Friendship sex: pros and cons

The phrase " friendship between a man and a woman"has been controversial for a long time. Some consider it possible, others categorically deny the existence of this very friendship. What about "friendly" sex"? Is there it, its pros and cons and whether it is needed at all - it’s all up to you find out from this article.

Sex for friendship - advantages

Surely, every woman has thought about male friend sexually. And often such thoughts come true, especially after drinking a couple of bottles of alcohol together. And in the modern world more and more often this is becoming relevant, because you don’t owe anyone anything, you do what If you want, don’t exhaust your nervous system with scandals and mutual reproaches. It has become much easier than starting a serious relationship, building a family and not cheating on your significant other. There are undoubtedly positive aspects to this situation, and there are many of them.

• You have known each other for a long time, you know many different facts about each other. And often friends of the opposite sex discuss the topic of sex. So the plus at this point is that you won’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Here you will be yourself, with open thoughts, feelings and movements. In addition, when communicating about sexual topics, you will both know what he wishes and your friend fantasizes. It is likely that with it you will be able open up from different sides and do what you couldn’t do with your loved one.
• Most often friendly sex occurs in people who are not connected by any relationship. And sexual contact with a friend, or even more than one contact, can be considered an open relationship. You don't owe each other anything no need to worry about whether he will call or not will call." You will not impersonate another person, because your friend knows you, you have common conversations, interests, you have something to talk about and where to go.
• During sex, you will not think about what awaits you, because you have known each other for a long time and have talked a lot. Well, if sex suddenly breaks down for some reason, then all this can be translated into an ordinary friendly joke without mutual reproaches and scandals.
• Friendly sex usually boils down to the fact that there are no relationships other than sexual ones. If you or he wanted to take up this sport, we called each other, met, satisfied each other and parted ways satisfied. And you get it whenever you want and wherever you want.

Sex for friendship cons

Despite all the excellent arguments and advantages of friendly relations in bed, there are also disadvantages that can lead to not very pleasant consequences.

When joining friendly sex, you should immediately understand that someday, most likely, it will all end. You or your friend will find your soulmate, start spending more time with him rather than with your friend, and eventually the friendship will fall apart. After all, what kind of man would tolerate her boyfriend, with whom she slept, next to his soul mate? And a woman will also not tolerate a rival next to her, even a former one.

Friendship sex is dangerous because at one point one of the friends may fall in love in another, and unrequited. Of course, it happens that relationships between friends grow into something more, but this is an extremely rare case. It usually happens that if someone falls in love, you lose not only your sex partner, but also your true friend.

Is it worth organizing sex for friendship?

Having learned more about the issue of “friendly sex,” you involuntarily begin to wonder whether it is necessary at all? After all, if you fail, you will lose a loved one, long-familiar the person with whom you felt so good in all plans. All this can be avoided if you follow some unspoken rules:

• Never lie, it’s better to dot all the i’s right away   and do not give false hopes and promises to each other. It’s better to leave your sexual relationship with your best friend a secret; you shouldn’t let your girlfriends, sisters and parents into your difficult relationship, let everything take its course.
• If you perceive friendly
• sex like friendly sex, everything will be fine. Don't fall in love in someone with whom there is most likely no future. It is better to be sure that it will be mutual, or not to fall in love at all. If a bed friend refuses to meet, under no circumstances
• you can't make scandals, hysterics with shouts of “how could you.” You are friends, which means he is not obliged to run to you at the first call, treat this with understanding and ease. It didn’t work out this time, it will work out next time.