"The art of the speaker": how to learn to speak beautifully
Every day, each person communicates with relatives, work colleagues, strangers or strangers in the store, transport and on the street. If you learn to express your thoughts beautifully, then people will begin to listen, respectively, it will become much easier to achieve understanding.
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Beautiful speech technique
In order for the speech to be interesting to the listeners, it should not contain crumpled sentences. The correct phrases must be present, otherwise the meaning of what is said is lost, which leads to a loss of interest.
The technique of beautiful speech must be worked out, for which the breath and voice should be strengthened. Artwork can be used to achieve a good result. When reading a book, after the end of each sentence, you need to inhale deeply, and the inhalation should be heard.
Particular attention should be paid to diction and unmistakable pronunciation of words. To improve the technique of speech, you can use exercises, the essence of which is to pronounce various combinations of vowels and consonants, such as, and-o-s-u-e-a, mi-ma-mo-mu-me-we. They are pronounced at different rates, with raising and lowering of the voice. Classes must be done regularly.
To improve diction, tongue twisters are perfect. At the beginning, they need to be pronounced without voice, with the tongue and lips, then aloud, using a different timbre. Reading aloud, one must not forget about breathing, that is, take a breath at the end.
How to make your voice beautiful
Each person has a different voice, it can be used to judge the character or temperament, the state of illness or fatigue. A pleasant voice has a positive effect on the audience when speaking. How to make your voice beautiful?
First of all, he should be friendly and attractive, for men - masculine and confident, for women - feminine and kind.
To make a voice friendly, it should not be harsh or forceful. If the voice is kind and soft, the interlocutor understands that it is good and easy for a person to communicate with him. But such notes in the voice should not be present when communicating with unpleasant people, otherwise it will look unnatural.
Men should have a deep voice with a touch of self-confidence, in this case he is more trust and appreciate. In women, on the contrary, such qualities as softness and regularity of speech should prevail.
For communicating with the opposite sex better perceived voice, which slips sexuality and attractiveness. You need to use aspirated speech.
In order for the voice to dispose for communication, there should be no voice or speech defects in speech. Voices with burr and nasal sounds are very difficult to perceive. Lisp also does not make the voice more pleasant.
Various exercises can be used to eliminate speech defects. For example, tongue twisters, pronouncing loudly various sentences, texts with nuts in your mouth. In complex and advanced cases, you need to contact a speech therapist for professional help. Most defects can be repaired successfully.
Also, a beautiful voice should sound melodic. Why should you regularly pronounce consonants and vowels, which will lead to the euphony of the voice.
How to express your thoughts correctly
In order for a person to become interested in listening, he needs to learn to explain correctly. It should be borne in mind that everyone communicates in their own way. To learn how to correctly express your thoughts out loud, you need to learn how to convey information to the interlocutor in a colorful and understandable way. The best assistant in this case can be a book.
You need to constantly improve yourself, expand your vocabulary, then it will become easy to express thoughts, and the right words will come to your head at the right time.
Reading works of art will add beautiful speech patterns to speech. Only the book should be in Russian, preferably the creation of famous classics or authors of our time. In order to find out the meaning of incomprehensible terms, you can use an explanatory dictionary or the Internet.
You can enrich your vocabulary using the TV. You should turn on the news and copy the announcer with keeping all pauses and intonation. As a result, speech will be enriched with new words.
Increasing the vocabulary with new interesting and beautiful words, you should simultaneously get rid of the so-called parasitic words. The narrator himself usually does not notice them, but the listeners immediately catch such words. Moreover, when expressing thoughts in writing, such words are absent.
To find out which words interfere with clear and beautiful speech, you need to record your conversation on a dictaphone. Then listen to it and highlight unnecessary extra words. Subsequently, you should learn to control yourself in order to finally exclude unnecessary words from your speech. This process is quite complex and lengthy, but over time, speech will become more correct.
How to speak to be listened to
Speaking to an audience, whether it's work colleagues, strangers, or relatives at an anniversary or wedding, makes you nervous, embarrassed or stiff. In such a state, it is very difficult to make a beautiful speech that everyone will listen to.
In order to prevent such awkward situations from arising, the speech must be prepared the day before, having written it down on a piece of paper. The written text is easier to remember and will allow you to better speak in front of an audience.
Various exercises can be used to formulate beautiful and correct speech. They are not difficult, but to get the result you need to carry them out regularly.
It is necessary to stand in front of a mirror and talk about what happened during the day, it is better to shoot a video, after watching which, you will immediately see flaws, for example, repulsive or interfering gestures. After working on them, the speech will become more beautiful. It is also worth paying attention to facial expressions, the face should not be too formal, it should be conducive to communication. A nice light smile will not hurt.