I got up across my throat or how to kick a guy off
They always meet, everyone, everywhere and with everyone. If earlier, about a hundred years ago, when a guy wanted to meet a girl, he was looking for the right moment for this, perhaps even mutual acquaintances, or tried to approach the object he liked so as not to offend her and not make her feel like a girl of easy virtue. Now everything is completely different, any pretty girl is subjected to regular attempts to meet absolutely everywhere, be it a street, a cafe or even the Internet. And okay, if a potential fan understands a simple "no", but for some reason most people perceive this as a challenge and become even more insistent. How to properly shed such bores and put them in their place, and is it possible to sew them off so as not to offend a young man?
How beautiful to turn off a guy
If a girl really intends to kick a guy off, be it an acquaintance with whom she does not want to have a close relationship, or a simple stranger on the street who has expressed a desire to meet, then the first rule that must be followed is no coquetry! It is necessary to act decisively and firmly, otherwise the man accepts this as a signal that the girl "breaks down" and fills her own worth. Then it will be very difficult to get rid of him. 
To sew guys beautifully, you need to have a good sense of humor and master this quality to perfection. Memorizing "sharp" words and phrases may not be the best option. If the guy turns out to be more "hanging on the tongue", then the lady can get into a very awkward situation. Therefore, if the original oratory multiplied by masterpiece humor is not among the talents, then it is better to act according to the classical method. A simple answer "no", followed by ignoring the harassing acts always and everywhere. Then the guy loses its meaning, realizes that there is nothing to "catch" and will retreat himself. The main thing is not to joke, not to smile and preferably not even look at him, just pretend that you are alone.
For more confident girls, who are entertained by the process of sewing a guy off, you can offer more virtuoso and unusual options. We bring to your attention some of them:
- It's no secret that guys don't like mercantile girls, so in her every gesture and step they try to catch this trait. But what if you shock them initially? As soon as there is an attempt from the outside to acquaintance, you can immediately get down to business and begin to identify the "perspective" of the relationship. Throw in him questions about the level of his earnings, position and place of work, about the availability of a car and an apartment, with whom he lives, whom he studies, etc. Moreover, this must be done with a serious face, without irony, only in this case the technique works, otherwise such behavior will be regarded as a game with all the ensuing consequences.
- Another option is to blow up the male brain! Fortunately, this is not that difficult to do. To do this, it is enough to become very talkative and "lalyakat" about everything that comes to mind: how recently you were before choosing which color of nail polish to buy, that you needed a shade of salmon pink, but there were only deep pink, pink cherry , a pink carnation and a dozen more pink ones, among which there was not your pink one, about what TV shows you like, you can even tell the plot of your favorite pictures, spice it all up with sooo “interesting” facts from the life of your grandmother or the life of your cat.
- A very simple option, which has not let anyone down yet, is a primitive "dryness" in communication. To all the questions that come from him, answer with simple clichés: “yes”, “no”, “I don’t know”, “probably”, “I don’t want to”, “I will not”. Such communication will strained and embarrass even the most virtuoso pickup artist.
- The method of intellectuals is manifested in the fact that, unexpectedly for a young man, to his simple request to get acquainted, start speaking in an abstruse language, and even if it is not quite in the subject, he still does not understand anything and a glossary will come to the rescue. But you need to learn it ironically, so that when transferring information it looks quite ordinary and not pretentious.
And, by the way, it is not at all excluded that in attempts to send off an interesting conversation may start, which then will still turn into acquaintance and subsequent communication... So keep this in mind and if you really do not want to get acquainted and waste time, then remember about a simple "no".
How to kick a pen guy
It is much easier to turn off a guy on the Internet than in real communication. Moreover, for this you can do nothing at all ... in general ... just ignore and not respond to messages and other signals. Fortunately, now in every social network there are options for adding unpleasant and unwanted users to black lists, spam, etc. Therefore, problems should not arise. If you want to do this in a cultural and civilized manner, then it is enough just to write to the failed boyfriend that you have no desire to continue communication without trying to justify why. A normal man will understand this and will no longer write, and you can send annoying and annoying copies with a clear conscience to the same emergency or spam.
How to politely blow off a guy
In fact, in order to politely kick a guy off, you don't need to have seven spans in your forehead or build some kind of complex schemes with long speeches. To do this, you simply do not need to insult him, swear, humiliate and put pressure on sick and weak spots - everything is very simple, isn't it? If this is not a familiar guy who wants to get acquainted, but you have absolutely no desire for that, then just say that you do not meet. Often such a primitive and simple phrase is enough for the guy to understand everything and back down. It is worth preparing for the fact that the stronger sex may react inadequately, insults may even fall in your direction, and this is definitely not worth reacting to, and even more so trying to respond to rudeness.
If you need to culturally dismiss a familiar young man or break off relations with the current guy, then it is better to say this directly. Again, without insults and reproaches, it simply cannot go on like this any longer. Here it is better to act at the behest of the heart, and not to use primitive phrases like "you are good, deserve better ..." and so on.
In any case, remember, if you want to send it off - then send it off, if you want to get acquainted and build a relationship - go for it, only you don't need uncertainty and play double games, this will save time and nerves for both you and the guy.
