They tried to hide it, but we all found out

Everyone has the right to their secrets and secrets. If you are sure that you know absolutely everything about your chosen one, then most likely you are mistaken. And some information about the stronger sex may turn out to be quite unexpected, especially when it comes to love relationships. Everything you wanted to know about the hidden secrets of men, but hesitated to ask.

What men are silent about

The nature of men is arranged somewhat differently than that of women. If the majority of girls strive to throw out their emotions and feelings on a partner, share their innermost, so that in response they will be supported and regretted, then the reactions of the male representatives are much less pronounced. Due to the peculiarities of psychology, they are more secretive and tend to keep everything to themselves, hoping that they will be understood without words, on an intuitive level. In addition, a man wants to look like a real male in the eyes of his beloved, who does not know weaknesses or tears. Subconsciously, they are afraid that having told about their secrets, they will lose their masculine attractiveness to the opposite sex.

However, every woman needs to know what is going on in a man's heart and head, so it will be easier for her to understand some actions and correct her own behavior.

• Young people, unlike many women, can have intimate relationships without feeling feelings for a partner. Not every man is ready for family and children, but instincts take their toll, and they need to satisfy their physical attraction. Every time they meet a new lady, they mentally assign her a certain role. Therefore, if a man wants sex from you on the first date, most likely, he is counting only on him and a serious relationship will not shine for you. You should not agree to all the conditions that the guy offers, give him time to decide, perhaps he will change his mind and stop perceiving you as a “one-time” acquaintance.
• Deep down, every man hopes that his beloved will be faithful to him for the rest of his life. They are not ready for an open relationship in an intimate sense if they really take the girl seriously. Guys can afford to cheat and even make jokes about the fact that his significant other is free in their decisions, but this is only a defensive reaction. Some males do not commit adultery just because they are afraid of a backlash. There is no need to provoke the other half and brag about your sexual exploits in the past, loyalty is what is most appreciated by young people.
• Men, like girls, are capable of deeply feeling hurt or upset about little things, but they prefer not to demonstrate this at home. If you see the depressed state of your young man, you do not need to obsessively ask him about it, put forward ultimatums or punish him with a lack of sex, because he can easily find intimacy on the side or prefer to pour out his soul to friends while drinking alcoholic beverages. Create an atmosphere in which your beloved will be liberated and willing to express resentment himself in a confidential atmosphere. Trust is the key to any successful relationship.
• No matter how much a man loves his passion, no matter how long he has been married, he will still pay attention to attractive women. This does not mean at all that he is ready to decide on treason, but the psychology of young people implies a subconscious search for the mother of his future offspring. Only the second half can correct this, which would act for a partner in completely different roles - a friend, a mistress, a good housewife.
• Men allow lies in relationship to avoid conflicts with your beloved. Surprisingly, but the strong half of humanity is terribly afraid of quarrels, scandals and conversations in a raised voice, at this moment they feel uncomfortable and try to escape as soon as possible. So when your boyfriend talks about extracurricular work as he gathers to a bar with friends, chances are he is simply avoiding your negative reactions. To cope with this can only be a trusting attitude and acceptance that a man also has the right to personal space, his circle of communication, interests and hobbies.
• Some of their former passions, men continue to be considered wonderful women, but if you start asking questions about past relationships, you will force him to lie and come up with her non-existent flaws. And if someone from your acquaintances will reveal to you a secret about the ideal union of your beloved with another woman, then most likely it will be true. It's just that the young man does not want to make you jealous or inferior, appreciate it.
• Men hate questions about your appearance, which is what many of the fairer sex sin. They just do not consider it important enough to devote a lot of time to it and consider it idle chatter to ask if these beads fit a new handbag or how a dress looks like with these shoes. Guys appreciate the overall appearance, and besides, if he chose you as his wife, he a priori considers you the most attractive woman.

Male secrets

Some things about relationships with women, men prefer to keep secret, because they are afraid to be misunderstood, do not want to offend, or simply proceed from their own benefit. But there are secrets that significantly change the view of men. Of course, these thoughts are not shared by all guys, but most people think and act this way.

So, the relationship with a woman through the eyes of the men themselves:

• Guys fall in love with some, prefer to have sex with others, and marry others, and sometimes this is not the perfect woman they paint in their dreams. How can this be explained? A man can fall in love with a girl, but later understand that he can find better or, conversely, think that he is not worthy of her and stop showing signs of attention. Or he dreams of sleeping with a lady, but later realizes that there are more attractive options. Or communicate with a "cool" and interesting girl, and choose someone easier to marry.
• If a guy is lacking in initiative, do not flatter yourself with hopes - he is simply not interested in you and does not need to look for excuses.
• If your chosen one does not point out to you some imperfections - excess vegetation on the body or a pimple on the forehead, this does not mean that he did not notice them or he does not care.
• Men do not like to be lectured to them, although they themselves are happy to teach the other half.
• Representatives of the stronger sex know how to perform almost all female duties, but they see no reason to demonstrate this.
• Does your beloved indulge you in everything and fulfill any whims? Do not delude yourself, perhaps now he is looking for a replacement for you.
• Why men break off relations or leaving the family? There are only two reasons - they went in search of the best option or have already found it.
• Why do guys stick to some women to the last, even if they chase them? Because they think that she is the best of all, sometimes they call it love.
• Men can have sex with any woman, as long as she agrees and both are happy with everything, feelings have nothing to do with it.
• Young people hate long and boring conversations about anything, while they adore being listened to with a patient and sympathetic look.
• Men think they love only when they cannot live without one and only one.
• They do not tolerate strong and overly self-confident young ladies, it scares them.
• The male half of humanity has completely different ideas about beauty and sexuality than the female.
• If a man has long conversations with you, it means that you are not sexually attracted to him or he is afraid of you.