Got it across the throat or how to send a guy off
They always get to know everyone, everywhere and with everyone. If earlier, about a hundred years ago, when a guy wanted to meet a girl, he looked for the right moment for this, perhaps even mutual acquaintances, or tried to approach the object he liked so as not to offend her and not make her feel like a girl of easy virtue. Now everything is completely different, any pretty girl is subjected to regular attempts to meet her absolutely everywhere, be it the street, a cafe or even the Internet. And it’s okay if a potential fan understands a simple “no,” but for some reason most people perceive this as a challenge and become even more persistent. How to properly scold such bores and put them in their place, and is it possible to scold them in such a way as not to offend the young man?
How to fuck a guy beautifully
If a girl really intends to blow off a guy, be it an acquaintance with whom she doesn’t want to have a close relationship, or a simple stranger on the street who has expressed a desire to meet her, then the first rule that must be followed is no coquetry! You need to act decisively and firmly, otherwise the man takes this as a signal that the girl is “breaking” and overestimating herself. Then it will be very difficult to get rid of him. 
To beat guys off beautifully, you need to have a good sense of humor and master this quality to perfection. Memorizing “edgy” words and phrases may not be the best option. If the guy turns out to be more loose-lipped, then the lady may find herself in a very awkward situation. Therefore, if initially oratory coupled with masterpiece humor is not among the talents, then it is better to act according to the classical method. A simple answer “no”, followed by ignoring the pester, works always and everywhere. Then the guy loses his meaning, understands that there is nothing to “catch” here and retreats himself. The main thing is not to joke, not to smile, and it is advisable not to even look at him, just pretend that you are alone.
For more confident girls For those who are entertained by the very process of blowing a guy off, you can offer more masterly and unusual options. We present to your attention some of them:
- It's no secret that guys don't like it mercantile girls, so in her every gesture and step they try to catch this trait. But what if you shock them from the beginning? As soon as there is an attempt from the outside to get acquainted, you can immediately get down to business and begin to identify the “prospect” of the relationship. Bombard him with questions about his level of earnings, position and place of work, whether he has a car and an apartment, who he lives with, who he studies for, etc. Moreover, this must be done with a serious face, without irony, only in this case the technique works, otherwise such behavior will be regarded as a game with all the ensuing consequences.
- Another option is to blow a man's brain! Fortunately, this is not that difficult to do. To do this, it’s enough to become very talkative and “babble” about everything that comes to mind: about how recently you were faced with choosing what color of nail polish to buy, that you needed a shade of salmon pink, but there were only deep pink, pink cherry, pink carnation and a dozen more pinks, among which your pink was not included, about what TV series you like, you can even tell the plot of your especially favorite paintings, spice it all up with very “interesting” facts from the life of your grandmother or the life of your cat.
- A very simple option that has never let anyone down is a primitive “dryness” in communication. Answer all questions that come from him with simple clichés: “yes”, “no”, “I don’t know”, “probably”, “I don’t want”, “I won’t”. Such communication will put even the most virtuoso pickup artist in tension and embarrassment.
- The method of intellectual women is that, unexpectedly for a young man, in response to his simple request to get acquainted, he begins to speak in an abstruse language, and even if it is not entirely on topic, he still will not understand anything, and here a glossary will come to the rescue. You just need to learn it thoroughly, so that when transmitting information it looks quite ordinary and not pretentious.
And, by the way, it is not at all impossible that in attempts to get away with it, an interesting conversation may begin, which will then still turn into acquaintance and follow-up communication. So keep this in mind and if you really don’t want to get acquainted and waste time, then remember a simple “no”.
How to get rid of a pen pal
It's much easier to turn a guy off on the Internet than in real communication. Moreover, for this you can do nothing at all...at all...just ignore and not respond to messages and other signals. Fortunately, now every social network has options for adding unpleasant and unwanted users to blacklists, spam, etc. Therefore, problems should not arise. If you want to do this in a cultural and civilized manner, then it is enough to simply write to your failed boyfriend that you have no desire to continue communication, without trying to justify why exactly. A normal man will understand this and will no longer write, and annoying and persistent copies can be sent with a clear conscience to that same emergency or spam.
How to politely tell a guy off
In fact, to politely blow a guy off, you don’t need to be a genius or build some kind of complex scheme with long speeches. To do this, you just don’t need to insult him, swear, humiliate him and put pressure on sore and weak spots - everything is very simple, isn’t it? If this is not a guy you know who wants to get acquainted, but you have absolutely no desire to do so, then just say that you are not getting acquainted. Often such a primitive and simple phrase is enough for the guy to understand everything and retreat. It is worth preparing for the fact that the stronger sex may react inappropriately, insults may even be showered in your direction, and you definitely should not react to this, much less try to respond to rudeness.
If you need to culturally reject a young man you know or break off relations with your current boyfriend, then it is better to say so directly. Again, no insults or reproaches, it just can’t go on like this anymore. Here it is better to act according to the dictates of your heart, and not use primitive phrases like “you are good, you deserve the best...”, etc.
In any case, remember, if you want to get laid - then screw it, if you want to get acquainted and build relationships - go for it, but there is no need for uncertainty and playing a double game, this will save time and nerves for both you and the guy.
