Why do men lie
According to statistics, every day every person is faced with a lie in one form or another of its manifestation. And it doesn't matter if we are talking about children or adults. But in order to avoid problems in the future, you should look for the reasons for lying right away. This will help analyze the man's act and do everything to avoid it in the future. How to understand that a man is lying?
Why do men lie
Quite often, men lie to their women or fail to tell the whole truth to the end. There are also stereotypes that women tell lies more often. But this is not at all true! According to psychologists, representatives of the stronger sex lie about 5 times a day, although women resort to lying only three times.
As practice shows, men lie most often under the following circumstances:
- Under the influence of alcohol.
- If they liked another woman.
- After the betrayal.
- Justifying an expensive but unnecessary purchase.
- If they are going to have fun, but the lady of the heart is left at home.
The reasons for lying can be different, but they can be divided into several types. So why is a man lying to his woman?
Among the most common reasons are the following:
- Tries to keep her beloved calm.
- He tries to present himself in a favorable light, to show that he is better than his companion thinks of him.
- Wants to hide information about previous relationships.
- Wants to hide the true location.
- Doesn't want to talk about true feelings and emotions.
- Hides the fact of treason.
The psychology of lies in men
If a man begins to lie, this is an alarming sign for a woman. It doesn't matter if we are talking about large or small "everyday" lies. Since this has happened, it means that the man does not trust his beloved and wants to hide some facts from her life from her.
For some reason, men believe that sweet lies are sometimes simply necessary. For example, at the beginning of a relationship, many representatives of the stronger sex do not say anything (at best) or blatantly lie about their status. They want to look their best in the eyes of a woman. But even petty lies are revealed later.
Also, quite often men hide their true age. Basically, such situations are typical for online dating. During a one-to-one meeting, telling a lie is already inconvenient. Accordingly, the lie continues until the woman herself finds out the truth by chance.
Money is another common reason why men tell lies. They believe that sooner or later they will have to bring the entire salary to their wife, but they want to have a stash for personal pleasures.
Sometimes a man can lie because of a banal lack of female attention. For example, after ten years of marriage Many women forget that men also want to feel cared for and appreciated. An insufficient amount of affection and warm words also sometimes push a strong part of humanity to lie.
The psychology of men's lies is quite simple if you determine its reasons. Only by talking to your beloved can you understand the situation and prevent repeated attempts to lie in the future.
How to recognize a lie
During communication, you should not believe all the words. To get more detailed information about a person, you should pay attention to his gestures, facial expressions, behavior, etc.
For example, to find out if a man is lying about his work, you need to ask a few simple questions about his vacation, and then suddenly change the subject and clarify whether it is difficult to be a boss. If a man immediately changes his posture, starts to get nervous, etc., it means that he previously lied.
You can also ask leading questions about a particular situation. If the person begins to react harshly, most likely he is lying.
If a woman notices that her interlocutor has begun to lie, this must be said immediately. In most cases, after such a "defeat", there will be no lies in the future.
Women are encouraged to listen to their intuition. She always prompts when a man is lying. Men should not forget about this fact. After all, sooner or later, everything becomes clear and the consequences of a lie can be unpredictable.
