Relationship rules: how to understand a man

Women find it difficult understand men... Their gestures, actions often seem strange or cruel. Read about how to understand a man in various situations in the article.

How to understand a man's feelings

Unlike women, it is more difficult for men to talk about their feelings... As a result, there is a misunderstanding on the part of women. Then the question arises: "How to understand the feelings of men?" It's best if you trust your intuition. Asking a question head-on can scare away or ruin a nascent relationship. A woman should pay attention to the signs that a man sends and understand them correctly.

• If a woman is attractive to a man, he will draw her attention to himself in every possible way.
• His behavior changes noticeably in the presence of a woman he likes.
• A man in love almost always strives for communication.
• Also, a man in love is jealous.

How to understand what a man is hiding

Girls are used to opening up their feelings. With men, everything is more difficult: even in marriage, they manage to hide their feelings. Why are they doing this?

• In the modern world, excessive emotionality is exclusively a feature of the weaker sex. It follows from this that the manifestation of tenderness and banal joy translates men into the category of weak and unmanly.
• Showing different feelings - a man considers himself vulnerable.
• Some people like to see the first steps from women.
• Many people think that love is synonymous with weakness.

To hide their feelings, men use a whole range of techniques.

Indifference

It is much easier to hide your feelings if you close yourself with a wall of indifference. Most often, this method works during quarrels - the man closes up to prevent the woman from inflicting even more pain.

Frankness

A man suddenly shared with you a secret or memory - this means that he trusts you, but is not ready to talk about it directly.

Attention and care

To please, the stronger sex begins to show itself from the best side. And even if the brain gave the command to be silent, actions that take place at a subconscious level will bring any man to clean water.

Eagerness to give advice

A man can hide his feelings, but it will be much more difficult for him to refrain from giving advice, not helping in his own words.

Causes jealousy

Often, men deliberately force women be jealous them, and observing the reaction, they are waiting for the right moment to be there and show concern.

How to understand that a man wants you

Not everyone gets a straightforward man who can easily come up and say: “Darling, I've been thinking about sex with you". Various gestures, committed by a man on a subconscious level, will help women read the thoughts and desires of loved ones.

Hands in pockets

The very first and most striking position in which a man who wants sex gets up is his hands in his trouser pockets, while his thumbs look out. This pose indicates that the man is ready to indulge in caresses.

Pay attention to shoes

If you notice that the man is completely turned towards you, and the toes of his boots are also facing you, you know that he will not refuse to continue communication in a more intimate setting.

Looks beautiful

The simplest and most noticeable method, which is often confused with shyness. A man, at the sight of a woman he likes, begins to smooth his hair, straighten cufflinks or a tie. With such gestures, he tries to draw female attention to his beauty.

Touching lips

If a man wants to touch your lips, then he will in every possible way draw your attention to his lips. This often happens with the fingers. At such moments, women can either accept these hints or ignore them altogether.

A world for two

If a man stood in your way, covering you from the outside world with his hand, pressing against the wall, you can judge that he does not just like you. This position indicates that the man is creating a kind of world for the two of you.

An unambiguous look

The eyes can tell a lot about both a person and his desires. If you notice a man has a sexy and disturbing look, know that only desirable women are looked at this way.

These signs are basic, and indicate the desire for intimacy. At such moments, women must behave in a cultured way, otherwise you can frighten off a man.

How to understand that a man loves you

There are two signs that lead to the conclusion that a man really loves.

Feelings are reflected in behavior

Pay more attention to the man's actions and behavior, and less to the words. After all, he can say one thing, but think differently to himself, and only actions can prove the authenticity of these warm and affectionate words. Think often about what he does for you.

Is he ready to share his resources

The main resources that a man has are:

• time;
• friends;
• humor;
• life experience;
• material;

A man is ready to share his resources with his beloved woman. Ask yourself what this list has already been shared with you.

• Does he spend his free time with you?
• Does he introduce his friends to you?
• Are you ready to help in difficult times?

How to tell if a man loves his ex

If your beloved man often recalls the name of his ex, compares you to her, then he still has feelings for her. There are five signs that can help you make sure your man is still in love with his ex:

• constant talk about her (he is the initiator);
• his photographs are still kept by him;
• during sex it seems to you that the man is not with you;
• he constantly compares you to her;
• asks you to make friends.

Do not take your ex as a rival, do not become her just to please your man. Teach him to love you! Give him new emotions and sensations, do not go into conflict. Give him various compliments, praise him. If this does not help and you understand that your beloved is still carried away by his former passion, leave him ... Such a relationship does not make sense, since they will stand in one place, and every day it will only hurt you more.

How to understand that a man is married

Many men, entering into relationships with women, hide the fact that they already have a beloved wife. In order not to get into such a situation, pay attention to the behavior and male appearance... A man who definitely has a wife looks too well-groomed and neat. Also, the ring finger will help you, especially if it happens in the summer, there should be a characteristic mark on the finger from the ring that was previously removed. Married man will never let a woman into his house and will insist on meeting in a neutral place, he will be delighted if this is your apartment.

How to understand that a man left his wife

After a man leaves the family, one can observe a noticeable transformation in his behavior.

• He begins to be interested in your life. He stops complaining about his wife and doesn't use you as a pillow for crying like he did before.
• After sex, your lover is in no rush to leave. He feels the need to stay with you for a while to drink coffee or just lie in bed.
• Fewer posts about sex. He begins to wonder how your day went, how you feel, etc.
• You are allowed to call at any time of the day. Call restrictions have disappeared.
• More and more often you are talking about getting married. And if earlier he answered dryly, now there is a smile on his face.

How to understand that a man does not need you

Often, women love their men so much that they do not notice the lack of feelings in return. When a man wants to stop communicating, this happens according to the standard pattern.

• Stops calling first.
• After some time, he does not answer calls or SMS, justifying himself by the fact that "the phone is down" or "the connection was not good enough." If this happens for a long time, it's time to think about whether all is well in your relationship.
• Rare joint trips to various places, for example, a shop or a restaurant.
• In the presence of you, a man's mobile phone receives various calls, to which he answers dryly. And to the question "who called?" the standard answer is a colleague or friend.
• You stop spending all your free time together. Hanging out together on weekends is becoming less and less common.
• The man is more and more often detained on various "important" cases.
• He comes to events in splendid isolation, leaving you bored at home.
• When meeting you, he often looks at his watch.

If you feel that the connection with your man is lost, talk about parting first. And you will see with what joy and relief he will agree with this.

How to understand a man's intentions

When starting a relationship with a woman, a man can pursue various goals. Does he want a serious relationship? Or is he looking for a woman for one night? What intentions a man pursues can be said by his actions, words and even a look.

Speaking gaze

When communicating with a man, pay attention to his gaze. If his gaze is directed at various objects, especially women, ask him a question that requires thought and an accurate answer. The man's eyes were running, and he was in no hurry to answer? This should alert you. Most likely you are not interested in him, or he is hiding something.

What he won't talk about

A man who is really in love with a woman will never start talking with her about his past, or rather about what kind of women there were before her, and even more so to compare past relationships with the present. Pay attention to how he compliments. The banal words that very often sound out of his mouth are most likely empty and insincere.

Behavior

A man in love begins care and worries about the woman he loves. He remembers all the problems that his beloved has and tries to help her cope with them. He is ready at any time, postponing important matters, to run to his only one in order to help her.

Three signs of seriousness

Serious intentions can be judged on three grounds.

1. Meeting friends is a very important act for any man, so if your loved one decides on such a thing, consider it as a clear sign of a serious relationship.
2. He tells you almost all his personal, shares his innermost thoughts and ideas. For men, to open their souls is almost the same as to show their weakness, so they are able to tell everything about themselves only really beloved and unique.
3. Getting to know your parents is a really serious act that may indicate an imminent wedding or serious intentions.

Frivolous intentions

Do you notice that a man is talking more and more about your attractiveness and sexuality than about his interests, hobbies? A man who only wants sex from a woman is never truly confesses his love, the maximum that he is capable of - dry, not filled with feelings words on social networks or over the phone.

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How to understand a man by correspondence

In the modern world, more and more often people meet on social networks. Understanding a man by correspondence is much more difficult, because messages are not able to convey the full range of feelings that are inherent in words.

1. Going to your page on a social network, pay attention to whether he is online. If so, notice if he wrote you a message soon. If not, then don't write off reminding yourself and hold on to your greeting for later. Most likely, he is used to the fact that you are the first to start a conversation.
2. After you've struck up a conversation, notice how often he asks questions and whether he wants to keep the conversation going. Even a trite story about how his day went can mean that he cares about you.
3. In pursuit of getting to know you better, he will ask deeply personal questions. Watch his reaction to your answers. If he tries to somehow comment on each of your answers, this may mean that he is really interested and this is not faked.
4. A large number of emoticons, exclamation marks and smiles may indicate the presence of flirting on his part.
5. If he asks you for advice, on a particular occasion, this is a sign not only that he trusts you, but also respects your opinion.
6. The end of the conversation plays a big role. If there is little emotion in his last phrase, then he is indifferent to your communication, and he is not at all upset that the conversation is over.
7. Pay attention to how often he puts the mark "I like" under your photos, and whether he comments on your posts. If a man is interested in you, he will not disregard any of your photos.

If you understand that a man has sympathy for you on social networks, do not assume that it will be the same in life. Communication on the Internet is often very different from real life.

How to understand a man by sight

Views are so eloquent that they can tell much more about a partner than empty talk. By looking into the eyes, you can understand what a man is experiencing.

• If a man looks at a woman for a long time, then we can confidently assume that he is sympathetic.
• Did the man raise his eyebrows while talking to you? This may mean that he is interested in you.
• A look as if by chance with a smile on his lips suggests that the man is flirting.

Attention to the gaze

1. If a man's gaze falls on a woman's forehead, then we can judge that he is only interested in business.
2. If the look runs from lips to eyes and back, then the man experiences a friendly relationship.
3. A long and continuous look filled with tenderness, accompanied by a smile, can mean that a man has a deep interest in his chosen one.
4. If a man's gaze lingers just for a moment, then one can judge that he is experiencing certain feelings.
5. A frowning face with feathery eyebrows indicates that a man has antipathy.
6. The look that runs over the entire female figure informs that the man views the woman as a sexual object.

How to understand that a man is lying

Often, many men play on the trust of their beloved women. Recognizing lies early on can help save the relationship, or provide an opportunity to prepare for a breakup.

How to understand that a man will return

After parting with a loved one, women think about whether he will return or leave forever. According to statistics, in 75% of cases, men try to return back to the family to their beloved. The likelihood of a return can depend on many factors, for example: children, happily lived years, property that you have earned together.

Signs that a man wants to return

• After breaking up, the man communicates closely with your mutual acquaintances.
• Constantly offers you his help. Asks how your plumbing works and whether all the lights are on.
• A man is fully aware of all his mistakes and is ready to correct them. He is again trying to conquer his woman and become her current man.
• He tries to have an open dialogue with you. She talks about her problems, feelings and is interested in what is happening in your life.

It is worth accepting a man back only if you are ready to forgive him the past, without blaming him and not remembering this for a long time.