“Everything is wrong”: popular mistakes in sex

When there is complete trust and they can calmly discuss absolutely everything - this is wonderful. But not all couples can boast of this state of affairs in bed. Are you doing everything right? Maybe your partner is just embarrassed to tell you about something? The topic of this article is mistakes in sex. What mistakes do representatives of both sexes make in bed?

Common mistakes during sex

So, the top most common mistakes in bed:

1. The opinion that all partners are the same. Nothing of the kind. Each person has his own preferences and it is impossible to say with confidence that what others liked will absolutely please a real partner.
2. It is completely wrong to think that the genitals are all that is needed for quality sex. Fingers, tongue and sex toys   will give your partner much more positive emotions in combination with the genitals. Deep
3. - means good. Nothing of the kind. For most men, only the head of the penis is especially sensitive. In women, all the most sensitive points are located next to the entrance to the vagina. And by pushing your penis with all your might to the maximum depth you can only do  it hurts False confidence in your knowledge of the anatomy of the human genital organs. Are you sure you know where the clitoris is?.
4. G-spot or how much pleasure stimulation of the scrotum can give a partner? Many people are sure that it is normal to remain silent during sex. Absolutely not. Sex is
5. emotions . How does a person express emotions? With sounds. So you shouldn’t remain silent when it comes to sex.
6. The other extreme is excessive talkativeness. Bed is not the place to discuss the day's events or get sound advice about buying a car. If you come to have sex, discuss sex. Say what you like, tell your partner where to kiss, but nothing more.
7. Additional funds lubrication is unnecessary. Nothing of the kind. The comfort of intercourse directly depends on the amount of lubrication. If you do not want to use pharmaceutical lubricants, use oral sex. Saliva is an excellent natural lubricant. Unless, of course, partners do not forget about personal oral hygiene.

Women's mistakes in sex

Now let’s look at the most popular misconceptions of the fair half of humanity. So, men don't like:

• When the partner doesn't show initiative. Yes, men hunters and conquerors, love to dominate. But this does not mean that a lady can calmly lie soft a log. Plus, it's good for relationships to change periodically. roles, but only in bed.
• Shy ladies. If you have already undressed and gone to bed with a man, what else can you be ashamed of? Believe me, it's good excited a man will not notice at all an imperfect waist or a not-so-fresh pedicure.
• Silence. Men like it when their partner moans and demonstrates in every possible way how good she feels. Men also like to try new things, do not forget to inform your partner about your desires and preferences.
• If the partner prefers old proven methods of satisfaction and is not at all eager to try new.   New positions mean new opportunities to get sensations, which may also be new.
• Comparisons of a current partner with past ones. Even if in a favorable light for him. He is the only one, nothing like the others, and comparing a man with others is a strong insult.
• Unnecessary requirements. For example, being forced to have sex during your period. Not every man can bear the sight of blood calmly. Try to start it gently. If he takes it calmly, there will be sex. And if not, you can always pamper your partner blowjob.
• Untidy intimate area. Men are aesthetes, even if in life they wear the same pants in both winter and summer. If he doesn't want to give you oral pleasure, maybe he doesn't like seeing the hedgehog?
• Female imitation of orgasm. If your partner does not suffer from painfully low self-esteem, then it is better to be honest about what you liked and what you didn’t.

Mistakes men make in sex

What is it that lovely ladies don’t like about their partner’s behavior during sex?

1. A woman must receive orgasm from a simple “poking”. Girls don’t like the fact that a man who puffs on top for 5 minutes is confident in his superiority. Ladies want to get a long sensual first foreplay. If it was of high quality, then the sex itself, of course, can take 5 minutes. But obviously not in one position.
2. Not everyone likes roughness in bed. This is especially true for breast manipulation. The mammary gland is very delicate and sensitive, so you should not twist your nipples unless you are asked to do so.
3. The question “have you finished yet?” I think there are unnecessary comments here.
4. Sleep after sex. It’s clear that the one who was an asset gets tired. But this does not mean that immediately after completing sexual intercourse you need to turn to the wall and fall asleep with a clear conscience. Hug your partner and enjoy the tenderness.
5. Bright light. Many men prefer sex in the light; they like to watch. Girls, on the contrary, begin to think about how they look now, which disrupts the romantic mood.
6. Neglect of protective equipment. A man who does not want to use protection must demonstrate to the girl his absolute desire in the event of pregnancy to marry her and fulfill all the duties of a man. If you are not ready to get married yet, use a condom.
7. If due to some circumstances a man cannot provide prolonged intercourse, this fact cannot be ignored. You can invite your partner to continue after a short break. If you do not have such an opportunity, bring your partner to orgasm with your tongue and hands. Bed is not a place for selfishness.
8. Neglect of personal hygiene. Nobody talks about clean-shaven men “over there.” But anyone can simply take a shower and take off their socks during bed games.

Learn to discuss explicit topics and don't be afraid to try new things. High-quality sex is when both partners make it the prerogative of the other’s orgasm.