Female wisdom

"Be wiser!" - daughters often hear from their mothers. But what does it mean to show wisdom: to indulge a man in everything, forgetting about his interests, or to see only positive in everything, avoiding problems? All these are polar concepts that have nothing to do with female wisdom. So what is it and how to achieve it? We will try to answer these questions.

What is female wisdom

The presence of wisdom allows you to look at what is happening not narrowly, but comprehensively, assessing the implications, taking into account past experience and the consequences for the future. That is, a woman actively uses the accumulated life experience, experienced problems in order to avoid them in the future, to turn the situation in the best possible way.

Such a lady has a positive outlook on life, mood swings it rarely happens. She is always in a good mood, inner self-confidence does not allow small failures to upset her. In communicating with such a woman, anyone feels like a heard and interesting interlocutor. Direct eye contact allows the partner to open up and the woman to hear the truth. But if the lady is not ready to receive unpleasant news, then she will postpone the conversation frankly until the moment when she can take control of the situation and find a way out.

Wise woman confident in my abilities, knows what he wants, and what he can really count on. External softness should not deceive, inside it can be very tough and firmly defend its interests, without offending partner... Direct contact, quarrels, screaming are not her methods. Drastic measures rarely lead to the desired result, so she will first think over the course of the conversation, and then start it.

This valuable quality allows her to have good relationships with colleagues at work and with family at home. She tries not to use rude and offensive words in conversations, not to give vent to resentments and emotions under the influence of the moment. Weaknesses of the interlocutor are not emphasized. For a wise woman, the main thing is not to emerge victorious from the dispute, but to solve the problem so that both partners are comfortable. Respect and harmony reign in her house.

How to become a wise woman

It is hardly possible to be born wise or become wise overnight. Reasonableness combined with life experience, the ability to learn a lesson and draw conclusions are essential components of female wisdom. However, over time you can become wiser, you just need to follow the recommendations of psychologists.

1. Learn to use your knowledge. An educated intellectual is not always wise. Even if you attend psychology trainings, read special literature, take courses, this does not mean that you will be able to apply all your knowledge in everyday life. It is important to be able to use theory in practice.
2. Learn to plan and anticipate how this or that situation may end. Influence the situation so that the outcome is as positive as possible. Take into account the previous mistakes, do not be afraid of them. As a rule, it is only after failures that we begin to analyze what is happening. Understanding and analyzing are the main aspects of female wisdom. Do not start a conversation with claims, imagine your partner's reaction to such words.
3. Learn to identify factors that are within your control and beyond. It is not worth spending energy on changing the course of things if it is not in your power. It is impossible to change the weather or your own height. And you can change jobs, get a new haircut or find a new hobby.

Women's wisdom in relationships

The manifestation of female wisdom is not a pledge family happiness, but its presence allows you to make the relationship harmonious. A wife should not forget for what qualities she fell in love with her man. In quarrels, never question the authority of your spouse, do not impose your opinion on him. Only your faith in a man, his strength and courage will make him confident in himself.

In a relationship with a man, you cannot try to control everything, put pressure on a man or roll up scenes of jealousy. But letting the relationship take its course, showing indifference is also not worth it.

To keep the relationship happy, follow the recommendations of psychologists:

• Think about what you say during fights. Resentment leads to the emergence of indecision and lack of initiative in men. Maybe, he will start looking a wiser and more reserved partner.
• Don't be too gentle and don't use affectionate nicknames for your partner in the company of other people. A man should look strong and courageous in the eyes of others.
• Do not make fun of his hobbies and hobbies, even the most unusual ones. It is advisable to share his interests, but if it does not work out or does not want to at all, then just accept them. When your partner is busy, take some time for yourself.
• When attracting a man to household chores, do not press, but gently ask for help. Let him understand that you also have family responsibilities, and cleaning together is much faster and more interesting.
• Do not provoke quarrels conflicts if the reason is minor troubles or your bad mood. Coming home, the partner is looking for peace, quiet and comfort. Hug him, talk about business and all disagreements will be resolved peacefully. And the man will be grateful for the wisdom and silence in the house. A calm and self-confident man achieves a lot for his half.

A happy relationship with a man is 80% dependent on the wisdom of a woman. The absence of rash actions will make your life easier and calmer. And lessons learned from past mistakes will save you from new ones.