How to communicate with men

We communicate throughout our lives. We meet, meet, fall in love, make friends, all this is impossible without communication. It is easier for girls to build a dialogue with their own kind, here and talk about fashion, about TV shows, about unrequited love. FROM opposite sex things are much worse. If you are reading this article, then you are ready to establish your communication with men.

What to talk about with a man

Regardless of whether you know a man or you are seeing him for the first time, the topics that can be discussed do not change:

• try to discuss how the day went, it sounds, however, trite, but it is after this question that the man will tell you a little personal and you will have a dialogue;
• if you really want to get your partner interested, try a topic of conversation such as sports or travel;
• movies, books and hobbies are also a win-win, the man will feel your interest in his personality, and you will be able to learn a little more about him;
• in addition to all of the above, men love to discuss politics and personal relationships, in such topics they feel their superiority, which means they will be happy to share with you their thoughts and opinions on this matter.

If a man As you have known for a long time, the topics for communication are as follows:

• Discuss common interests such as skiing, swimming, or photography.
• discuss plans for life, ask what your beloved wants to achieve, how he is going to do it, etc.;
• watch a movie with your man, and then share your emotions with him;

If the conversation did not start, then, most likely, the man is not in the mood and it is better not to disturb him.

Taboo topics in conversations with a man

If you have already found a life partner, then do not bring your conversation to a conflict, so the relationship will not last long.

• do not be interested in why the guy is silent, and even more so what he thinks about, men do not like such questions, and you will not hear the truth;
• do not ask a man to talk and reason about your shortcomings, he will not tell the truth, because it will offend you, and lying is not good;
• the topics of your health and unhappy life will also not be of interest to the young man, especially if this is said several times a day, throughout your life together.

And if you still go to various cafeterias in search of a loved one, then remember a couple of topics that you shouldn't talk about on your first date:

• do not start talking about relatives, you must agree, this topic will discourage the interest of any man;
• do not indulge in memories when you were very sick, this one is not very interesting for girls, and even more so for men;
• ex-boyfriends, for some reason many girls like to talk about it, but oddly enough, the opposite sex doesn't like it;
• do not touch on a topic that only the guy likes, and you yourself do not know anything about it, it is easy to start such a conversation, but to support ...;
• do not ask a man about his past, such questions and topics will scare him away.

How to talk to a man correctly

Men appreciate it when girls praise them for even minor victories. Therefore, stick to a little rule: keep silent - if you are angry, and praise - even if the situation is not worth it. Treat your man as well as everyone else. For some reason, girls forget that their lovers also tend to be offended by rudeness. It is from the outside that they look strong and independent, but their soul is as vulnerable as yours. Instead of quarrels, laugh more, give your person positive emotions, let him feel that in these relationships he is easy and calm, and you won't get a price.