"Everything is wrong": popular mistakes in sex

When there is complete confidence and they can calmly discuss absolutely everything - that's great. But not all couples can boast of this state of affairs in bed. Are you doing everything right? Maybe your partner is just embarrassed to tell you about something? The topic of this article is mistakes in sex. What mistakes are made in bed by representatives of both sexes.

Common mistakes during sex

So, the top of the most common mistakes in bed:

1. The opinion that all partners are the same. Nothing like this. Each person has his own preferences and it is impossible to say with confidence that what others liked will definitely be liked by a real partner.
2. It is completely wrong to think that the genitals are all that is needed for quality sex. Fingers, tongue and sex toys will give the partner much more positive emotions in conjunction with the genitals.
3. Deep- okay then. Nothing like this. In most men, only the head of the penis is especially sensitive. In women, all the most sensitive points are located just next to the entrance to the vagina. And thrusting a member with all his might to the maximum depth can only be done painfully.
4. Erroneous confidence in one's knowledge of the anatomy of the human genital organs. Are you sure you know where the clitoris is, point G or how much pleasure can stimulate the scrotum for a partner?
5. Many are sure that it is normal to be silent in sex. Absolutely not. Sex is emotion... How does a person express emotions? Sounds. So in sex you should not be silent.
6. The other extreme is excessive talkativeness. The bed is not the place to discuss daytime events and get good advice about buying a car. Come to have sex - discuss sex. Say what you like, tell your partner where to kiss, but no more.
7. Additional funds unnecessary lubrication. Nothing like this. The comfort of intercourse directly depends on the amount of lubrication. If you do not want to use pharmacy lubricants, use oral sex. Saliva is an excellent natural lubricant. If, of course, partners do not forget about personal oral hygiene.

Mistakes of women in sex

And now let's look at the most popular misconceptions of the beautiful half of humanity. So, men I do not like:

• When the partner does not show initiative... Yes, men hunters and conquerors love to dominate. But this does not mean that the lady can calmly lie down soft log... Plus, it's good for a relationship to change periodically. roles But only in bed.
• Shy ladies. If you have already undressed and went to bed with a man, what else can you be ashamed of? Trust me good excited a man will not notice at all an imperfect waist or not the freshest pedicure.
• Silence. Men like it when their partner moans and in every possible way demonstrates how good she is. Also, men love to try new things, do not forget to inform your partner about your desires and preferences.
• If the partner prefers the old proven ways of satisfaction and does not at all strive to try new... New poses - new opportunities to get a sensation, which, perhaps, will also be new.
• Comparisons of the present partner with the past. Even if in a favorable light for him. He is the only one, nothing like the others, and comparing a man with others is a strong insult.
• Extra requirements. For example, being forced to have sex during your period. Not every man is able to endure the sight of blood calmly. Try turning it on gently. If he is calm about it, there will be sex. And if not, you can always pamper your partner. blowjob.
• Unkempt intimate area. Men are aesthetes, even if he himself walks in the same pants in winter and summer. If he doesn't want to give you oral pleasure, maybe he doesn't like to see the "hedgehog"?
• Female simulated orgasm. If your partner does not suffer from painfully low self-esteem, then it is better to be honest about what you liked and what you didn’t.

Mistakes of men in sex

And what does not like lovely ladies in the behavior of a partner during sex?

1. A woman must receive orgasm from a simple "poke". The girls do not like that a man who puffed on top for 5 minutes is confident in his superiority. Ladies want to get a long sensual first prelude... If it was of high quality, then the sex itself, of course, can take 5 minutes. But obviously not in the same position.
2. Not everyone likes rudeness in bed. This is especially true for breast manipulation. The mammary gland is very delicate and sensitive, so you should not twist the nipples if you have not been asked to do so.
3. The question "have you finished yet?" I think the comments are superfluous here.
4. Sleep after sex... Understandably, the one who was the asset gets tired. But this does not mean that immediately after the end of intercourse, you need to turn away to the wall and fall asleep with a clear conscience. Hug your partner, enjoy the tenderness.
5. Bright light. Many men prefer sex in the light, they like to watch. And girls, on the contrary, begin to think about how they look now, which knocks down the romantic mood.
6. Neglect of protective equipment. A man who does not want to be protected must demonstrate to the girl an absolute desire in case of pregnancy to marry her and fulfill all the duties of a man. If you are not ready to get married yet, use a condom.
7. If, due to some circumstances, a man cannot provide prolonged intercourse, this fact cannot be ignored. You can invite your partner to continue after a short break. If you do not have this opportunity, bring your partner to orgasm with your tongue and hands. The bed is not a place for selfishness.
8. Disregard for personal hygiene. Nobody talks about smooth shaving in men “there”. But it's trite to go to the shower and take off your socks during bed games, everyone can.

Learn to discuss open topics and don't be afraid to try new things. High-quality sex is when both partners make it their prerogative to have the other's orgasm.