Marriage scammers

What girl doesn't dream of marrying a handsome prince on a white horse? Everyone would like this, but as they grow up, some understand that these are nothing more than childhood dreams, while others remain true to their youthful fantasies. Knowing this, marriage swindlers play on the strings of a woman’s soul in such a way that they satisfy the needs of the fair half of humanity and at the same time receive material benefits. In the modern world, where there is so little love, there are more and more marriage swindlers every year, but even they can be dealt with if you catch them in time. 

Who are marriage scammers?

Marriage swindlers are people who play at love without experiencing feelings, but who passionately want to profit from the feelings of their victims. As soon as the victim’s resources dry up, the marriage swindler disappears from the horizon and finds a new “love”, or rather a source of income. Both men and women fall prey to marriage scammers, but most often it is the latter who become victims.

Marriage scammers know female psychology very well, they know what a woman needs, what she wants to hear. They look after you very beautifully, making a queen out of a woman. It is not by chance that they select their victim, because not every woman can fall for his bait. The victims are ladies with low self-esteem, who are absolutely insecure, those who are already beginning to become disillusioned with men and life. They sense them a mile away. A confident woman will not fall for the tricks of a marriage swindler.

Where do marriage scammers live?

Marriage swindlers live wherever their potential victim may be. Most often these are dating sites. This is where you can really run into a scammer pretending to be poor and unhappy. But in fact, you can meet such a mercantile man absolutely everywhere, so it’s easier not to identify the place, but the swindler himself. There are many stories when women met their “love” even in the women’s restroom... Their habitat is very wide: supermarkets, nightclubs, playgrounds - they are everywhere. Knowing the basic scheme by which they work, you can initially refuse a relationship that is obviously “unprofitable” for a lady, thereby protecting your wallet from misfortunes.

Types of marriage scammers

Despite the fact that the essence of all marriage scammers is the same, they can all be divided into categories:

• Victims of circumstances. These people live on the Internet. Meet a lady on social media. networks or on dating sites, they make a woman fall in love with them, and then offer to meet in “real life”. But by chance, right before the meeting they either break something, have an accident or something else that requires a lot of money for treatment. Naturally, a woman in love cannot leave her “beloved” in trouble and transfers finances. Well, then everything is clear.
• Incorrigible military men. They love to introduce themselves as workers in military professions, and they always serve abroad. They love to tell stories about their deceased wife and how difficult it is to raise a child alone. As soon as he realizes that he has firmly gained his trust, he sends a message that for some unknown reason he cannot withdraw money from his account, but he really needs it. Well, naturally, he asks for help, which, unfortunately, most often comes.
• Loving men. This is one of the most dangerous types of scammers because they act very carefully, bypassing the Internet. Unlike other types, it costs nothing for these to marry their victim, which they often do. And what else, if not a wedding, can serve as an ideal cover and method to lull the victim’s vigilance. Then he invites his newly-made wife to move in with him and sell all her property. Naturally, the money received will end up with him, and a common reason for this is an investment in a “business” that will “surely” bring in a lot of money in the future. And then a divorce and a maiden name, a woman on the street and without a livelihood, and it is very difficult to prove that he was a swindler, because there was a marriage, which means the matter is purely family. 
• Sex tourists. These guys are the most harmless of all the others. They often “hang out” on the Internet and write truthful information about themselves, post reliable photos and are generally the most honest of all, except that they do not explain the purpose of the acquaintance. The hackneyed scheme is something like this: a man knows that in a few weeks he will go on a business trip to a certain city. On the Internet, he finds an attractive woman who lives alone and after a few days or a week of dating, he casually says that he will come on a business trip. A lady with good intentions, rejoicing at such a wonderful coincidence, invites him to stay with her. This is how a man gets free housing, food and, of course, sex. By the way, some of the men travel according to this principle, pleasantly saving on all the same things.
• The most dangerous scammers are slave traders. They identify their victims both on the Internet and on the streets. Here the swindler is not concerned about the victim’s material condition, but about her external attractiveness. They strike up a pleasant acquaintance and invite you for a cup of tea. Medicines are quietly mixed into the drink, from which the lady loses control over the situation, and when she comes to her senses, she already finds herself in another place - a brothel. Thus, many women end up in sexual slavery.

How to recognize a marriage swindler

When meeting and starting a relationship with a new man, you should be wary of the following:

• Most of them call a profession that is surrounded by romanticism and masculinity at the same time. Often these are lawyers, intelligence officers, military personnel, pilots, etc. These are professions about which you cannot say much; you can refer to some kind of secrecy. To some extent, this is a guarantee that the victim will not check anything, and the chosen one himself will look more status. 
• He is always handsome and well-groomed, takes care of his appearance, but of course, the essence of the job is to please women. However, such a criterion cannot be called fundamental.
• He tries to tell as little information as possible about himself, but he asks the lady everything, and is especially interested in the topic of her material security.
• As a rule, he is an orphan, he grew up in an orphanage and he has no friends at all, only colleagues. Naturally, this may be completely wrong, just to avoid introducing your victim to loved ones and relatives, it’s easier to say that they don’t exist at all.
• He really wants to go to the victim’s house for tea, but in reality, of course, he is more interested in looking at what he can profit from, testing the waters, so to speak. If a lady does not want to let an obsessive gentleman into her home, it is likely that he will resort to insults and manipulation.
• When going to a restaurant or other establishment where finances are needed, he will accidentally forget the card in another wallet or something similar. He will do anything to see if a woman is willing to pay for him.

Of course, these are not all the criteria by which a fraudster can be identified, but it is difficult to list everything. Just be careful when meeting new people and don’t trust strangers.

And finally, a few important points from law enforcement agencies:

• Never immediately trust a new man, take a closer look at him. The marriage swindler soon enough becomes interested in the woman’s property. Never invite little-known people to your home, no matter how nice and honest they seem to you. 
• Refusal to give your phone number, as well as its change, should also alert you. Another reason to suspect something is wrong is when a person tries to avoid crowded places, finds many excuses for refusing to meet your friends and relatives, and is also in no hurry to introduce you to his circle. He is not eager to take photos together or generally “shine” together.
• As practice shows, a marriage swindler takes great care of his documents, so they are either constantly lost, or he hides them in such a way that it is almost impossible to find them.

The difficulty with marriage scammers is that not everyone is so commonplace. There are truly “big fish” and professionals in their field who think through their plan so perfectly and work in such a way that even after breaking up, the woman has no idea that she was simply used, and the fact that the relationship ended is largely her fault and he deserves better.

Therefore, dear ladies, love and appreciate yourself, you are beautiful and worthy of the best man who should conquer you!