How to make a man earn more

There is never a lot of money, a phrase known and understandable to everyone. Indeed, prices for everything are growing every day, and salaries are not keeping up with them. How to inspire a man to find a new job? Find out by reading this article.

How to inspire a man to earn more

First, I want to understand the situation. It is becoming easier for modern women to do everything on their own than to ask. Girls forget that nature created us gentle and weak. And not earning more men and doing repairs in the apartment with their own hands. Therefore, to make a man successful, start with yourself.

Basic rules to follow when transforming your husband into a millionaire:

• Stop turning on the commander. Do not nag the man, stop hinting and pinning in every possible way. When he receives an order, he wants to act exactly the opposite... Therefore, in this difficult matter, you need to act only with affection and cunning.
• Remember that you gentle and defenseless creature... Stop looking for ways out of the situation. If you don't have money for food, don't run around your friends looking for someone to re-borrow. Sit down next to the sofa and suffer. You are weak, you cannot do anything yourself. He is a man who knows how to solve problems. Only with such a position your half will begin to move. Just do not go overboard with suffering, for more than 2 days to see a gloomy half is too much. And yes, not every man understands this approach right away. You may have to repeat it in a few days.
• All your behavior should demonstrate to the man that he is in charge here. And nothing else. Only when he realizes himself as a leader, he will begin to take responsibility upon himself.
• Understand that men worry too. In their hearts, they are as emotional as the weak half of humanity. They cannot only show the strength of their emotions, the status of a man does not allow. Realize that all these scrapes at work and material difficulties bother him very, very much.
• Feeling protected next to a strong woman, the man relaxes. Do not under any circumstances demonstrate your success in your career or your ambitions. He should know you as the ideal keeper of his hearth. He shouldn't know that you run a business with an iron hand or know how to repair trains.
• The right incentive is important. A rare man is inspired by the desire to buy new furniture or dress up a child. They are selfish by nature, so the incentive should be the same. Find out what he is dreaming about and offer him to earn money for his dream. Of course, if your faithful dreams of a Cadillac Escalade, while having a salary of 8 thousand Russian rubles, he will dismiss such an incentive. Start small - a fishing rod, a game console, fancy discs for his penny. The main thing is to turn on the excitement in it.
• In a moment of turmoil, any person wants to be where it is warm and calm. In my mother's arms. And men are no exception; during the period of the black stripe, he wants to receive a motherly attitude from his half. That is, accept him as he is. Do not reproach, do not scold, do not, God forbid you, have pity on him! At such moments, a man needs the silent support of a warm and gentle wife. Hug the man and sit next to him, silently.
• Of course, it is difficult for us women to understand the world of a man. We have more incentives, more sources of inspiration, we don't get bogged down in our troubles. Understand that a man cannot love a child as much as a mother. He did not give birth to him, he does not understand these feelings. Therefore, all the consequences - to equip a house for children and so on, is not clear to him. Play on his pride - you want to have the most beautiful wife / car / apartment? And this requires money.
• Don't forget about the promotion. Any accomplishment should be praised. Yes, like a child. Yes, he is already an adult and you did not give birth to him. But without the carrot, nothing will work. He should see your sincere admiration for his actions.

How to make a millionaire out of your husband

Do you think there will be a desire to buy a new thing for a woman who saves herself and refuses everything? Unlikely. For so many years you have lived without her and you will live the same amount - this is the reaction of a man. And in some ways he is right.

Let's remember history, knights always performed feats for the sake of beautiful ladies. The ideal wife of a millionaire should manage to combine homeliness and thrift with time on herself. A man is interested in delicious pies from his beautiful wife.

For the sake of a happy shine in the eyes of his beloved, a normal man is ready to move mountains. Therefore, it is very important to constantly share your desires with a man. It’s like “oh, how nice it would be if we went on vacation to the sea. I would be the happiest! "

And, of course, a man will not try to make money for a woman who suffers from a mania to buy everything. You must be economic, be able to save and save. Want to buy only the best, because men love everything exceptional.

How to support a man

Do you know how support a man right? Without feeling sorry for him and so that he really felt it? In fact, many women make a lot of mistakes in this matter.

• Having received negative information, a woman gives free rein to her emotions. Arranges a tantrum, along the way finding out the details. All this prevents a man from opening his emotions, because of which it only makes himself worse. Always let him speak first, completely.
• Pity humiliates a man. Insults to the core. Lowers self-esteem and deprives the will to win.
• Don't thicken the paint. He himself understands perfectly well that the loss of a job threatens with hunger, fines on a loan and so on. Your panic makes him feel more guilty. Which is fraught with depression.
• Never, under any circumstances, try to find a way out of the situation on your own. Seeing your attempts to take everything upon himself, he realizes that he was attributed to weaklings.
• Also, do not poke a man in the nose with other people's merits. “And Marinka’s husband is over there…” Well, go to Marinka’s husband, he will most likely tell you. No normal man tolerates comparison, he is the only and unique. The rest simply do not exist.

At the end, I would like to add that the information from this article is suitable for normal men. But there are also those who are clogged with mother's care, who do not have a good male example in front of their eyes, or for some other reason non-standard men... Of course, you need to try classic techniques on them, but only the result is a hundred times more difficult to get with such a man. When raising a son, do not overdo it with overprotective.