Relationship with a married man

A married man is a forbidden and sweet fruit. Since he was ringed, it means he is reliable, strong and self-confident, the one who is needed by other women as well. It is this kind of mental approach on a subconscious level that pushes girls to have affairs with married men. Experienced, he knows what to say, do and what a woman wants, so it is very difficult not to get into the network of an already employed womanizer. All the nuances of a secret relationship and is it worth thinking about it at all?

I am the lover of a married man

This is exactly what the girls say, with a deep sigh of drama, who decide to borrow a male from a foreign clan. Millions of thoughts fly through my head about the correctness of the decision made and about the options for the possible development of events. Right or wrong - time will tell if you let events float in the same direction, but first you need to carefully weigh the pros and cons.

After reading this article to the end, you will be a few steps closer to making the most correct decision for you. Leave your emotions outside the door and just alone with your mind try to analyze the situation, as if from the outside.

How married men behave

Man is not a man. If he was serious before marriage, then he will remain so in him, and if not, then he is not in marriage. Therefore, it is impossible to say unequivocally exactly how married men behave.

A man who decides to start a relationship on the side cannot be ranked in the first group. Since he is lying to his real wife, where is the guarantee that he will be honest with you? It happens that a man gets himself several mistresses at once, but you are unlikely to find out about this, like everyone else. Being in such a relationship, you need to prepare in advance that the aroma of lies will hover in them, which will loosen an already weak connection.

He will come when he wants it and leave when he or his wife / children need it. Your opinion is unlikely to have any meaning, because in his life you are something that needs to be hidden and hidden. If the city is small, then public appearances may be minimized, or even none at all. Why risk the lines once. To this may be added the increased nervousness of a man, since he will not be able to relax completely: “suddenly someone finds out ...”.

The psychology of a married man

The psychology of a married man tends to change. Some, after the stamp, become more mature, realizing and accepting the full responsibility of such a serious step. They begin to work harder, take care of loved ones, they quickly have children and turn into an exemplary family man. These are the toughest nuts, which are almost impossible to crack, except after several years of marriage.

Others remain at heart the same as before marriage. In their souls, a hunter for women's hearts also lives and they are not able to fight him. While the wife is engaged in the household, they, under any pretext, leave the house and seek temporary refuge with another girl. Representatives of this caste are easy, but extremely unreliable prey. He will just as well leave you if you decide on a relationship with him. They are always not enough and need more.

What to give a married man

Present a married man is a very difficult problem. It is necessary to approach the choice so that the thing is necessary on the one hand and reminds him of you, on the other hand, so that the gift is invisible, because he will have to make excuses to his wife where the new thing came from. In most cases, in order not to offend the donor, the man will show delight, but he will throw this thing away in front of the house. In the best case, he will hide it and will not use it, but this is also a risk, because the gift can be found.

The difficulty is that any desired gift requires its exploitation, and this is a 100% guarantee that it will be noticed by the wife. He doesn't need unnecessary scandals and explanations. The only thing that can come up as a gift is a pen. She seems to be needed, and not so attracts attention, and will remind the man of you.

Love spell on a married man

If you decide to bewitch a married man, then the method must be chosen more powerful than if it was directed at a free man. We bring to your attention two powerful love spells that will help you get your beloved man, even if he is not yours.

Required:

• hair (yours and men);
• blank sheets - 2 pieces;
• laurel leaves;
• Apple.

The apple should be picked at dawn on the day when the love spell is planned, it is advisable to set Friday this day, since in astrology this is the day of Venus.

On one sheet of paper, write your name, on the other the name of the desired man. Take your own and his hair, a total of five pieces, and braid it into a kind of pigtail. Fold two pieces of paper together, twist a scroll from them and wrap them in a "pigtail" of hair.

Cut the core out of the apple, but do not damage the fruit itself. If suddenly the peel or other part is damaged, you will have to do everything again. Place the scroll inside and place the apple in the sun to dry.

Sew the finished apple into a bag, putting bay leaves there in advance. The magic bag must be left on the territory of the man's house. Ideal for bed or pillow. Efficiency directly depends on how much of your own energy you put in.

And don't forget about regularity. Any love spell needs to be fed. A similar procedure should be carried out with an interval of once every two months, this is how long its effect lasts.

Divination by a married man

If making a love spell you invest your own energy, which greatly enhances the effectiveness, then fortune telling, if you want to get reliable answers, is better to entrust to a professional. Such things require experience and skill, which you, if you are not a gypsy in the twentieth generation, do not.

You can play with the services that the Internet space offers, but this is unlikely to be of any use.

If you still insist on doing the fortune-telling with your own hands, then we advise you to purchase a thematic book or consult on specialized forums from knowledgeable people: what fortune-telling to choose, how to carry it out and how to read the result.

How to take a married man away

A married man can only be taken away if he is unhappy with his marriage. Otherwise, you will definitely fail. If a man experiences discomfort in his family life, then it is enough to find out what exactly causes his displeasure, what he needs and give it to him.

As soon as your relationship starts, do not throw tantrums at him, do not lecture, do not ask for anything, and in no case do not say that you want a wedding, this can only push him away. Create an atmosphere in the area where you meet (preferably your apartment) where he would like to return again and again.

After scandals with his wife (and they will certainly be, because she, feeling your presence, will regularly lose her temper), sooner or later he will get tired and come to an oasis, where he can calmly and gather his courage. Let him know that you are always happy to accept him as a life partner and will admire him. Remind him often that he a real man that you miss so much.

It will take, of course, more than one day, month or even a year, but with a high probability you will get it. The main thing is that he does not get used to and does not turn you into his vest, in which you can cry when everything goes downhill.

How to fall in love with a married man

Often, men in family life lack the pungency and spices that can be obtained on the side. If a man is decent, loves and respects his wife, then it is useless to try. But if you notice how he looks with appetite at the girls, then this is a very easy prey that you can take.

Start paying him more attention, complimenting how strong, smart and courageous he is. Smile at him and flirt, flirt whenever possible. You can be sure - he will bite. Well, if you give him and night of fabulous bliss then don't get out of it at all.

But, before deciding on such a step, think carefully about everything, do you need such a relationship? Are you ready for not playing the leading roles? Yes, at first it will have a positive effect on your relationship, but then, when you get tired of everything, everything will turn into a headache.

How to know what a married man really loves

Frankly speaking, an initially married man who “sticks” to free women cannot love a priori. He simply is not able to experience this great and warm feeling. Judge for yourself, he is already deceiving a woman who believes him and waits for him every day after work, cooking dinner and tidying up the house.

Many of these males begin to tell a potential or real lover that their relationship with his wife has already exhausted each other and love is gone... But the question is, if everything is as he says, then why continue living together with a stamp? Of course, they will all come up with a hundred reasons for this, in this matter they are experienced liars.

A married man may not love, but want another woman, no more. And find out that married man wants you as easy as pie. Obvious signs of attention, flirting, and sometimes unambiguous hints in the form of vulgar jokes and conversations.

Child from a married man

Even in a normal relationship, where there is no other wife, the news of a child can overwhelm a man and push him into rash actions. What can we say, if he has another family and, for sure, children from legal marriage. He, of course, is a father, but here you need to understand one thing, that all responsibility for the baby and his future rests on your shoulders. At best, he will agree to help financially, but not officially in the form of alimony, but, as they say, from hand to hand.

Otherwise, he will have to reveal all the cards in front of his wife, who is unlikely to like it. And if you do not agree to his terms, then it is likely that he will renounce his paternity without any proof, and they are not cheap nowadays.

Of course, no one except you knows how a man will behave in such a situation, because each person is individual, and to say that “you should have thought before” is also wrong, because no one plans children, they are sent from above.

If you yourself want to leave the child and be realized as a mother, then just tell him that you do not need anything from him, and you will raise the baby yourself, without his help.

If a man has no children in the family, and he really wanted them, then there is a high probability that he will file for divorce without hesitation and devote himself to you and the child.

How to break up with a married man

Here you need to be guided by the real reasons that prompt you to take such action. As a rule, the bulk falls on the unwillingness to be on the sidelines and share a loved one with the other. Of course, in comparison with your wife, you are in a more advantageous position, since you knew about the whole situation from the very beginning and there was no deception for you, but there is still little pleasant.

If you decide to break up with a married man, tell him about it directly, without concealing anything and without trying to smooth over the sharp corners of the conversation. Say that you are not pleased to be in second place, that you want to receive 100% love and attention and not hide from anyone. If a man has warm feelings for you, then it will not be so easy for him to accept it. It is likely that he will begin to swear and swear that he will divorce and you will be together, and only you can decide whether to believe it or not. Only emotions are not the best helper here.

If your relationship lasts for several years and nothing prompted him to divorce, then he is unlikely to do so in the future. For men, this position is very convenient and comfortable to be deprived of it voluntarily. The wife cleans and cooks at home, with you he probably gets wonderful sex and rests morally, this is paradise for him.

Decide for yourself once and for all whether you want such an attitude towards yourself. If the answer is no, then never agree or believe his words. As a last resort, just tell them to come after they get divorced.

Relationship with a married man: advice from a psychologist

According to most psychologists, relationships with a married man are the least promising of all. A woman should be prepared for the fact that with a high probability she will take second place to the end. Accept the fact that at the most crucial moment he will not be there, that the wife's opinion will always be a priority and he is unlikely to disobey him and take your side.

For a man, the goal of such a relationship is sex on the side with a beautiful woman. If you are ready to accept all the disadvantages of such a life, then enjoy life and do as you see fit.