Every woman should be able to do these things.

All women are different. Each is unique and inimitable. Each of us has our own character, morals, preferences. But there is a common base that every woman must master in order to become a real queen for herself and for her man. Today we will consider what every girl should have in order to become the best.

Learn to cook deliciously

The modern world, unfortunately, makes it possible for women not to delve into the nuances of kitchen affairs. Now a person with any level of income can afford to eat in restaurants, cafes and other catering establishments. This approach has atrophied in women the desire to cook with their own hands and delight home with culinary masterpieces. Of course, we are not talking about all the ladies, but the bulk, especially young people, can no longer even boast of cooking scrambled eggs.

But, as you know, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Having a tasty meal, the stronger sex becomes pliable, soft and kind. That's when you can ask your beloved for everything and start a conversation about the arrival of mom. In addition, with the ability to cook tasty and healthy food, you can always remain slim and beautiful.

If you do not know how to cook yet, but seriously thought about it - it is commendable. As you know, awareness of the problem is already half of the solution. Watch culinary video blogs, read recipes and tips for hostesses, "settle" on thematic forums, where they will gladly provide you with support and advice. Having cooked your first full-fledged dish, you will no longer be able to stop.

Be self-reliant and independent

From childhood, women are taught that they need to be weak and rely on men in everything, because they are the earners, and the woman is the keeper of the hearth. This is partly true, with a few exceptions. Despite gender differences, every person, regardless of gender, must be a person, and a woman is no exception. Let's start even with the fact that a self-respecting man will not make serious plans for the future with a girl who does not have her own opinion, who does not have any skills, but is only ready to climb on the neck of her narrowed one. Men like smart and self-sufficient women. Someone will now ask "but what about the female weakness, which men are so fond of?" Everything is very simple, every weak woman is strong, only she does not emphasize her strength, but hides behind wisdom.

A woman should be prepared for the fact that someday, at the most inopportune moment, she may find herself without a man. And what to do then? If she is adapted to life in splendid isolation, she will be able to feed herself and raise children, which often appear in women after relationships and marriage.

Constantly improve, get better every day and fight your shortcomings. To do this, it is not at all necessary to have a higher education, the "crust" is not at all an indicator of the level of intelligence. Read more books, find something interesting to do. Then people will be interested with you, there will be a social circle in which it will be comfortable to be. The feeling of happiness will add sparkle in the eyes, and this is the best feminine adornment and weapon of attraction.

Love yourself

Most women think they love themselves, but is that really so? What is self-love in general? Love for your own person is not at all selfishness, a bit of healthy selfishness is still needed, it is a whole set of qualities and characteristics that make a person a full-fledged personality.

First of all, it is, of course, a manifestation of self-respect. Don't be insulted and don't do it yourself. Each person has flaws and this is quite natural and normal, moreover, having worked them thoroughly, each flaw can be turned into a virtue. There is an opinion that the human subconscious mind does not perceive humor, so if you regularly say to yourself something like: well, I'm a fool; here I am a brake ..., thereby you will tune yourself to the appropriate mood and act appropriately. But praising yourself is useful, even for the most seemingly insignificant things.

Never humiliate yourself, love your body, show your individuality - in a word, accept yourself as you really are. Don't try to look for idols and be like them. Thus, you reject your essence and cease to be yourself. Summing up the above, here are some useful tips from psychologists that will help you love yourself and believe in yourself.

• Love yourself whether you have a soul mate or not. Many girls lose self-esteem when girlfriends have men and they don't. Happiness should not depend on this factor, develop self-sufficiency and remember "... Better to be alone than with just anyone."
• Do not suggest to yourself that some external attributes will help you become better and more beautiful. The problem of self-dislike lies in the depths of the soul, and not outside, therefore, everything needs to be corrected on the plane of spirituality. Love yourself for nothing, just for what you are, you are individual, there is no more such a person on earth and cannot be!
• Don't beat yourself up for past mistakes. What was, has already passed. Moreover, they can and even should be loved, understood and forgiven. Nothing just happens, so this experience was needed for something. Use this knowledge in the future so you don't get more frustration.
• Stop praising other people, putting them above yourself, and do not create idols for yourself. Other people are similarly subject to all vices: they cheat, get angry, throw tantrums, make mistakes. No one is better and no one is worse, each on his own.
• Never, do you hear, never compare yourself with someone! The only comparison that can be made is with myself, only a day / week / month / year ago. Become better than yourself a certain period ago. Thus, you will grow in your eyes and you will not have to look for a reason to praise yourself for a good time.
• Since women’s self-esteem is no less dependent on appearance, it will be useful to love your body and face. There are many different exercises for this. The simplest thing is to look in the mirror and compliment yourself. Do it out loud, do not hesitate. Wake up in the morning, look at yourself, smile and tell your reflection: yes you are a beauty! Consider yourself from all sides and praise for your slimness or for appetizing forms, remember - they are beautiful!

Accept compliments

Giving someone a compliment, you can often hear in response "Come on!", "Well, you are exaggerating," etc. And this is fundamentally wrong! The misperception of praise as a compliment can be attributed to several reasons:

• The wrong idea that a compliment is obligatory.
• The conviction that this compliment is not really deserved.
• Doubts about the sincerity of the person giving compliments.
• Fears of being the center of attention.
• Lack of communication skills and excessive shyness.

Learn to take compliments correctly, if they tell you, then you really deserve it! Here are some rules to help you in this matter:

• Smiling in response to a compliment is a sign of good manners. Ideally, a smile should be supplemented with a phrase from the category: "Thank you, I am very pleased to hear that." It is permissible to respond to compliments with compliments, but in no case should you copy the one that came to your address. Avoid various clichés, come up with your own phrases - be original.
• Try to perceive the compliment in the form in which it came to you and do not try to look for a secret meaning and background in it. If it seems to you that you are being flattered, just tell your interlocutor “You are flattering me,” and then act according to the circumstances.
• Never ignore compliments, always respond, otherwise it will be uncivilized and you may be considered an arrogant.
• To properly accept compliments, you need to work on your self-esteem. How to do this read here.

Be able to understand and forgive

To be able to forgive people, including herself, is a very important quality that must be spent wisely. Yes, some things hard to forgive and sometimes it seems impossible. But here you need to think carefully.

Unforgiveness means holding resentment and anger towards yourself or someone else. This greatly spoils not only mood, but also health. Moreover, some esoteric psychologists are of the opinion that long-term anger and resentment cause cancer. Over time, pain can go away from the field of consciousness, but it will firmly lay down on the subconscious level. Let's look at an example. Let's say a beloved man went "to the left", as you learned about. Few can forgive treason, but ... Forgive just the same is necessary, not in order to continue living together as if there was nothing. You need to forgive so that harmony reigns in your soul. It is not necessary to live with a person who betrayed you, you can draw conclusions, sincerely say to yourself “I forgive you, treason is your choice” and let the person go. Thus, you can protect yourself from repeated betrayal. But if it was customary to forgive and live with him further, and then a relapse occurred, he also needs to be accepted. Indeed, after one mistake, a person consciously takes the risk that an unpleasant story will repeat itself again.

How can you learn to forgive and not turn into a weak-willed rag? Let's see what psychologists advise on this matter.

• To forgive a person on a purely mental level is difficult. In moments of anger, negative energy accumulates in the soul, which must necessarily come out. To get rid of it, you can go to the gym, beat a punching bag, and do strength training. If sport is not your strong point, then you can tear paper with all your might, break pencils, shout somewhere in the forest, beat the dishes or shoot just not in the offender.
• Think and ponder why a person can do this. Analyze the factors that could have pushed the abuser to commit acts. As a rule, when doing something, initially people do not think to hurt another, they simply do not think about it, or they naively believe that the secret will remain secret. Once you understand the reason, it will be much easier to forgive.
• Tell the abuser how you are feeling. Do it calmly, but clearly and clearly, without ambiguity. If such an opportunity does not appear, or you simply do not want to see this person, then you can write him a letter. Write down on paper all your thoughts, feelings and opinions in case of what happened. Try not to offend the "interlocutor" and not to reproach - be above this. The letter itself may not be sent, in this case, you can put everything that has boiled on paper and even use foul language, but then be sure to burn it.

Having learned to forgive, you can live in a world where there is no place for anger, tantrums and resentment. Of course, you won't be able to develop this valuable quality in yourself right away, but with regular training it will become much easier. Have a constant internal dialogue with you and praise yourself for every victory.

And yet, never try to take revenge on the offender, this is not good and, most likely, you will immediately regret it, and then you will blame yourself for what you did.

Be the keeper of the hearth

Yes, men love with their eyes and at first they may not see anything in women at all except her beautiful eyes, chiseled figures or juicy priests. But then, as soon as the first impression fades into the background, the “male” begins to approach the choice of the “female” from a more material point of view. Let's immediately understand that we are now talking about normal men, and not about "disposable".

Wanting to build a serious relationship with a woman, a man will definitely be visiting her, but not for the purpose of having fun, but to observe how economical she is. Especially cunning ones can come unexpectedly, because it is always easy to prepare and put things in order for a scheduled meeting. Therefore, it is very important to develop in oneself the qualities of the keeper of the hearth. Create coziness in the house, even if you live alone, put everything in its place and do not allow things to be scattered, cook even for yourself tasty and original. Make the house so that you want to return to it. By the way, this is another element of the manifestation of self-love, when something pleasant is done not for the sake of someone, but for oneself.

Be a good lover

The devil in bed is every man's dream. Naturally, with the proviso that it will be extended for him alone. Being a good and even a first-class lover is not as easy as it might seem at first glance. Moreover, "ideality" can only be developed for one person. After all, every man is individual, he has his own preferences, his own tastes and mores.

You can, of course, read books, watch instructional videos, and so on. But the best thing is practice. Find out from your man what he likes best, what excites and pleases him more in bed. Carry on appropriate conversations, inadvertently recognize his sexual fantasies, and then surprise them with a surprise.

Approaching the bed issue from this position, you really can become the best lover, from whom you do not want to go to the side. A man will understand that due to a fleeting affair he can lose such a treasure as you.

However, it is not the best option to show your skills to a man with whom you have only recently entered the stage of an intimate relationship. Otherwise, he may misunderstand everything, because, as a rule, such skills come only to experienced ladies, and the experience that was gained with other "males" does not really appeal to current partners.

Trust a man

Trust - long and lasting relationships are built on it. Women are by nature emotional creatures, because of any little thing, they can wind themselves up so that everything will result in a destructive scandal. Yes, some antics, especially at the beginning of a relationship, when "love" is still fresh, a man can endure, but the further it goes, the more difficult it will be for him to put up with it. Of course, for complete trust, there must be a suitable partner who, by his actions, made it clear that he would never fail, but it is much better, and in order to preserve his own nerves, to trust immediately the person with whom the relationship begins.

The question is, why surrender to a person, share joy and sorrow with him, if initially there is no trust? This promises constant tension in relationships, scandals over trifles. Moreover, such behavior is more likely to chill the feelings and, over time, push the partner to seek solace on the side. As a rule, this is the main reason for cheating in couples.

Be more patient with your loved one and do not try to "paint" events. Men appreciate it very much and will never leave a woman and will not give a woman with whom they are comfortable, calm and comfortable.

Love experiments

Routine sometimes oppresses even stable people. It is always interesting to change something in your life and, most importantly, it is never too late. How many people live according to the same "work-home" scenario, without bringing color and experiencing suffering.

Experiments, on the other hand, allow you to experience new feelings, emotions, get a positive charge, which is then safely spent on useful things and give strength to survive the troubles of life. Try to do something you haven't done before. Change your hairstyle, hair color, wardrobe, try on yourself new images that have hitherto been taboo, learn a foreign language, and then go to his homeland and practice, at the same time learning the culture of other countries. This will bring not only a positive charge and relieve the nervous system, but also allow you to get to know yourself better. Perhaps in the process you will find something truly "your own", to which you want to devote all of yourself. The disclosure of one's inner “I” has not harmed anyone yet.

You will look at the world with different eyes, you will be able to see it through the eyes of others and you will see how many-sided life is and how many bright colors it contains. Live in the here and now, be positive and then the right environment will reach you!

Inspire a man

“Behind every great man there is a great woman” - a truth that must always be remembered. Men are strong, but women give them this strength. First, their mother instills confidence in their own abilities, and then their life partner. Even a strong man can be turned into a "rag" if you put your hand to it well, and vice versa, you can make a confident and self-sufficient person out of a notorious and insecure person.

The process of inspiration is complex and requires constant training. It all starts with the fact that a man should love to respect a woman, share her opinion and appreciate the advice she gives. It is difficult to earn trust, so it is better to maintain and not destroy the one that is given by default at the beginning of the relationship. When a man chooses one and only one for himself, he wants to be the best for her, perform feats and do everything to make her happy. In difficult moments, when it seems that the whole world is against him, kind sincere words of support from the lips of a loved one can act on him like an elixir, return him to his senses. The realization that a woman is ready to accept and understand his normal weakness, while not ceasing to love and seeing in him a strong personality, whom she is ready to completely trust, will not let her give up and put an end to herself.

A man in whom his beloved woman believes is capable of almost the impossible, just to become the best knight for his princess.

Be feminine

Femininity is almost always an acquired quality, or rather, a whole set of qualities. This is tenderness, gentleness, wisdom, the ability to dress, weakness, warmth and much, much more. You can even say that femininity is a state of mind and a way of life. Only next to a feminine woman can a man feel like a man, feel his strength.

One day, of course, it is difficult to acquire and develop this in oneself, especially when before that, over the course of several decades, directly opposite habits were created. A woman can be feminine and at the same time self-sufficient and strong. There is no need to compete with men, to prove to them that you are right, it is wrong to get involved in fights with sellers, it is unnecessary to carry heavy bags of groceries on your hump - be wiser, softer and weaker. In difficult situations, do not hesitate to ask for help, be above squabbles and scandals.

Read books on relevant topics, make a list of the qualities that you lack, and don't try to change everything at once. Start small, react to familiar things in a different way, and be sure to praise yourself every time. Everything is built on little things.

Be wise

Wisdom and femininity go hand in hand. In fact, these two qualities cannot exist without each other. Therefore, having worked out one thing, another will appear. If we touch on the topic of relationships, then a wise woman is characterized by:

• understand that tactile contact can sometimes say more than words;
• never compare your man with others, for her, her beloved is the best in the world;
• pay enough attention to your household, support them in their endeavors and instill confidence in each of them;
• forgive insults, do not get angry and do not reproach for any mistakes in the past;
• speak softly, but directly about her desires and preferences, a wise woman will not go in a roundabout way, which is very annoying for the stronger sex;
• patience, such a woman understands that there are no ideal people, so you always need to find a compromise that will satisfy everyone;
• look for peaceful ways to resolve problems and not throw tantrums with or without;
• trust your man and not be jealous of him, do not nag.

This is just a small fraction of what a wise woman possesses. As a rule, all these qualities are developed only over time, but only because until a certain point women do not think about the need to change their approach to life. If you start studying now, then later this knowledge can be passed on to your daughters, thereby starting a generation of wonderful women.

Love yourself, love people, become better every day, praise yourself and then every day will be filled with new colors!