Friendship sex: pros and cons

Phrase " friendship between a man and a woman has long been controversial. Some consider it possible, others categorically deny the existence of this very friendship. What about "friendly" sex"? Does it exist he, his pros and cons and whether he is needed at all - all this is you learn from this article.

Benefits of friendship sex

Surely, every woman at least once in her life thought about male friend sexually. And often such thoughts come true, especially after a couple of bottles of alcohol drunk together. And in the modern world more and more often this becomes relevant, because you don’t owe anything to anyone, you do what if you want, do not exhaust your nervous system with scandals, mutual reproaches. It has become much easier than starting a serious relationship, building a family and not cheating on your soulmate. There are certainly positive aspects in this situation, and there are many of them.

• You have known each other for a long time, you know a lot of different facts about each other. And often friends of the opposite sex discuss the topic of sex. So it's a plus at this point that you won't be pretending to be someone you're not. Here you will be yourself, with open thoughts, feelings and movements. In addition, when talking about sexual topics, both of you will know what he wants and fantasizes your friend. It is likely that with him you can open up from different angles and do what you could not do with your loved one.
• Most often friendly sex occurs in people who are not connected by any relationship. And sexual contact with a friend, or even more than one contact, can be considered as an open relationship. You don't owe each other anything no need to worry about "whether he calls or not call." Do not impersonate another person, because your friend knows you, you have common conversations, interests, you have something to talk about and places to go.
• During sex, you will not think about what awaits you, because you have known each other for a long time and talked a lot. Well, if suddenly sex fails for any reason, then all this can be translated into an ordinary friendly joke without mutual reproaches and scandals.
• Friendly sex usually boils down to the fact that there are no relationships other than sexual ones. If you or he wanted to do this sport - phoned, met, satisfied each other and parted satisfied. And you get it when you want and where you want.

Friendship sex cons

Despite all the excellent arguments and advantages of friendships in bed, there are also disadvantages that can lead to not very pleasant consequences.

Pouring into friendly sex, you should immediately understand that someday, most likely, this will all end. You or your friend will find your soul mate, start spending more time with him, and not with a friend, and as a result, friendships will fall apart. After all, what kind of man will endure next to his half of her boyfriend, with whom she slept. And a woman, too, will not tolerate a rival next to her, albeit a former one.

Friendship sex is dangerous because at one point one of the friends can fall in love in another, and unrequited. Of course, it happens that the relationship between friends grow into something more, but this is an extremely rare case. It usually happens that if someone falls in love, then you lose not only a sex partner, but also a true friend.

Is it worth it to organize sex for friendship?

Having learned more about the issue of “friendly sex”, you involuntarily begin to wonder if it is needed at all? After all, in case of failure, you will lose a loved one, long-familiar the person with whom you were so good in all plans. All this can be avoided if you follow some unspoken rules:

• Never lie, it's better to immediately put all the dots over the "i" and do not give false hopes and promises to each other.
• It is better to keep your sexual relationship with your best friend a secret, do not dedicate girlfriends, sisters and parents to your difficult relationship, let everything go on as usual.
• If you take a friendly sex like friendly sex, then everything will be fine. Don't fall in love in someone with whom most likely there is no future. It is better to be sure that it will be mutual, or not to fall in love at all.
• If a friend in bed refuses to meet, in no case don't make scandals, tantrums with cries of "how could you." You are friends, which means that he is not obliged to run to you at the first call, treat this with understanding and ease. It didn't work this time, it will work next time.