Do I need to hold on to a bad relationship

Any couple dreams of living in a happy relationship all their lives, but the reality is very often very different. Only a small minority of couples can boast of strong, harmonious relationships. Others make mistakes that lead to rupture. How do you know if your relationship is ending and is it worth trying to fix it?

Signs of a Bad Relationship with a Boyfriend

It is impossible to say unequivocally when it is time to end the relationship. However, psychologists have identified several signs, indicating that the relationship in a couple has soured, and your paths are already beginning to diverge:

• Your communication is shrinking. Communication plays a very important role in any good relationship. Many girls expect that a young man should guess himself about their desires and feelings. But if you do not convey this information to your partner, do not expect that he will guess everything himself.
• During a conversation, you constantly interrupt and do not hear each other. If you are not able to listen to your partner, then it is better to end the conversation. In an endless verbal skirmish, you can go too far and utter hurtful words. Subsequently, you will surely regret what you said.
• Some of you have re-entered old bad habits. Falling in love, a person strives to become better in the eyes of his partner, therefore, he often abandons bad habits in favor of a happy relationship. If there is a rollback to the old, then some of you are unhappy in the relationship.

• Spying on a partner. Such actions betray your self-doubt, or there are good reasons to suspect your soul mate of infidelity. Such manifestations can hurt a person no less severely than real physical betrayal.
• You cannot compromise. This is another sign that your relationship is about to end. Refusal to give in causes resentment or a feeling of dependence in the partner, and after all, a good relationship is impossible without mutual concessions.
• You are less likely to have sex. Intimate contact in a couple's relationship is very important. Its absence sooner or later leads to a breakup. This is one of the main signs of problems in a couple.
• Initiative in sex comes only from you. If your boyfriend does not show a desire to have sex, this is one of the serious symptoms of the problem.
• You don't get satisfaction in sex... Lack of pleasure in sexual intercourse speaks of a severing emotional connection. This is another sign of serious problems and the approaching end of the relationship.
• The feeling of loneliness does not leave you even though you are in a relationship. This is a sure sign that you need to end the relationship and move on. Chances are, your subconscious is right if you are constantly thinking about breaking up.

Is it possible to mend a bad relationship with a guy

If you feel the signs of a rupture, don't cry or panic. All couples experience periods of estrangement in emotional closeness. Therefore, if you wish, everything is possible fix.

Do not stir up a scandal over every little thing, take everything easier and show less negativity. With your positive attitude to life and self-irony, you will release tension in your couple and lift the mood of both.

Bypass controversial points in conversations. Think about what is more important to you - to defend your point of view or maintain a relationship. Therefore, show wisdom and do not raise controversial issues in communication. Also, criticize and reproach less - such actions will definitely not strengthen your relationship.

Control less and prohibit. Remember that the forbidden person wants the most. If you try to discourage a man from friends or watching football, he will only dream about this. Freedom of action in this matter will make his attitude more even and perhaps he will choose you over friends. If this did not happen, do not worry - you can also arrange a bachelorette party with your girlfriends.

Learn to be unpredictable and try to surprise your boyfriend. Remember that a man is a hunter, and he is more likely to chase after you if you pique his interest. Standard behavior quickly becomes boring and a man's interest can be lost.

Try to communicate more with a man, tell him about your feelings and experiences yourself, thereby causing him to reciprocate frankness.

How to end a relationship with a guy

If, after all thinking, you still decide put an end to your romance, then you must definitely inform your partner about it. It will be correct and honest to do this in person, during a conversation. Do not use your phone, SMS, social networks, etc. for this. Of course, this simplifies the task for you, but the young man will have doubts and he will look for a reason to meet.

Consider whatever you say, you shouldn't blame or make a complaint. Give your reasons why you need to end the relationship and only talk about your feelings, not about his actions. This will take away the man's ability to cling to your words. At the same time, do not let the man drag yourself into an argument, do not make excuses and do not explain yourself. All this will lead to the fact that the conversation will drag on indefinitely and you, in the end, give up under his pressure.

It is best to speak in neutral territory and clearly limit the conversation time. This will give you the opportunity, after expressing your point of view, to end the conversation and walk away.