correctly from the very beginning.

Romantic marriage

Romantic marriage, unlike others, is the most sensitive to even the tiniest mistakes. Therefore, if possible, in order to preserve the relationship, it is important to observe absolutely all the rules in it.

So, the main commandment of a romantic marriage is as follows: live as beautifully as possible, fall in love quickly, do not hide your feelings from others, love separation for the sake of painful expectations and passionate meetings, be silly-enthusiastic, sentimental, do not stick out your intellect, never be rude, show more love , romanticism and care, be constantly different and forever young, travel more and never leave the role of the bride and groom.

And now, in fact, some rules that will make a romantic marriage happy and long.

• The ideal reason for this type of marriage is love at first sight. This is the appropriate case when the mind is completely disconnected and only emotions are working. But even if the meeting took place at some drunken party, you need to try to do everything as elegantly as possible. You need to admire your partner, but without unnecessary lust and restraint.
• Beauty is the foundation of a romantic marriage! A man is the personification of strength, with an eagle's gaze and a firm hand, and a woman is like a weightless and most delicate creature. It's like a knight and a princess, and everything should be beautiful in a relationship too.
• A romantic marriage definitely needs spectators, without them it is a dummy. Such lovers are like actors who cannot play in an empty theater. If there are no observers, love simply dies. A luxurious wedding, a rich home interior, thick albums of joint photos - all this is a must. Moreover, partners can share their bed exploits with friends and girlfriends, even making it public. If the couple ceases to be interesting, the marriage is over. Therefore, you need to sit at home as little as possible and walk more to different places and travel.
• Love should be played as brightly as possible! In no case should you lose that spark in your eyes, that tenderness, love and those feelings that were at the beginning of your acquaintance. Only being alone with each other can you take a break, because when there is no spectator, the actors have a rest.
• In a romantic marriage, separation is only beneficial, so try to travel to different places from time to time, this will preserve the subtle matter of feelings. You can even practice guest marriage.
• Your conversations with your loved one should be beautiful and not stressful, periodically be distracted by something cute, silly and sentimental. You can even include syssufixes in speech. No serious topics - everything is just light, airy and wonderful.
• Take your time to start a family, register a marriage and have children. The resulting life will devour past feelings. Enjoy illusions, make plans and castles in the air, live your dreams, easily and naturally. The longer the candy-bouquet period lasts, the more chances for a happy family life.
• Avoid monotony with all your might, be constantly different. If there is something radically different between the partners, then this will only benefit: for example, a strong difference in height or age, different hair color, etc. In a marriage, there should always be inequality in the fact that a man is strong and a woman is weak - these scales will shake - write lost.
• Always be young, even if physically it is not so - be young in soul and outlook. Enjoy the beauty of your actions, words and your loved ones. Don't think about anything serious. By the way, it is on a romantic marriage that there are many attacks from envious people who are trying to throw mud at everything - just do not pay attention.

Vector marriage

The most unpredictable of all types of marriage. This is something mystical and incomprehensible, but it has a place to be in life. By the way, despite all its absurdity, this type of marriage is shown to some people, but this is already a separate topic of the personal structural horoscope. A vector union can hardly be called a marriage, because marriage implies at least some slight stability, regularity and balance. The vector type is more like a Pandora's box, getting into the fourth dimension, which makes it impossible to give commandments on how to behave in such a situation.

In this pair, there must be one master and the other a servant. You can find out who has whom to whom from this table:

The master in most cases acts as a tyrant and suppresses the servant, who cannot be realized in any of the spheres. But it should also be said that the situation may acquire a different structure, when the owner becomes a kind of "dad" / "mom", and the servant takes on the role of "daughter" / "son", who needs to be constantly taken care of and patronized.

You can get into a vector marriage by accident or by "big" love. In any case, such a union turns people inside out, and if you manage to get out of a vector marriage alive, then it is impossible to do this unharmed and without scars in your soul. Expect that a poltergeist will start in the house, in life situations devilish intrigues will be felt and all sorts of anomalies will begin to occur. You can learn to perceive vector marriage as a kind of test, but there are no rules that will help you survive. The vector scalpel will carve out a piece of your soul and throw it into the mess. You can even dream of peace, forget about the fact that it exists. No morality, regularity and predictability.

The number of scenarios in which vector unions can develop is billions. Many in this marriage go into a deep binge or addicted to drugs, although they could not even think about it before, even being in the most critical situations.

If you managed to escape from the vector hell - rejoice, this is God's kiss. Now you simply have to make a mind-blowing career and achieve dizzying heights, especially for those who have played the role of a servant. If any other marriage has collapsed, then this is an admission of the weakness and wrongness of the partners, but if this happened to the vector, everything is exactly the opposite - this speaks of the strength of spirit and wisdom. It's very easy to get into a vector marriage, but to break out of it is hellish work, and not everyone can do it sometimes.

Do not try to find the golden mean in vector marriage - it never was and never will be. Everything about him is either very bad, or everything is too wonderful. Having decided on such a union - forget about who you were, you will never be one again. If you got into a vector union, know that you were destined for a great goal, only the evil forces were in the way and thus they decided to eliminate you.

If you still dare to break out of this circle of hell, then first of all you will learn how to manage time, as now it flows through your fingers. Strengthen your spirit by devoting yourself to your favorite pastime, and when you realize that the time has come, run, run as fast as you can, if you can't, then crawl until at least a tiny bit of strength remains. As soon as you do this - cut the connection completely - change your phone, delete pages on the social network, or even better, move to another city!

Equal marriage

The commandment for an equal marriage is as follows: constantly improve your intellect, build one career, show aggression and fight, find a common enemy, kill everyday life, constantly rush, erase the line between husband and wife, show passion, change everything that is possible, never and do not under any circumstances cheat on your partner, do not immerse yourself in caring for children and do not part for a long time.

The ideal reason for building an alliance is struggle, and it does not matter for what exactly: power, money, status. Constant struggle is the foundation of an equal marriage. Often a marriage occurs between partners who fought against each other, for example, they are the owners of a business working in an identical field. There are no limits in this struggle, and all means are good in achieving the goal. In this union, only those truths work that were developed by the participants themselves.

The intelligence of partners plays a huge role here. He is needed to set new goals, come up with methods of struggle and move forward on the path to success. It's like an intellectual marathon where truths can change from day to day.

Constantly talk with your half, argue and defend your opinion. Only the topic of the dispute should be correctly selected - it is better to avoid everyday issues altogether. The minimum level at which the discussion can be sharpened is foreign family problems, but the best topics remain business, politics, discussion of other people's insidious misconduct, etc. Sexual conversations have a positive effect. Only adult conversations, in the dispute of which the truth is sure to be born!

Be sure to do one thing or the arguments won't be as productive. Moreover, a joint career or a common cause will help spouses achieve greater benefits than everything would be built alone. Kill everyday life, it will make you stupider, just like talking about it. Don't get attached to one place and circumstance.

In this pair, the man will become a little more feminine, and the woman more masculine. This is quite logical, because the alignment of the couple is required, the marriage is equal. Neither one nor the other has advantages and privileges, everything is on an equal footing here. To some extent, gender is erased, which helps not to get hung up on everyday life, because then the concept of male and female responsibilities is lost. At the same time, oddly enough, such asexual love does not affect the sexual sphere in any way.

An equal marriage does not tolerate indifference, so kindle passion in it - at every opportunity, grab each other, drag each other to the horizontal plane and dare - be jealous and do not even try to keep emotions inside. Moreover, you are both intellectuals, and sometimes your head needs to be given a rest.

Work constantly on yourself and on your partner, as you need to work tirelessly on this type of marriage, long and painstakingly. By the way, with regard to the birth of offspring, it is better not to get carried away with this. It is advisable to have no more than one child, as this will significantly complicate the relationship, bringing stability.

Summing up, we note that in an equal marriage, creativity plays the main role. It is with the help of the latter that you can solve those problems that will pile up from time to time. And also, try not to turn off your brain and constantly think, this will become a solid foundation of a long-term relationship.

Spiritual marriage

Spiritual marriage is characterized by the following commandment: burn with the desire to find a good friend who will be there throughout your life, intrigue your partner, show interest in difficulties, stop loving empty talk, build two different careers, become more liberated, put public opinion out of your head, build your life in a spiral.

The ideal excuse to enter into a spiritual union is the tiredness of loneliness that comes with time. Therefore, often couples are formed at a more mature age than at a young age. Confessors must turn their backs on society. No, you can have friendly conversations, you can joke, but do not throw out of your head the fact that society is just scenery, and they themselves are the main characters in the play of life.

Become wiser, deeper and do not try to search for truth on the surface. Make everything simple more difficult, be wise and try to look where no one has seen anything yet. You are born for difficult situations, so don't be overwhelmed. There are no taboo topics for you, talk about everything that your heart desires, the main thing is to have a deep conversation and try to find a philosophical context in everything. It is important that in a spiritual union the partners are interesting to each other, very interesting: like UFOs or wild animals, for example. Everyone feels in the other a part of their soul and loves disinterestedly.

In a spiritual marriage, people can go through an internal transformation and feel how they have become better, moved to a new stage of evolution.

It is imperative that careers go in different areas, this will not give a chance to criticize each other, on the contrary, conversations will be noble and calm. These people can live together for a long time, sometimes all their lives, nevertheless, the usual love will not be noticeable to everyone from the outside, but, as we have already said, the opinion of society should be completely ignored by the spiritual couple!

Unlike other types of marriage, confessors can afford to break the commandment from time to time and play a little romantics or live like an equal / patriarchal marriage, and as soon as the fun is fed up, everything will just return to normal. But on the other hand, in the embodiment, this type of union is one of the most difficult. After all, here, in order to obtain harmony, something more is needed, except for external and rank distribution - here the unity of souls must occur.

Unfortunately, it is impossible to fully consider the topic of types of marriage according to the structural horoscope in one article. There is too much information on each of them. But it still came out to outline the main part of the commandments and styles of manifestation. Now that you know which structure your relationship belongs to, you can build an action plan for improvement or do nothing at all, as is the case with the patriarchal, for example.