"Out of sight, out of mind": how to forget a guy

In every girl's life or women love happens, which often breaks the heart. Relationships do not add up, the young man leaves, but remains in his heart love and nagging pain. It is extremely difficult to forget your love and it takes a lot of time. We have to endure tears, tantrums, nights without sleep, a lot of questions and despair. No one can get out of love depression alone. How to avoid this, how to forget and start living anew, you will learn from this article.

How to Forget Your Beloved Boyfriend

Your, as you thought, second half abandoned you for the rest of your life without a twinge of conscience. If you truly loved, then such feelings cannot be quickly healed. However, in no case can one get into depression, otherwise nothing will ever pass and will not be forgotten.

You can't close yourself off from other people in your shell. Communicate with your girlfriends, with mom, grandmother, tell about your thoughts, worries, let them help you, support and give advice. Do not sit at home, visit crowded places, do not shut yourself up and your grief, and you can not drown your depression in alcohol.

To forget a loved one, it is necessary to stop all communication with him, meetings, do not follow his life, do not try to catch his eye with thoughts “what if”. Remove all reminders of him from your life: messages, notes, presents, souvenirs, photographs. Start your new life with new interests. Sign up for a dance or sports club. So that you are not visited by constant thoughts, memories of your beloved, delve into your studies, work, or, conversely, take a vacation and disappear for a while from the city (on a trip, to visit relatives in another city).

You can try to communicate with other young people on the Internet, at school, at work, or just on the street or in a cafe. However, you should not look for something familiar from an old love in a new person.

How to start living anew

After parting, many are visited by the question "how to start living anew." Yes, it is difficult, difficult, but quite feasible. If you decide to radically change your life, then you can start by moving to another city. New places, people, new work that you may like more than old, new acquaintances and men.

If you are not ready for such decisions, then you can start small. For example, change your hairstyle, hair color, wardrobe, make repairs... It is even possible to change jobs, apartments. Get yourself pet whom you will love with all your heart and will take care of him.

Chat with men, go on dates. Immerse yourself in a new love relationship, as they say, "they knock out a wedge by a wedge". The main thing to remember is that there are no irreplaceable ones. Learn patience, because it is impossible to immediately take everything to change and forget. Everything comes gradually. With the beginning of a new life, call your friends and have a bachelorette party, mark the beginning of a new and the end of an old life. You can take a short vacation and go on a small trip to the country of your dreams.

What to do, if you can't forget the boyfriend

If not you can forget your love, then, as it was written just above, show a little diligence and patience. First you need to stop idealizing him, because if he left you, then he is not so perfect. There are many other representatives of the stronger sex in the world that are much better than your ex. guy.

Start working hard on yourself, your figure, your appearance, and your career. After all, time passes, and everyone women male admiring glances and compliments are pleasant. If you did not know how to cook before, then you can go to courses, or comprehend science at home, making culinary masterpieces.

If you have any of his things left, it is better to pass it on through mutual acquaintances, or it is better to just throw it away. In no case should you date a guy, this will open up mental wounds, and the pain will return. To distract yourself from thoughts and memories, you can arrange shopping therapy, or Spa relaxation... Change your wardrobe, or simply pamper your body and soul in spa on procedures and massage. Discuss your ex-lover boyfriend with girlfriends or mom. Take it apart and find out that he is simply not worthy of you. It is better to implement all these points not separately, but together, for greater effect. Rejoice life every day! If you begin to notice that the number of compliments and glances has increased, waking up in the morning you do not think about your ex man, but that we would love to go on a date with a new man, then these are the surest signs that the pain has passed, and the former love is forgotten and remained in the past.