How to get rid of failure
Many people feel that their life is only on a black line, failure is chasing all around. Mother Teresa said in her time: "Do not allow yourself to be upset about failure if you have done everything you could." But what to do if luck is not in a hurry to "drop in on a visit"? Read about how to draw her to you in this article.
Mutual love, successful Work and men - small standard set successful and happy woman... But not everyone is so lucky. Before you become lucky, you need to understand the reasons for failure.
Why unlucky in love
Unfortunately, now a lot of people complain about their unhappiness in their personal lives. Why does this happen? According to psychologists, failure lies in the person himself, which means that the situation can be corrected.
For a solution to the problem, you can go to a specialist, although in many situations a person is able to correct his situation himself. Why unlucky in love and how to fix it?
Unsuccessful love experience is quite often the cause of unhappiness in love, since it is difficult for a person to rebuild and begin to trust his new partner. It seems to him that the subsequent relationship will be exactly the same as the previous one. As Nietzsche said: “Everything that does not kill us makes us stronger,” which means that negative experience can help in the future. Analyze your past relationships and think about what they taught you, then, when the lesson is learned, you can start a new relationship.
Childhood stereotypes affect relationship between a woman and a man... If a little girl regularly hears from her mother that "all men are ...", it is not surprising that as she matures, she adopts her attitude towards the opposite sex. If a woman really wants to build a happy love, then she needs to learn to think with her head, and not with her mother's head. All people are individual, there are bad, and there are good. Try to improve your attitude towards the opposite sex, abandon stereotypes.
All people get what they want, what they think and dream about. Therefore, a notorious person who thinks that it is impossible to love him attracts dislike. Complexes and self-doubt are one of the main reasons for failure in love. To fix the situation, you need to love yourself. This is a difficult job, but in the future, many disadvantages will turn into advantages. Then self-confidence will wake up.
Why not lucky with men
Are you being stalked by the wrong men? One beats up, other uses alcoholic beverages, and the third is generally a "collection" of all bad? Unsuccessful acquaintances and negative love experiences happen to everyone. Some people easily leave failures in the past, while others "pull" this anchor behind them. Psychologists say that you can fix the situation, you just need to find where it all started. First you need to determine who you are looking for, and what kind of relationship with this man you would like. Earlier it was said about why you are unlucky in love. All this can be adopted here as well.
I would like to add only one point. Every woman attracts her man. For example, a girl in her heart may want a serious relationship with a reliable man, but at the same time, with her whole appearance, she makes it clear the opposite, dressing vulgarly and attending appropriate entertainment events. Firstly, a serious man will never pay attention to a vulgar woman, at least he will not build far-reaching plans at her expense. Secondly, men of this sort do not "live" in clubs and bars. Therefore, build an image of a man with whom you want to live your whole life, but not just his appearance, describe his predilections, the places where the “male” lives with such hobbies, what kind of women he likes, etc. As soon as the full analysis is done, start working on yourself: become the girl of his dreams and go to those places where he is supposed to be waiting for you.
Why unlucky work
Career growth is a dream, one might say, of everyone. But not everyone is lucky at work. Someone will say that this is the fault of the employer, and someone will blame the employee.
Problems with work begin at the age of 17-18, when a person enters adulthood and works for wages. Starting your career in some factory, enduring humiliation and rudeness of the employer, the person makes a negative experience. Then, he quits and takes a job in another place with a similar development of events. Problems again fall on the person, discouraging all desire to work. 
Most often, problems with work arise precisely because of the lack of the very desire and purpose. This can also happen due to the fact that the chosen profession does not bring happiness and inner satisfaction.
How is a profession chosen now? The majority of people are guided not so much by an internal impulse to creative self-realization as by the prestige of the profession and the level of financial incentives. At the beginning it seems correct and reasonable, but time passes and a person realizes that no salary suits him, but all because he is not doing what his soul is in. Another problem comes from the inability of the employee himself to assess his real skills and experience. If you look at the resume now, you can often see how completely inexperienced people who have just graduated from the university declare to work in high-ranking positions with a salary of 50,000 - 60,000 rubles, and this is just a start (!). How reasonable is this? And if a line with offers is not lined up for him, then this is perceived as a failure, but is it so? Of course not, you just need to reconsider your requests and compare them with reality.
All this suggests that there may not be problems at all, and the person makes them up for himself. If you are unlucky with your work, think about it, maybe you are doing something completely different from what you would like to do?
How to get lucky
As it has already become clear, misfortune and failure haunt the one who wants it. All problems lie in the person himself. The broader the outlook of a person, the more likely it is that a person will attract luck and good luck. Most people cannot realize themselves - this is due to the fact that they have not studied their inner world, their talents and abilities well enough. Also, not everyone knows what they want from life, wasting their energy in vain. 
First, study yourself. Accept the person you look at in the mirror every morning. Stop dreaming and flying in dreams, act and live today. Remember that it is the person himself who is to blame for failure, bad luck, and even physical ailment. There is no magical and mystical happiness and luck. It all depends on yourself.
Having cognized himself, a person is able to change his life and destiny!
